Must you call me everyday, three and four times a day? And if I didn't want to talk you at 6:00pm on a weeknight, what would make you think calling me on the weekend at 8:00am would be any better. You got one more time to call me so early talking nonsense that could have waited until after noon. I mean we really aint cool like that for you to keep calling me like you do.
If you didn't always have an attitude and if you didn't take things so personal whenever we did talk, maybe I would be more willing to talk things out with you. And maybe we would get along better if you trusted me to call you back when I say I will but no, before I can call you, here you go calling me again. You really don't want to get into a battle of wills with me cause trust me, you won't win. The more you call the more I'll ignore you.
I'll have to end this letter here because the phone keeps ringing and distracting me. When I go look at the caller id, it better not be you calling.
Sincerely,
518-555-5555
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
The day has just began and you are already on my nerves!! Please do not come to me and ask if I am busy because you need to ask me a question...my reply should have been 'no I'm not busy, I always sit with the phone up to my d**m ear' but instead I had to look at you and give you a smile and point at the phone instead of saying b**ch please!!!!!!!!
I am NOT the only person who can answer questions and my job is not to be your personal 'question answerer' so please don't "f" with me so early in the a.m....could I atleast get my Mt. Dew in my system first?!?!?!?
Why do you hate yourself so much? Why do you stare at another sister and wisper to your girls that "I can't stand her, she thinks she's cute". You don't know her, why do you hate her? Why does being different make you hate someone so much. Parents, teach your daughters to love themselves so that when they are out in public they don't act like classless hoodrats!!!! Why are you so addicted to drama? Why do you think that fighting is the only way to handle things? When will you learn to love yourself and each other? Why are you so angry? Why do you think that intimidation and negativity are the only way that you can deal with another young black woman? Young ladies, we have enough hating from the others, why must we continue to do it to ourselves. When I look at television our young teenage girls are so ruthless, in some cases you are worse than the guys. Why? What are you accomplishing? Black people, male and female, young and old, let's start loving one another -- in word and in deed.
(This is being written after a young woman threw an ice cube at my daughter while she was in the cafeteria eating. My daughter was also cornered in the ladies room by the same group of hoodrats, about "why she is always in the bathroom so much". I always thought that bathroom time was private time and off limits! When did we start resorting to explaining why we are in the bathroom. Why are you always trying to provoke a confrontation? Can you imagine??? She was also asked if her mid-back length hair was a weeve. Who cares???? It is all natural, why can't people find something else to do with their time!!!! What the *ell is wrong with people. Grow up, you are in college now -- you are no longer in the hood -- take advantage of the education that you are supposed to be getting. A lot was sacrificed so that you can enjoy life as you do today!!!!!)
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Why do you hate yourself so much? Why do you stare at another sister and wisper to your girls that "I can't stand her, she thinks she's cute". You don't know her, why do you hate her? Why does being different make you hate someone so much. Parents, teach your daughters to love themselves so that when they are out in public they don't act like classless hoodrats!!!! Why are you so addicted to drama? Why do you think that fighting is the only way to handle things? When will you learn to love yourself and each other? Why are you so angry? Why do you think that intimidation and negativity are the only way that you can deal with another young black woman? Young ladies, we have enough hating from the others, why must we continue to do it to ourselves. When I look at television our young teenage girls are so ruthless, in some cases you are worse than the guys. Why? What are you accomplishing? Black people, male and female, young and old, let's start loving one another -- in word and in deed.
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Preach Rhony!!! :)
Why do you hate yourself so much? Why do you stare at another sister and wisper to your girls that "I can't stand her, she thinks she's cute". You don't know her, why do you hate her? Why does being different make you hate someone so much. Parents, teach your daughters to love themselves so that when they are out in public they don't act like classless hoodrats!!!! Why are you so addicted to drama? Why do you think that fighting is the only way to handle things? When will you learn to love yourself and each other? Why are you so angry? Why do you think that intimidation and negativity are the only way that you can deal with another young black woman? Young ladies, we have enough hating from the others, why must we continue to do it to ourselves. When I look at television our young teenage girls are so ruthless, in some cases you are worse than the guys. Why? What are you accomplishing? Black people, male and female, young and old, let's start loving one another -- in word and in deed.
(This is being written after a young woman threw an ice cube at my daughter while she was in the cafeteria eating. My daughter was also cornered in the ladies room by the same group of hoodrats, about "why she is always in the bathroom so much". I always thought that bathroom time was private time and off limits! When did we start resorting to explaining why we are in the bathroom. Why are you always trying to provoke a confrontation? Can you imagine??? She was also asked if her mid-back length hair was a weeve. Who cares???? It is all natural, why can't people find something else to do with their time!!!! What the *ell is wrong with people. Grow up, you are in college now -- you are no longer in the hood -- take advantage of the education that you are supposed to be getting. A lot was sacrificed so that you can enjoy life as you do today!!!!!)
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Whoa! Rhonda, after I read your comment I thought this was a high school or junior high situation. This happened at your daughter's college? I never heard of such immaturity in college. Wow!
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(This is being written after a young woman threw an ice cube at my daughter while she was in the cafeteria eating. My daughter was also cornered in the ladies room by the same group of hoodrats, about "why she is always in the bathroom so much". I always thought that bathroom time was private time and off limits! When did we start resorting to explaining why we are in the bathroom. Why are you always trying to provoke a confrontation? Can you imagine??? She was also asked if her mid-back length hair was a weeve. Who cares???? It is all natural, why can't people find something else to do with their time!!!! What the *ell is wrong with people. Grow up, you are in college now -- you are no longer in the hood -- take advantage of the education that you are supposed to be getting. A lot was sacrificed so that you can enjoy life as you do today!!!!!)
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wow...this is a shame! I pray that your daughter continues to be and act like the lady you have raised her to be and not stoop to these "little girls" levels (that is the angel on my shoulder talking)
On the other hand-if the antics do continue, I hope she gets the opportunity to beat their dumb azzes!!! (sorry, that is the devil on the other shoulder :)
Yes ViPrincessBride, these incidents happened at my daughter's college. They attend a private Jesuit college. My daughter is the type of person that tries to make friends with everyone. She continues to try and say "hello" to these girls when she sees them and they role their eyes and bump her in the hall. I told her to respect their position and leave those sorry "children" alone!!!!! I also told her to report the ice throwing incident so that things don't escalate. Enough is enough already!!!!!!
