everyone's sites look so beautiful. to be honest i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!! About two weeks ago! I was going to walk, but I guess he convinced me to give it another go, and to forgive him. God only knows we have been through so much together. I am now unsure whether to call it all off, or whether to just wait and see what happens. Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page. You ladies are all just keeping my hope alive :( while i nurse a broken heart
[quote="dreamgurl"]everyone's sites look so beautiful. to be honest i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!! About two weeks ago! I was going to walk, but I guess he convinced me to give it another go, and to forgive him. God only knows we have been through so much together. I am now unsure whether to call it all off, or whether to just wait and see what happens. Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page. You ladies are all just keeping my hope alive :( while i nurse a broken heart
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Dreamgurl, I am sorry to hear about your pain.....You are very noble to give it another try...most people are not willing to forgive...(though we want others to forgive us without question). Continue to pray for guidance, and God will lead you down the right path. Listen to your heart...but use Godly wisdom...all will work itself out for the glory of God, no matter what the end result is. You may want to consider couple's counseling (I would start with group) at yours or his church....If you do decide to go forth...he will need to be forthcoming about the situation, and let you know EVERYTHING thats going on....My church had a ministry for married and engaged couples to attend right before services...just sitting in there listening to others may start to heal some wounds, open up some doors to finding the right solution for both of you...even if you decided after all not to pursue a marriage....
[quote="dreamgurl"]everyone's sites look so beautiful. to be honest i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!! About two weeks ago! I was going to walk, but I guess he convinced me to give it another go, and to forgive him. God only knows we have been through so much together. I am now unsure whether to call it all off, or whether to just wait and see what happens. Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page. You ladies are all just keeping my hope alive :( while i nurse a broken heart
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I too am sorry to hear about your pain! I'm praying for you, and know that we are here for you!
Bumble- youre making me cry....its so sweet I guess I just needed someone to talk to me . You are right, lately I havent been asking God for guidance, I have just been coasting. I will definately look into some sort of counselling. I think we do need it, because although he says he only kissed this woman and spoke to her on the phone ( a lot) the wounds run deep and you can only imagine the hurt when you give your everything to another human being and they abuse it. We were high school sweethearts who went separate ways. We started seeing each other again in 2004 and have been living together for 2 years. We are getting married traditionally at the beginning of 2008 and then the wedding either at the end of 2008 or beginning of 2009. I am finishing law school next summer- so thats the logic behind that. I was so excited about his proposal- about 3 months ago.. then this!!
Dreamgurl I'm sorry for what you are going through. Remember God has a plan for each of us and if he brings you to it, he'll bring you through it. Our trials and tribulations only make us stronger. You can and you will get through this. We are all here for you.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
[quote="dreamgurl"]...i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!!
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Sweetie I am so sorry to hear about the crisis in your relationship. Let prayer guide you to a healthy and safe decision about your relationship and don't be so hard on yourself for "coasting".
[quote="dreamgurl"]Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page.
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As far as my webpage goes . . . we have a new one! www.tirimurudo.net
Ladies thank you so much for all the love!! I am running late for work, but I promise I will take time out to thank you properly- Musikana thank you for the new link, I havent opened it yet. I am saving it for a treat after work. Have lovely Saturdays!!
Dreamgurl I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing some conflict on the months leading up to your special day. Hopeful you can get through these troubling times and learn to forgive your fh. My prayers are with you. Musikana I really like your website especially the photo album. I thought that was a nice way to honor both or your mother's.
[quote="dreamgurl"]Musikana thank you for the new link
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No problem girl, keep your head up.
[quote="housewife147"]Musikana I really like your website especially the photo album. I thought that was a nice way to honor both or your mother's.
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Thanks, House. It's been a rough couple of months but we're regrouping.
Bumble, Turiya, pamcrow, housewife, sensationablyhappy and Musikana- ladies thank yoy for your thoughts - its a lot harder than I could ever have imagined. I dont think I can cope, and I just keep asking him questions about it, and he gets angry because I am getting obsessive, all i say now is that this hasnt brought out the best in me, and now i question every little thing he has ever said to me. That cant be good! Anyway I had better stop on this positive happy thread- thanks for your support.
Okay sisters the long sad story is now in the Bridal Blog- under When FH Cheats Brokenhearted :( Musikana- you know what your webpage is the sweetest thing. I love the family photos it really does feel like a family already! And btw where are you having the wedding, in Africa or in the states? And also you are very lovely ma'am, you make a sweet couple.
Dreamgurl, i wanted to post in your thread but i admit it was too intense for me. I'm glad that you realize that your deserve better and my heart goes out to you.
We're having two weddings, one here, one there. His sisters and nieces are like my own and i want them to be involved. So we'll have a smallish cermeony and champagne reception here (80-100 people) and then a real African wedding in Zim with hundreds (both of his parents had 9 siblings). And thanks for the compliments!
[quote="Musikana"]Dreamgurl, i wanted to post in your thread but i admit it was too intense for me. I'm glad that you realize that your deserve better and my heart goes out to you.
We're having two weddings, one here, one there. His sisters and nieces are like my own and i want them to be involved. So we'll have a smallish cermeony and champagne reception here (80-100 people) and then a real African wedding in Zim with hundreds (both of his parents had 9 siblings). And thanks for the compliments!
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Good to see you Musikana! We missed ya! I checked out and signed your page....its beautiful!
Yeah you ran from my thread LOL- its okay I know its quite depressing. Musikana I completely understand-family is so important. I am actually very close to my FH's family. You are going to have a ball, there is nothing as spectacular as the proper African wedding! Have you been to Zim before?? I am so excited for you, hows the planning all the way from Cali? Have you already got a venue??
[quote="dreamgurl"]Yeah you ran from my thread LOL- its okay I know its quite depressing. Musikana I completely understand-family is so important. I am actually very close to my FH's family. You are going to have a ball, there is nothing as spectacular as the proper African wedding! Have you been to Zim before?? I am so excited for you, hows the planning all the way from Cali? Have you already got a venue??
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Girl, it was way too heavy in that thread and i didn't know what to add. dreamgurl i can't wait for the Zim wedding! I was there in March and April (almost 5 weeks) and got really close with his Mom before she passed away. I told FH's older sister and cousin-sisters what i wanted and i'm letting them run with it. We had to postpone the wedding for cultural reasons (as i'm sure you are aware) so i'm still shopping around for venues. Honestly, I'm having a ball.
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ladies I just put our "engagement" pics on our site if you want to go check them out; we are going to enclose the pics with our wedding invitations to our family and close friends
ladies I just put our "engagement" pics on our site if you want to go check them out; we are going to enclose the pics with our wedding invitations to our family and close friends
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[quote="sensationablyhappy"]I signed your guestbook soon. You guys look so good. Congrats on you up comming wedding. 3 and a half more months and you will be a MRS.
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thank you for your kind words! :)
I signed your guest book - your website is so cute!! Can't wait to se the wedding pics!
As I said on your website, we've used the same background for our website. I'm in the process of finishing my websites (yes, websites!!) off - doing one for the wedding in London and another for our blessing in St Lucia the week after. I promise I'll post details once I've got them in some proper kind of order - probably after Christmas......
Havig lots of fun doing the websites and looking at all of yours!!! U guys are looking great!
By the way, Theresa - those pictures are beautiful! are those your official engagement pictures?
I've been reviewing this post and it occurred to me that there are quite a few that I haven't signed and I'm so sorry Divas. For all the love and support that you all have given me, the least I can do is sign your guestbook.
No worries ~ I've taken steps to remedy the situation presently. Here's where I stand on the Wedding Websites:
Diva Housewife - I've searched this entire link and I didn't see any mention of your website. I'm sure that the overlook is on my part, but would you mind very much telling me if you created one yet and if so, may I please have the info so I could see it and sign your guestbook? Appreciate it sister.
DwBride ~ What's the password to your website? Would love to sign it as well, but I can't get in to do so, sorry.
Choklittkiss ~ can't locate yours either ~ I'm having a blind moment, but please tell me how to access yours. Thanks
MrsRobinson - Sorry so late, but I've just signed your guestbook. What a wonderful website. I felt like I was there for every single second of your wonderful wedding day!!! Much happiness to you and your family.
Wow Teresa, I'm sure I've said it before, but you and your fiance look so good together and that 3rd gown will look so heavenly on you and there won't be a dry eye in that church when you walk in.