Soon2bmrsj, you can imagine my position as a parent. Although I am a very proud Christian, the human side of me wants to go and HANDLE it -- LOL!!! (My daughter is nothing like me and wants to believe in the good in everyone. She is not a fighter and wants everyone to get along. She is petite barely 5ft tall, size 4.) I have the angel and devil talking to me too -- LOL!!!! Yall pray for me -- LOL!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
That's why you are happy Sensation, believe me it comes across. :-)
My daughter is a happy person too and perhaps that's why she wants to see the best in everyone. That is a good thing, but I want her to understand that sometimes you have to see people for who they are.
Thanks for the prayer, because I'm going to need it -- LOL!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
It's called D-E-L-I-V-E-R-Y!!! not "Meet You Half Way". Please stop calling me to tell me to come get my food, and your up the block still in your car. I hate coming to your car to get my delivery!!! Truth be told you aint no safer in your car than you are at my door! So please DELIVER my pizza to me.
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Yes ViPrincessBride, these incidents happened at my daughter's college. They attend a private Jesuit college. My daughter is the type of person that tries to make friends with everyone. She continues to try and say "hello" to these girls when she sees them and they role their eyes and bump her in the hall. I told her to respect their position and leave those sorry "children" alone!!!!! I also told her to report the ice throwing incident so that things don't escalate. Enough is enough already!!!!!!
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If anything, I think that usually kids in college like to try to act as adult as possible. They want to show their independence to their parents and everyone, so they do things like take on leadership roles in different campus organizations. They can even do stupid things like drinking to excess because they want be grown so much...but the way these girls are treating your daughter, they seriously need to grow-up. The last time I heard about that type of behavior was in junior high.
In college, if you think someone is strange or different from you, you usually leave them be or you talk to them to get to know them.
These girls just don't know how to act. Honestly. That's bullying and harassment, especially with throwing things. If their behavior continues, your daughter should take it to the administration. I'm pretty sure that there are school policies against harassment there.
People always like to bully those whom they think are weaker than them, but it's the quiet dog that bites the hardest. She should tell them not to mistake her kindness for weakness. At the same time, she shouldn't get into any altercations with them to get herself expelled. Tell her to keep a journal of everything they do to harass her, she should even tape them if she can.
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Yes ViPrincessBride, these incidents happened at my daughter's college. They attend a private Jesuit college. My daughter is the type of person that tries to make friends with everyone. She continues to try and say "hello" to these girls when she sees them and they role their eyes and bump her in the hall. I told her to respect their position and leave those sorry "children" alone!!!!! I also told her to report the ice throwing incident so that things don't escalate. Enough is enough already!!!!!!
Soon2bmrsj, you can imagine my position as a parent. Although I am a very proud Christian, the human side of me wants to go and HANDLE it -- LOL!!! (My daughter is nothing like me and wants to believe in the good in everyone. She is not a fighter and wants everyone to get along. She is petite barely 5ft tall, size 4.) I have the angel and devil talking to me too -- LOL!!!! Yall pray for me -- LOL!
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Unfortunately is happens even beyond college. I have moved here to GA and have had the same kind of issues with the "so called" women I work with. I am "not" the favorite there because I am from "up top" as they call it. As for me, I am like your daughter, I dont care, I am a person first where I am from does not matter. These examples are why we have so many problems why is it that we can't just get along, they are there for a purpose to GO TO SCHOOL AND GET EDUCATED. Your daughter is such a sweet girl and she is beautiful and that is why she is a target!
Thanks for the advice ViPrincessBride, you are right that is harrassment. I haven't seen this kind of behavior since junior high school either. It just really saddens me.
Iesha, it is really unfortunate that grown women don't know how to act. Children that don't know how to love themselves usually grow up into full grown women (or men for that matter) who don't love themselves. You are a great person Ieasha, beautiful inside and out, they would see that if they weren't so busy being insecure, hateful and crazy.
I pray for my daughter's safety. I asked my daughter if she reported the incident and she is reluctant for fear of retaliation and isolation from the other students. I'm trying to show my daughter that harrassment on any level is UNACCEPTABLE. I am two seconds from dragging her to Administration! (But I don't because she must learn to stand up for herself). I pray for a peaceful resolution.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="ieasha"] Unfortunately is happens even beyond college. I have moved here to GA and have had the same kind of issues with the "so called" women I work with. I am "not" the favorite there because I am from "up top" as they call it. As for me, I am like your daughter, I dont care, I am a person first where I am from does not matter. These examples are why we have so many problems why is it that we can't just get along, they are there for a purpose to GO TO SCHOOL AND GET EDUCATED. Your daughter is such a sweet girl and she is beautiful and that is why she is a target!
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Iesha, how are they harassing you? I think it's one thing to talk about somebody, but if the person is getting physical with you or verbally abusing you, or threatening you in any way. No, no, no. Most companies and colleges have harassment policies. Nobody has to take anybody's mess. At my old job, I had one stupid, young, immature character (just out of college) send me a ridiculing e-mail. He then took a few days off for vacation. So, when I came to work on Monday and read this e-mail. I was steamed! I typed up a response sending it to him and copying my supervisors as well as his supervisors. When the supervisors read it, right away they wanted to set-up a meeting for us to discuss it. Oh, he was apologizing all over the place. They knew I would take that s@&t to HR in a heartbeat.
VIPrincessbride/wife (smile) I get the emails, I have forward them, I get harrassed in the bathroom, I ignore it, the HR at this company thinks its school girl actions so they kind of write it off.
I am not worried about them, I am there for a purpose which is to work. Those who can see me for who I am and not where I am from have an advantage and the rest of them, they get no love.
Ronny I understand where your daughter is coming from those type of people always find some way of retaliating and most of the time by then its too late the damage is done. She will be ok you keep praying for her but she will be ok!
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]I pray for my daughter's safety. I asked my daughter if she reported the incident and she is reluctant for fear of retaliation and isolation from the other students. I'm trying to show my daughter that harrassment on any level is UNACCEPTABLE. I am two seconds from dragging her to Administration! (But I don't because she must learn to stand up for herself). I pray for a peaceful resolution.
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I understand that your daughter is fearful, but at the same time, it's her fear that gives these insecure girls power to believe that they can do whatever they want to do. Eventually, they may get bored. You'll have to pray and see what happens. It's at these times that your daughter might also not want to tell you about everything that happens because she doesn't want you worrying about her. The devil just lives in some people.
[quote="ieasha"]VIPrincessbride/wife (smile) I get the emails, I have forward them, I get harrassed in the bathroom, I ignore it, the HR at this company thinks its school girl actions so they kind of write it off.
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School girl actions? Some of these business people amaze me. So, why are they hiring school girls? They're not interns, right? That's some nonsense.
I can certainly understand why people go into business for themselves.
You lied to me! I went to see gym scale today and he was 10 lbs more than you, oh how you decieve me. Because of you, I started thinking a little more positive like I lost weight or something, when in all reality you're just wrong. Yes, I asked around to see if the gym scale could be lying but it's not. It is you.
[quote="ieasha"]Ronny I understand where your daughter is coming from those type of people always find some way of retaliating and most of the time by then its too late the damage is done. She will be ok you keep praying for her but she will be ok!
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Thank you Ieasha, that's what I am believing! You hang in there too my friend. Be encouraged!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="VIPrincessBride"]I understand that your daughter is fearful, but at the same time, it's her fear that gives these insecure girls power to believe that they can do whatever they want to do. Eventually, they may get bored. You'll have to pray and see what happens. It's at these times that your daughter might also not want to tell you about everything that happens because she doesn't want you worrying about her. The devil just lives in some people.
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I hope they will get bored or find something else to do that doesn't involve intimidation or preying on other people. I truly believe that you reap what you sow and life is going to teach these young women a lesson that they will never forget.
Since my daughter is an only child she's always told me everything because we are very close. I don't want her to not tell me something, I may just have to change my reaction when she tells me something.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
You lied to me! I went to see gym scale today and he was 10 lbs more than you, oh how you decieve me. Because of you, I started thinking a little more positive like I lost weight or something, when in all reality you're just wrong. Yes, I asked around to see if the gym scale could be lying but it's not. It is you.
Sincerely,
Your angry user
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I'm sorry Sensation, gurl that is too funny!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
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I hope they will get bored or find something else to do that doesn't involve intimidation or preying on other people. I truly believe that you reap what you sow and life is going to teach these young women a lesson that they will never forget.
Since my daughter is an only child she's always told me everything because we are very close. I don't want her to not tell me something, I may just have to change my reaction when she tells me something.
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Rhonda, that's excellent that she talks to you. I hope your daughter also makes some nice friends that she can hang with. There's truth behind the statement that "there's safety in numbers." They would be less likely to antagonize her if they saw she had some buddies, male and/or female...maybe some tall athletic girls who look like they could whoop their azzes.
NEWSFLASH! we are getting married in November get over it! There is nothing you can or ever will do to break that up. You have been trying for so long to "make" him believe that we are not meant for each other but guess what, he can see through you and so can I. Why do you think he wont return your phone calls after you stated that you were cool with being friends and you just wanted to be there for him? I know! because he saw that you obviously thought that using a a whack a** friendship as an excuse was gonna make him come back to you. Well guess what, it didnt work and he loves me more than ever. Here's a thought, teach your daughter how to love the man she's with instead of trying to steal someone else's cause Im pretty sure she wants to know why mommy and daddy are always arguing. Work on your marriage and stop trying to wreck mine cause its not gonna work.
P.S. and to my wonderful FH, I love you so much baby, no matter what I know I can always count on you to stay one step ahead of some of these conniving a** females trying to break up the blessing that we have.
Dear Neighbor Across the Hall,
It does not make any sense at all to me why your apartment is so messy and smells so bad. I just cant believe that when you were taking the laundry out for washing that I could actually smell the dirt/nastiness. You have 4 girls, there is no reason they or them clothes should smell that bad. they are old enough to know well about hygiene and I know you d@mn sure are. Can you please take care of that cause you making my stomach hurt.
[quote="Shy41208"]Dear Neighbor Across the Hall,
It does not make any sense at all to me why your apartment is so messy and smells so bad. I just cant believe that when you were taking the laundry out for washing that I could actually smell the dirt/nastiness. You have 4 girls, there is no reason they or them clothes should smell that bad. they are old enough to know well about hygiene and I know you d@mn sure are. Can you please take care of that cause you making my stomach hurt.
sincerely,
your sick neighbor
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LOL...making your stomach hurt!!!!!!!!!! LMAO
[quote="Shy41208"]Dear Neighbor Across the Hall,
It does not make any sense at all to me why your apartment is so messy and smells so bad. I just cant believe that when you were taking the laundry out for washing that I could actually smell the dirt/nastiness. You have 4 girls, there is no reason they or them clothes should smell that bad. they are old enough to know well about hygiene and I know you d@mn sure are. Can you please take care of that cause you making my stomach hurt.
sincerely,
your sick neighbor
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Oh No!!!!! I just lost it! That is just a shame!!!! Um Um Um. Does she have a man? Most men don't like a natsy house. I live with Felix Unger the neat guy from the Odd Couple -- LOL!!! He would never stand for that (neither would I for that matter eeewww!)
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="phenomonique"]Hey you little Indian lady at the laundry:
Teach your child some manners!!! I meant it when I told you 'if Padjah hits me with the cart one more again, I'm gonna stick your azz in a dyer'. You may let him get away with that at home but in the great big world that crap ain't cute! I like children and don't believe in harming them so my thinking is, when he sees mommy all balled the hell up in a dyer tied up in her pashmina, he'll tighten up.
Bah bye
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OMG Niquey! You are going to get me fired I'm laughing so hard! I can just see a little Indian lady twirling around in a dryer with all those colors swirling around! LMAO!
OMG Niquey! You are going to get me fired I'm laughing so hard! I can just see a little Indian lady twirling around in a dryer with all those colors swirling around! LMAO!
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And you painted an even more vivid picture, LOL!!! Too funny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="Shy41208"]yes she does have a man, he is a mess too. I went to highschool with him and he dont look, dress or act any different-just a mess!
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well..nasty + nasty=a d**m shame for 2 grown azz people!!!!!!
I have another.
Dear upstairs neighbor,
I feel that you have a very low self esteem and your standards for men are very low. I have been living in the building for 4 years now and you have been getting beat since then, first your daughters' father and now your new bf. It's not my business but i am worried about them little girls. they should not be ringing my doorbell at 5 in the morning because they got locked out while you and BF were fighting. why do you subject them to that, and put your men first. they should not be sleeping on pallets on the floor while you, bf and your cousin have beds! it's not right!!! they see this behavior and may grow up and think this is the way of life and how they should be treated.. It's not... please do better for yourself and those babies.
Wow Shy that one is a tear jerker! OMG what kind of a woman would put her babies on the floor why her and the other adults are chilling in a bed!
Lawd hammercy and to subject them to watching/hearing you getting beat. UNACCEPTABLE! I pray that God has mercy on those children and that your neighbor wakes up and gets to the point in her life where she BELIEVES that she deserves and can have better!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
They fight constantly and make up an hour later or so after they sober up. i have known him for many years, i have never known him to be that way, they really fight each other but he does have that upper hand on her. he leaves and she's the one that always wants him to come back. it's crazy, my stepdad owns the building, he has been working to get them and their drama out for a while now.