That being said sister, please help me find where to sign on your website. I'm missing it. Sorry
Oh and BTW ~ The music on your webpage is awesome ~ WOW!!! It has the old school Motown feel to it. My FH stayed on your page for about 15 minutes this morning because he was hooked on the song. Must be the musician in him. I love it!!!
Option on the dress ~ a bolero jacket would do okay because I understand that some church may have an objection to the low cut or even a very beautiful matching shawl.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOO ~ just thought of it, how about a mink-inspired stole? When is your wedding? A mink-inspired stole would look wonderful as well.
Gotcha Diva ~ a mink-inspired stole would be way too hot in June. You know David's Bridal has great wedding shawls or bolero jackets. You might want to take a look at one of their catalogs.
So today I found a new wedding website server that has a lot more functionality than the one I was using before. The RSVP is easier to keep track of etc.
The new site is
http://dennyandmo.weddingannouncer.com
Real love requires a minimum of emotion and a maximum of the will - Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr.
Wow ladies!.....your wedding websites are awesome....here's mine...be sure to sign the guest book:
(Just copy & paste this link)
http://allenandkent.weddings.com
~God is LOVE~
Vicky, your site is nice. I can't wait to see pics with the ringbearer. That's going to be so cute!!!
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
everyone's sites look so beautiful. to be honest i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!! About two weeks ago! I was going to walk, but I guess he convinced me to give it another go, and to forgive him. God only knows we have been through so much together. I am now unsure whether to call it all off, or whether to just wait and see what happens. Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page. You ladies are all just keeping my hope alive :( while i nurse a broken heart
[quote="dreamgurl"]everyone's sites look so beautiful. to be honest i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!! About two weeks ago! I was going to walk, but I guess he convinced me to give it another go, and to forgive him. God only knows we have been through so much together. I am now unsure whether to call it all off, or whether to just wait and see what happens. Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page. You ladies are all just keeping my hope alive :( while i nurse a broken heart
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Dreamgurl, I am sorry to hear about your pain.....You are very noble to give it another try...most people are not willing to forgive...(though we want others to forgive us without question). Continue to pray for guidance, and God will lead you down the right path. Listen to your heart...but use Godly wisdom...all will work itself out for the glory of God, no matter what the end result is. You may want to consider couple's counseling (I would start with group) at yours or his church....If you do decide to go forth...he will need to be forthcoming about the situation, and let you know EVERYTHING thats going on....My church had a ministry for married and engaged couples to attend right before services...just sitting in there listening to others may start to heal some wounds, open up some doors to finding the right solution for both of you...even if you decided after all not to pursue a marriage....
PS...When is the wedding schduled?
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[quote="dreamgurl"]everyone's sites look so beautiful. to be honest i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!! About two weeks ago! I was going to walk, but I guess he convinced me to give it another go, and to forgive him. God only knows we have been through so much together. I am now unsure whether to call it all off, or whether to just wait and see what happens. Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page. You ladies are all just keeping my hope alive :( while i nurse a broken heart
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I too am sorry to hear about your pain! I'm praying for you, and know that we are here for you!
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Bumble- youre making me cry....its so sweet I guess I just needed someone to talk to me . You are right, lately I havent been asking God for guidance, I have just been coasting. I will definately look into some sort of counselling. I think we do need it, because although he says he only kissed this woman and spoke to her on the phone ( a lot) the wounds run deep and you can only imagine the hurt when you give your everything to another human being and they abuse it. We were high school sweethearts who went separate ways. We started seeing each other again in 2004 and have been living together for 2 years. We are getting married traditionally at the beginning of 2008 and then the wedding either at the end of 2008 or beginning of 2009. I am finishing law school next summer- so thats the logic behind that. I was so excited about his proposal- about 3 months ago.. then this!!
Dreamgurl I'm sorry for what you are going through. Remember God has a plan for each of us and if he brings you to it, he'll bring you through it. Our trials and tribulations only make us stronger. You can and you will get through this. We are all here for you.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
[quote="dreamgurl"]...i am really scared because i just found out that FH cheated!!
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Sweetie I am so sorry to hear about the crisis in your relationship. Let prayer guide you to a healthy and safe decision about your relationship and don't be so hard on yourself for "coasting".