[quote="Shy41208"]They fight constantly and make up an hour later or so after they sober up. i have known him for many years, i have never known him to be that way, they really fight each other but he does have that upper hand on her. he leaves and she's the one that always wants him to come back. it's crazy, my stepdad owns the building, he has been working to get them and their drama out for a while now.
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That's wild.
[quote="Shy41208"]I have another.
Dear upstairs neighbor,
I feel that you have a very low self esteem and your standards for men are very low. I have been living in the building for 4 years now and you have been getting beat since then, first your daughters' father and now your new bf. It's not my business but i am worried about them little girls. they should not be ringing my doorbell at 5 in the morning because they got locked out while you and BF were fighting. why do you subject them to that, and put your men first. they should not be sleeping on pallets on the floor while you, bf and your cousin have beds! it's not right!!! they see this behavior and may grow up and think this is the way of life and how they should be treated.. It's not... please do better for yourself and those babies.
your concerned neighbor
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hate to play the devils advocate, but DFS do take anonymous calls...if she is treating these babies this way then she doesn't deserve to have them!! secondly, she is not a very positive role model for her daughters by allowing this behavior to continue (drunken brawls etc) he ain't off the hook either!!! what low down dirty dog of a man would allow a woman to put her children on a pallet while his rusty azz lays in a bed??!?!? just TRIFILING!!!!!!
Girl, you already knew your DH was a caveman when you married him. you were just in denial thinking he would change after ya'll said I do. So when you come home and he is stretched out on the couch in his birthday suit, just be glad you weren't coming home and your baby sister or other friend wasn't with you. Just remind yourself that he is just being a little beast.
Bumble, why get mad when you come home and find your DH in his birthday suit? Shoot, he's just waiting for you willing, ready, and able. So, jump those bones!
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Thats the thing, he and even worrying about me, thats just how he rolls at home. I mean one weekend (just when I didn't think my husband could surprise me anymore) he didn't wear clothes from Friday evening....all the way until Sunday night... AND I was too ill to go to church that Sunday!....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
[quote="Bumblebeekee] Thats the thing, he and even worrying about me, thats just how he rolls at home. I mean one weekend (just when I didn't think my husband could surprise me anymore) he didn't wear clothes from Friday evening....all the way until Sunday night... AND I was too ill to go to church that Sunday!....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
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ROTFLMAO! Oh, say it ain't so! Girl, he thinks he's still a bachelor, that's why.
When you all have children he won't be able to do that again until they leave for college. So, let him enjoy himself while he can. You should join him. Then you'll be like Adam and Eve. Very liberating!
What the hell you mean you are going to start charging a $25 annual service fee for child support services. Whose bright idea was this? Will this service fee get me my money any sooner or will it still take you two days to deposit it into my account. Will this fee be used to pay for additional staff that can devote their time to finding these deadbeat mofos who hide from thier responsibilities, who feel they can pay a month, skip three months, and then pay one more. Will this fee help you to find the truth about his undisclosed income? And why doesn't this fee apply to anyone who has ever received public assisstance? So because I decided not turn to the goverment for assistance, now I must pay. Ain't that like charging me twice? Taxing me for the public assistance and charging me for child support. WTF!!!
Sincerely,
A Mother being screwed
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Since high school, I've always thought we were unique and exotic. Now i look back at pictures and find that you made me the cliche, the light-skinned hairy girl who doesn't know she looks like Bert. Now that i'm older i know how to tame and shape you but you grow so fast that I wake up one day and there are caterpillars on my face. Get this straight eyebrows, i own you. So stay put, don't get curly, don't join hands, and stop growing so damn fast. I have a day job!
Dear people who don't know how to merge or change lanes,
You are idiots! How can you get in front of me if we're BOTH slowing down? I don't owe you anything. I'm all for defensive driving but sometimes I get fed up. The little voice inside says, stay put Musik, don't let em in. Then when i'm feeling generous and give you all the room, you are not even PLANNING to merge, you just leave that ding-dang blinker on for 3 exits. Does it make me a bad person when i'm shocked that you aren't asian or old? Anyway, get it it together! Some of us are actually on our our way somewhere. GET OFF!
Sincerely,
girl who usually merges and changes lanes considerately
Since high school, I've always thought we were unique and exotic. Now i look back at pictures and find that you made me the cliche, the light-skinned hairy girl who doesn't know she looks like Bert. Now that i'm older i know how to tame and shape you but you grow so fast that I wake up one day and there are caterpillars on my face. Get this straight eyebrows, i own you. So stay put, don't get curly, don't join hands, and stop growing so damn fast. I have a day job!
Sincerely,
your face
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Musik you made me smile with this one! LOL!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="BumblebeekeeThats the thing, he and even worrying about me, thats just how he rolls at home. I mean one weekend (just when I didn't think my husband could surprise me anymore) he didn't wear clothes from Friday evening....all the way until Sunday night... AND I was too ill to go to church that Sunday!....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
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LMAO-Bumble, I know you are exaggerating!!!!!!! from Fri-Sun?!?!? girl, I am laughing so hard over here in my office these folks are looking at me like I am crazy!!!!!!!!!!
Dear 800#,
Must you call me everyday, three and four times a day? And if I didn't want to talk you at 6:00pm on a weeknight, what would make you think calling me on the weekend at 8:00am would be any better. You got one more time to call me so early talking nonsense that could have waited until after noon. I mean we really aint cool like that for you to keep calling me like you do.
If you didn't always have an attitude and if you didn't take things so personal whenever we did talk, maybe I would be more willing to talk things out with you. And maybe we would get along better if you trusted me to call you back when I say I will but no, before I can call you, here you go calling me again. You really don't want to get into a battle of wills with me cause trust me, you won't win. The more you call the more I'll ignore you.
I'll have to end this letter here because the phone keeps ringing and distracting me. When I go look at the caller id, it better not be you calling.
Sincerely,
518-555-5555
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Dear Co-worker:
The day has just began and you are already on my nerves!! Please do not come to me and ask if I am busy because you need to ask me a question...my reply should have been 'no I'm not busy, I always sit with the phone up to my d**m ear' but instead I had to look at you and give you a smile and point at the phone instead of saying b**ch please!!!!!!!!
I am NOT the only person who can answer questions and my job is not to be your personal 'question answerer' so please don't "f" with me so early in the a.m....could I atleast get my Mt. Dew in my system first?!?!?!?
Sincerely,
You co-worker who is 'ret' to cuss you out
LOL, you ladies are hilarious.
Yeah really funny keep it comin!
Each One Teach One!
Dear Youngies,
Why do you hate yourself so much? Why do you stare at another sister and wisper to your girls that "I can't stand her, she thinks she's cute". You don't know her, why do you hate her? Why does being different make you hate someone so much. Parents, teach your daughters to love themselves so that when they are out in public they don't act like classless hoodrats!!!! Why are you so addicted to drama? Why do you think that fighting is the only way to handle things? When will you learn to love yourself and each other? Why are you so angry? Why do you think that intimidation and negativity are the only way that you can deal with another young black woman? Young ladies, we have enough hating from the others, why must we continue to do it to ourselves. When I look at television our young teenage girls are so ruthless, in some cases you are worse than the guys. Why? What are you accomplishing? Black people, male and female, young and old, let's start loving one another -- in word and in deed.
(This is being written after a young woman threw an ice cube at my daughter while she was in the cafeteria eating. My daughter was also cornered in the ladies room by the same group of hoodrats, about "why she is always in the bathroom so much". I always thought that bathroom time was private time and off limits! When did we start resorting to explaining why we are in the bathroom. Why are you always trying to provoke a confrontation? Can you imagine??? She was also asked if her mid-back length hair was a weeve. Who cares???? It is all natural, why can't people find something else to do with their time!!!! What the *ell is wrong with people. Grow up, you are in college now -- you are no longer in the hood -- take advantage of the education that you are supposed to be getting. A lot was sacrificed so that you can enjoy life as you do today!!!!!)
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Dear Youngies,
Why do you hate yourself so much? Why do you stare at another sister and wisper to your girls that "I can't stand her, she thinks she's cute". You don't know her, why do you hate her? Why does being different make you hate someone so much. Parents, teach your daughters to love themselves so that when they are out in public they don't act like classless hoodrats!!!! Why are you so addicted to drama? Why do you think that fighting is the only way to handle things? When will you learn to love yourself and each other? Why are you so angry? Why do you think that intimidation and negativity are the only way that you can deal with another young black woman? Young ladies, we have enough hating from the others, why must we continue to do it to ourselves. When I look at television our young teenage girls are so ruthless, in some cases you are worse than the guys. Why? What are you accomplishing? Black people, male and female, young and old, let's start loving one another -- in word and in deed.
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Preach Rhony!!! :)
Dear mean person who stole my yellow ribbon magnet off my car,
How rude can you be!? You stole MY yellow ribbon magnet that is there to support my husband and his fellow soldier! Buy your own you cheapskate!
I will stay parked in the same spot today and tomorrow I will park here again. Please put it back because it doesn't belong to you.
signed,
One very mad Army Wife
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Dear Youngies,
Why do you hate yourself so much? Why do you stare at another sister and wisper to your girls that "I can't stand her, she thinks she's cute". You don't know her, why do you hate her? Why does being different make you hate someone so much. Parents, teach your daughters to love themselves so that when they are out in public they don't act like classless hoodrats!!!! Why are you so addicted to drama? Why do you think that fighting is the only way to handle things? When will you learn to love yourself and each other? Why are you so angry? Why do you think that intimidation and negativity are the only way that you can deal with another young black woman? Young ladies, we have enough hating from the others, why must we continue to do it to ourselves. When I look at television our young teenage girls are so ruthless, in some cases you are worse than the guys. Why? What are you accomplishing? Black people, male and female, young and old, let's start loving one another -- in word and in deed.
(This is being written after a young woman threw an ice cube at my daughter while she was in the cafeteria eating. My daughter was also cornered in the ladies room by the same group of hoodrats, about "why she is always in the bathroom so much". I always thought that bathroom time was private time and off limits! When did we start resorting to explaining why we are in the bathroom. Why are you always trying to provoke a confrontation? Can you imagine??? She was also asked if her mid-back length hair was a weeve. Who cares???? It is all natural, why can't people find something else to do with their time!!!! What the *ell is wrong with people. Grow up, you are in college now -- you are no longer in the hood -- take advantage of the education that you are supposed to be getting. A lot was sacrificed so that you can enjoy life as you do today!!!!!)
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Whoa! Rhonda, after I read your comment I thought this was a high school or junior high situation. This happened at your daughter's college? I never heard of such immaturity in college. Wow!
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[quote="DaughterRhonda"]
(This is being written after a young woman threw an ice cube at my daughter while she was in the cafeteria eating. My daughter was also cornered in the ladies room by the same group of hoodrats, about "why she is always in the bathroom so much". I always thought that bathroom time was private time and off limits! When did we start resorting to explaining why we are in the bathroom. Why are you always trying to provoke a confrontation? Can you imagine??? She was also asked if her mid-back length hair was a weeve. Who cares???? It is all natural, why can't people find something else to do with their time!!!! What the *ell is wrong with people. Grow up, you are in college now -- you are no longer in the hood -- take advantage of the education that you are supposed to be getting. A lot was sacrificed so that you can enjoy life as you do today!!!!!)
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wow...this is a shame! I pray that your daughter continues to be and act like the lady you have raised her to be and not stoop to these "little girls" levels (that is the angel on my shoulder talking)
On the other hand-if the antics do continue, I hope she gets the opportunity to beat their dumb azzes!!! (sorry, that is the devil on the other shoulder :)
Yes ViPrincessBride, these incidents happened at my daughter's college. They attend a private Jesuit college. My daughter is the type of person that tries to make friends with everyone. She continues to try and say "hello" to these girls when she sees them and they role their eyes and bump her in the hall. I told her to respect their position and leave those sorry "children" alone!!!!! I also told her to report the ice throwing incident so that things don't escalate. Enough is enough already!!!!!!
Soon2bmrsj, you can imagine my position as a parent. Although I am a very proud Christian, the human side of me wants to go and HANDLE it -- LOL!!! (My daughter is nothing like me and wants to believe in the good in everyone. She is not a fighter and wants everyone to get along. She is petite barely 5ft tall, size 4.) I have the angel and devil talking to me too -- LOL!!!! Yall pray for me -- LOL!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I'll pray for you. Your daughter sounds like a good person. She is the type of friends I kept when I was that age.
That's why you are happy Sensation, believe me it comes across. :-)
My daughter is a happy person too and perhaps that's why she wants to see the best in everyone. That is a good thing, but I want her to understand that sometimes you have to see people for who they are.
Thanks for the prayer, because I'm going to need it -- LOL!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="VIPrincessBride"]Dear Mr. Pizza Man!
It's called D-E-L-I-V-E-R-Y!!! not "Meet You Half Way". Please stop calling me to tell me to come get my food, and your up the block still in your car. I hate coming to your car to get my delivery!!! Truth be told you aint no safer in your car than you are at my door! So please DELIVER my pizza to me.
Thank you,
Angry Customer
Turiya girl, do you live in Bmore too?
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Yes Ma'am!!!
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[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Yes ViPrincessBride, these incidents happened at my daughter's college. They attend a private Jesuit college. My daughter is the type of person that tries to make friends with everyone. She continues to try and say "hello" to these girls when she sees them and they role their eyes and bump her in the hall. I told her to respect their position and leave those sorry "children" alone!!!!! I also told her to report the ice throwing incident so that things don't escalate. Enough is enough already!!!!!!
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If anything, I think that usually kids in college like to try to act as adult as possible. They want to show their independence to their parents and everyone, so they do things like take on leadership roles in different campus organizations. They can even do stupid things like drinking to excess because they want be grown so much...but the way these girls are treating your daughter, they seriously need to grow-up. The last time I heard about that type of behavior was in junior high.
In college, if you think someone is strange or different from you, you usually leave them be or you talk to them to get to know them.
These girls just don't know how to act. Honestly. That's bullying and harassment, especially with throwing things. If their behavior continues, your daughter should take it to the administration. I'm pretty sure that there are school policies against harassment there.
People always like to bully those whom they think are weaker than them, but it's the quiet dog that bites the hardest. She should tell them not to mistake her kindness for weakness. At the same time, she shouldn't get into any altercations with them to get herself expelled. Tell her to keep a journal of everything they do to harass her, she should even tape them if she can.
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[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Yes ViPrincessBride, these incidents happened at my daughter's college. They attend a private Jesuit college. My daughter is the type of person that tries to make friends with everyone. She continues to try and say "hello" to these girls when she sees them and they role their eyes and bump her in the hall. I told her to respect their position and leave those sorry "children" alone!!!!! I also told her to report the ice throwing incident so that things don't escalate. Enough is enough already!!!!!!
Soon2bmrsj, you can imagine my position as a parent. Although I am a very proud Christian, the human side of me wants to go and HANDLE it -- LOL!!! (My daughter is nothing like me and wants to believe in the good in everyone. She is not a fighter and wants everyone to get along. She is petite barely 5ft tall, size 4.) I have the angel and devil talking to me too -- LOL!!!! Yall pray for me -- LOL!
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Unfortunately is happens even beyond college. I have moved here to GA and have had the same kind of issues with the "so called" women I work with. I am "not" the favorite there because I am from "up top" as they call it. As for me, I am like your daughter, I dont care, I am a person first where I am from does not matter. These examples are why we have so many problems why is it that we can't just get along, they are there for a purpose to GO TO SCHOOL AND GET EDUCATED. Your daughter is such a sweet girl and she is beautiful and that is why she is a target!
Each One Teach One!
Thanks for the advice ViPrincessBride, you are right that is harrassment. I haven't seen this kind of behavior since junior high school either. It just really saddens me.
Iesha, it is really unfortunate that grown women don't know how to act. Children that don't know how to love themselves usually grow up into full grown women (or men for that matter) who don't love themselves. You are a great person Ieasha, beautiful inside and out, they would see that if they weren't so busy being insecure, hateful and crazy.
I pray for my daughter's safety. I asked my daughter if she reported the incident and she is reluctant for fear of retaliation and isolation from the other students. I'm trying to show my daughter that harrassment on any level is UNACCEPTABLE. I am two seconds from dragging her to Administration! (But I don't because she must learn to stand up for herself). I pray for a peaceful resolution.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="ieasha"] Unfortunately is happens even beyond college. I have moved here to GA and have had the same kind of issues with the "so called" women I work with. I am "not" the favorite there because I am from "up top" as they call it. As for me, I am like your daughter, I dont care, I am a person first where I am from does not matter. These examples are why we have so many problems why is it that we can't just get along, they are there for a purpose to GO TO SCHOOL AND GET EDUCATED. Your daughter is such a sweet girl and she is beautiful and that is why she is a target!
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Iesha, how are they harassing you? I think it's one thing to talk about somebody, but if the person is getting physical with you or verbally abusing you, or threatening you in any way. No, no, no. Most companies and colleges have harassment policies. Nobody has to take anybody's mess. At my old job, I had one stupid, young, immature character (just out of college) send me a ridiculing e-mail. He then took a few days off for vacation. So, when I came to work on Monday and read this e-mail. I was steamed! I typed up a response sending it to him and copying my supervisors as well as his supervisors. When the supervisors read it, right away they wanted to set-up a meeting for us to discuss it. Oh, he was apologizing all over the place. They knew I would take that s@&t to HR in a heartbeat.
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VIPrincessbride/wife (smile) I get the emails, I have forward them, I get harrassed in the bathroom, I ignore it, the HR at this company thinks its school girl actions so they kind of write it off.
I am not worried about them, I am there for a purpose which is to work. Those who can see me for who I am and not where I am from have an advantage and the rest of them, they get no love.
Ronny I understand where your daughter is coming from those type of people always find some way of retaliating and most of the time by then its too late the damage is done. She will be ok you keep praying for her but she will be ok!
Each One Teach One!
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]I pray for my daughter's safety. I asked my daughter if she reported the incident and she is reluctant for fear of retaliation and isolation from the other students. I'm trying to show my daughter that harrassment on any level is UNACCEPTABLE. I am two seconds from dragging her to Administration! (But I don't because she must learn to stand up for herself). I pray for a peaceful resolution.
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I understand that your daughter is fearful, but at the same time, it's her fear that gives these insecure girls power to believe that they can do whatever they want to do. Eventually, they may get bored. You'll have to pray and see what happens. It's at these times that your daughter might also not want to tell you about everything that happens because she doesn't want you worrying about her. The devil just lives in some people.
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[quote="ieasha"]VIPrincessbride/wife (smile) I get the emails, I have forward them, I get harrassed in the bathroom, I ignore it, the HR at this company thinks its school girl actions so they kind of write it off.
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School girl actions? Some of these business people amaze me. So, why are they hiring school girls? They're not interns, right? That's some nonsense.
I can certainly understand why people go into business for themselves.
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Dear house scale,
You lied to me! I went to see gym scale today and he was 10 lbs more than you, oh how you decieve me. Because of you, I started thinking a little more positive like I lost weight or something, when in all reality you're just wrong. Yes, I asked around to see if the gym scale could be lying but it's not. It is you.
Sincerely,
Your angry user
[quote="ieasha"]Ronny I understand where your daughter is coming from those type of people always find some way of retaliating and most of the time by then its too late the damage is done. She will be ok you keep praying for her but she will be ok!
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Thank you Ieasha, that's what I am believing! You hang in there too my friend. Be encouraged!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="VIPrincessBride"]I understand that your daughter is fearful, but at the same time, it's her fear that gives these insecure girls power to believe that they can do whatever they want to do. Eventually, they may get bored. You'll have to pray and see what happens. It's at these times that your daughter might also not want to tell you about everything that happens because she doesn't want you worrying about her. The devil just lives in some people.
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I hope they will get bored or find something else to do that doesn't involve intimidation or preying on other people. I truly believe that you reap what you sow and life is going to teach these young women a lesson that they will never forget.
Since my daughter is an only child she's always told me everything because we are very close. I don't want her to not tell me something, I may just have to change my reaction when she tells me something.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="sensationablyhappy"]Dear house scale,
You lied to me! I went to see gym scale today and he was 10 lbs more than you, oh how you decieve me. Because of you, I started thinking a little more positive like I lost weight or something, when in all reality you're just wrong. Yes, I asked around to see if the gym scale could be lying but it's not. It is you.
Sincerely,
Your angry user
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I'm sorry Sensation, gurl that is too funny!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
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I hope they will get bored or find something else to do that doesn't involve intimidation or preying on other people. I truly believe that you reap what you sow and life is going to teach these young women a lesson that they will never forget.
Since my daughter is an only child she's always told me everything because we are very close. I don't want her to not tell me something, I may just have to change my reaction when she tells me something.
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Rhonda, that's excellent that she talks to you. I hope your daughter also makes some nice friends that she can hang with. There's truth behind the statement that "there's safety in numbers." They would be less likely to antagonize her if they saw she had some buddies, male and/or female...maybe some tall athletic girls who look like they could whoop their azzes.
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Dear crazy ex girl,
NEWSFLASH! we are getting married in November get over it! There is nothing you can or ever will do to break that up. You have been trying for so long to "make" him believe that we are not meant for each other but guess what, he can see through you and so can I. Why do you think he wont return your phone calls after you stated that you were cool with being friends and you just wanted to be there for him? I know! because he saw that you obviously thought that using a a whack a** friendship as an excuse was gonna make him come back to you. Well guess what, it didnt work and he loves me more than ever. Here's a thought, teach your daughter how to love the man she's with instead of trying to steal someone else's cause Im pretty sure she wants to know why mommy and daddy are always arguing. Work on your marriage and stop trying to wreck mine cause its not gonna work.
P.S. and to my wonderful FH, I love you so much baby, no matter what I know I can always count on you to stay one step ahead of some of these conniving a** females trying to break up the blessing that we have.
Dear Neighbor Across the Hall,
It does not make any sense at all to me why your apartment is so messy and smells so bad. I just cant believe that when you were taking the laundry out for washing that I could actually smell the dirt/nastiness. You have 4 girls, there is no reason they or them clothes should smell that bad. they are old enough to know well about hygiene and I know you d@mn sure are. Can you please take care of that cause you making my stomach hurt.
sincerely,
your sick neighbor
[quote="sensationablyhappy"]Dear mean person who stole my yellow ribbon magnet off my car,
How rude can you be!? You stole MY yellow ribbon magnet that is there to support my husband and his fellow soldier! Buy your own you cheapskate!
I will stay parked in the same spot today and tomorrow I will park here again. Please put it back because it doesn't belong to you.
signed,
One very mad Army Wife
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Thats messed up!
[quote="Shy41208"]Dear Neighbor Across the Hall,
It does not make any sense at all to me why your apartment is so messy and smells so bad. I just cant believe that when you were taking the laundry out for washing that I could actually smell the dirt/nastiness. You have 4 girls, there is no reason they or them clothes should smell that bad. they are old enough to know well about hygiene and I know you d@mn sure are. Can you please take care of that cause you making my stomach hurt.
sincerely,
your sick neighbor
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LOL...making your stomach hurt!!!!!!!!!! LMAO
[quote="Shy41208"]Dear Neighbor Across the Hall,
It does not make any sense at all to me why your apartment is so messy and smells so bad. I just cant believe that when you were taking the laundry out for washing that I could actually smell the dirt/nastiness. You have 4 girls, there is no reason they or them clothes should smell that bad. they are old enough to know well about hygiene and I know you d@mn sure are. Can you please take care of that cause you making my stomach hurt.
sincerely,
your sick neighbor
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Oh No!!!!! I just lost it! That is just a shame!!!! Um Um Um. Does she have a man? Most men don't like a natsy house. I live with Felix Unger the neat guy from the Odd Couple -- LOL!!! He would never stand for that (neither would I for that matter eeewww!)
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
yes she does have a man, he is a mess too. I went to highschool with him and he dont look, dress or act any different-just a mess!
[quote="phenomonique"]Hey you little Indian lady at the laundry:
Teach your child some manners!!! I meant it when I told you 'if Padjah hits me with the cart one more again, I'm gonna stick your azz in a dyer'. You may let him get away with that at home but in the great big world that crap ain't cute! I like children and don't believe in harming them so my thinking is, when he sees mommy all balled the hell up in a dyer tied up in her pashmina, he'll tighten up.
Bah bye
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OMG Niquey! You are going to get me fired I'm laughing so hard! I can just see a little Indian lady twirling around in a dryer with all those colors swirling around! LMAO!
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OMG Niquey! You are going to get me fired I'm laughing so hard! I can just see a little Indian lady twirling around in a dryer with all those colors swirling around! LMAO!
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And you painted an even more vivid picture, LOL!!! Too funny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="Shy41208"]yes she does have a man, he is a mess too. I went to highschool with him and he dont look, dress or act any different-just a mess!
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well..nasty + nasty=a d**m shame for 2 grown azz people!!!!!!
[quote="soon2bmsj"]well..nasty + nasty=a d**m shame for 2 grown azz people!!!!!!
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EXACTLY!!!! Ewwwww!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I have another.
Dear upstairs neighbor,
I feel that you have a very low self esteem and your standards for men are very low. I have been living in the building for 4 years now and you have been getting beat since then, first your daughters' father and now your new bf. It's not my business but i am worried about them little girls. they should not be ringing my doorbell at 5 in the morning because they got locked out while you and BF were fighting. why do you subject them to that, and put your men first. they should not be sleeping on pallets on the floor while you, bf and your cousin have beds! it's not right!!! they see this behavior and may grow up and think this is the way of life and how they should be treated.. It's not... please do better for yourself and those babies.
your concerned neighbor
Wow Shy that one is a tear jerker! OMG what kind of a woman would put her babies on the floor why her and the other adults are chilling in a bed!
Lawd hammercy and to subject them to watching/hearing you getting beat. UNACCEPTABLE! I pray that God has mercy on those children and that your neighbor wakes up and gets to the point in her life where she BELIEVES that she deserves and can have better!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
They fight constantly and make up an hour later or so after they sober up. i have known him for many years, i have never known him to be that way, they really fight each other but he does have that upper hand on her. he leaves and she's the one that always wants him to come back. it's crazy, my stepdad owns the building, he has been working to get them and their drama out for a while now.
[quote="Shy41208"]They fight constantly and make up an hour later or so after they sober up. i have known him for many years, i have never known him to be that way, they really fight each other but he does have that upper hand on her. he leaves and she's the one that always wants him to come back. it's crazy, my stepdad owns the building, he has been working to get them and their drama out for a while now.
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That's wild.
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
[quote="Shy41208"]I have another.
Dear upstairs neighbor,
I feel that you have a very low self esteem and your standards for men are very low. I have been living in the building for 4 years now and you have been getting beat since then, first your daughters' father and now your new bf. It's not my business but i am worried about them little girls. they should not be ringing my doorbell at 5 in the morning because they got locked out while you and BF were fighting. why do you subject them to that, and put your men first. they should not be sleeping on pallets on the floor while you, bf and your cousin have beds! it's not right!!! they see this behavior and may grow up and think this is the way of life and how they should be treated.. It's not... please do better for yourself and those babies.
your concerned neighbor
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hate to play the devils advocate, but DFS do take anonymous calls...if she is treating these babies this way then she doesn't deserve to have them!! secondly, she is not a very positive role model for her daughters by allowing this behavior to continue (drunken brawls etc) he ain't off the hook either!!! what low down dirty dog of a man would allow a woman to put her children on a pallet while his rusty azz lays in a bed??!?!? just TRIFILING!!!!!!
I agree with Mrs. J
[quote="VIPrincessBride"]Dear Bumble,
Girl, you already knew your DH was a caveman when you married him. you were just in denial thinking he would change after ya'll said I do. So when you come home and he is stretched out on the couch in his birthday suit, just be glad you weren't coming home and your baby sister or other friend wasn't with you. Just remind yourself that he is just being a little beast.
Bumble, why get mad when you come home and find your DH in his birthday suit? Shoot, he's just waiting for you willing, ready, and able. So, jump those bones!
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Thats the thing, he and even worrying about me, thats just how he rolls at home. I mean one weekend (just when I didn't think my husband could surprise me anymore) he didn't wear clothes from Friday evening....all the way until Sunday night... AND I was too ill to go to church that Sunday!....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
We've been Happily Married 2 Years and Counting:)
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[quote="Bumblebeekee"]....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
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Girl get you some leather furniture so he'll get tired of his butt sticking to the couch. He'll put some clothes on then...LOL.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
[quote="Bumblebeekee] Thats the thing, he and even worrying about me, thats just how he rolls at home. I mean one weekend (just when I didn't think my husband could surprise me anymore) he didn't wear clothes from Friday evening....all the way until Sunday night... AND I was too ill to go to church that Sunday!....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
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ROTFLMAO! Oh, say it ain't so! Girl, he thinks he's still a bachelor, that's why.
When you all have children he won't be able to do that again until they leave for college. So, let him enjoy himself while he can. You should join him. Then you'll be like Adam and Eve. Very liberating!
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Dear Child Support:
What the hell you mean you are going to start charging a $25 annual service fee for child support services. Whose bright idea was this? Will this service fee get me my money any sooner or will it still take you two days to deposit it into my account. Will this fee be used to pay for additional staff that can devote their time to finding these deadbeat mofos who hide from thier responsibilities, who feel they can pay a month, skip three months, and then pay one more. Will this fee help you to find the truth about his undisclosed income? And why doesn't this fee apply to anyone who has ever received public assisstance? So because I decided not turn to the goverment for assistance, now I must pay. Ain't that like charging me twice? Taxing me for the public assistance and charging me for child support. WTF!!!
Sincerely,
A Mother being screwed
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Dear eyebrows,
Since high school, I've always thought we were unique and exotic. Now i look back at pictures and find that you made me the cliche, the light-skinned hairy girl who doesn't know she looks like Bert. Now that i'm older i know how to tame and shape you but you grow so fast that I wake up one day and there are caterpillars on my face. Get this straight eyebrows, i own you. So stay put, don't get curly, don't join hands, and stop growing so damn fast. I have a day job!
Sincerely,
your face
Dear people who don't know how to merge or change lanes,
You are idiots! How can you get in front of me if we're BOTH slowing down? I don't owe you anything. I'm all for defensive driving but sometimes I get fed up. The little voice inside says, stay put Musik, don't let em in. Then when i'm feeling generous and give you all the room, you are not even PLANNING to merge, you just leave that ding-dang blinker on for 3 exits. Does it make me a bad person when i'm shocked that you aren't asian or old? Anyway, get it it together! Some of us are actually on our our way somewhere. GET OFF!
Sincerely,
girl who usually merges and changes lanes considerately
[quote="Musikana"]Dear eyebrows,
Since high school, I've always thought we were unique and exotic. Now i look back at pictures and find that you made me the cliche, the light-skinned hairy girl who doesn't know she looks like Bert. Now that i'm older i know how to tame and shape you but you grow so fast that I wake up one day and there are caterpillars on my face. Get this straight eyebrows, i own you. So stay put, don't get curly, don't join hands, and stop growing so damn fast. I have a day job!
Sincerely,
your face
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Musik you made me smile with this one! LOL!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="BumblebeekeeThats the thing, he and even worrying about me, thats just how he rolls at home. I mean one weekend (just when I didn't think my husband could surprise me anymore) he didn't wear clothes from Friday evening....all the way until Sunday night... AND I was too ill to go to church that Sunday!....How you don't wear clothes for 2 days straight....Oh yeah.....when you are a caveman!
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LMAO-Bumble, I know you are exaggerating!!!!!!! from Fri-Sun?!?!? girl, I am laughing so hard over here in my office these folks are looking at me like I am crazy!!!!!!!!!!
[quote="pamcrow"]Dear Mr. Biggs,
Please forgive me if I don
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
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