[quote="dreamgurl"]Musikana- how come I cant see your page it just goes to the knot page.
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As far as my webpage goes . . . we have a new one! www.tirimurudo.net
Ladies thank you so much for all the love!! I am running late for work, but I promise I will take time out to thank you properly- Musikana thank you for the new link, I havent opened it yet. I am saving it for a treat after work. Have lovely Saturdays!!
Dreamgurl I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing some conflict on the months leading up to your special day. Hopeful you can get through these troubling times and learn to forgive your fh. My prayers are with you. Musikana I really like your website especially the photo album. I thought that was a nice way to honor both or your mother's.
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Dreamgurl I too am sorry to hear about what you are going through. No one deserves to be treated this way.. all the best sis. You are in my prayers.
[quote="dreamgurl"]Musikana thank you for the new link
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No problem girl, keep your head up.
[quote="housewife147"]Musikana I really like your website especially the photo album. I thought that was a nice way to honor both or your mother's.
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Thanks, House. It's been a rough couple of months but we're regrouping.
Bumble, Turiya, pamcrow, housewife, sensationablyhappy and Musikana- ladies thank yoy for your thoughts - its a lot harder than I could ever have imagined. I dont think I can cope, and I just keep asking him questions about it, and he gets angry because I am getting obsessive, all i say now is that this hasnt brought out the best in me, and now i question every little thing he has ever said to me. That cant be good! Anyway I had better stop on this positive happy thread- thanks for your support.
dreamgurl, honey, why don't you start another thread. we're here to support you.
Okay sisters the long sad story is now in the Bridal Blog- under When FH Cheats Brokenhearted :( Musikana- you know what your webpage is the sweetest thing. I love the family photos it really does feel like a family already! And btw where are you having the wedding, in Africa or in the states? And also you are very lovely ma'am, you make a sweet couple.
Dreamgurl, i wanted to post in your thread but i admit it was too intense for me. I'm glad that you realize that your deserve better and my heart goes out to you.
We're having two weddings, one here, one there. His sisters and nieces are like my own and i want them to be involved. So we'll have a smallish cermeony and champagne reception here (80-100 people) and then a real African wedding in Zim with hundreds (both of his parents had 9 siblings). And thanks for the compliments!
[quote="Musikana"]Dreamgurl, i wanted to post in your thread but i admit it was too intense for me. I'm glad that you realize that your deserve better and my heart goes out to you.
We're having two weddings, one here, one there. His sisters and nieces are like my own and i want them to be involved. So we'll have a smallish cermeony and champagne reception here (80-100 people) and then a real African wedding in Zim with hundreds (both of his parents had 9 siblings). And thanks for the compliments!
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Good to see you Musikana! We missed ya! I checked out and signed your page....its beautiful!
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Yeah you ran from my thread LOL- its okay I know its quite depressing. Musikana I completely understand-family is so important. I am actually very close to my FH's family. You are going to have a ball, there is nothing as spectacular as the proper African wedding! Have you been to Zim before?? I am so excited for you, hows the planning all the way from Cali? Have you already got a venue??
[quote="dreamgurl"]Yeah you ran from my thread LOL- its okay I know its quite depressing. Musikana I completely understand-family is so important. I am actually very close to my FH's family. You are going to have a ball, there is nothing as spectacular as the proper African wedding! Have you been to Zim before?? I am so excited for you, hows the planning all the way from Cali? Have you already got a venue??
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Girl, it was way too heavy in that thread and i didn't know what to add. dreamgurl i can't wait for the Zim wedding! I was there in March and April (almost 5 weeks) and got really close with his Mom before she passed away. I told FH's older sister and cousin-sisters what i wanted and i'm letting them run with it. We had to postpone the wedding for cultural reasons (as i'm sure you are aware) so i'm still shopping around for venues. Honestly, I'm having a ball.
Teresa1167- Lovely photos and elegant website- you match!! How cute. Congratulations!!
Teresa your page is gorgeous. You photographs are pheonomenal
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[quote="IvyPrincess"]Teresa your page is gorgeous. You photographs are pheonomenal
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Ditto...
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Your website is so wonderful, It is so calm, and loving. I had to call my FH....
Striving for better than my Best!!!
Very nice Teresa!
I agree with the ladies.. very nice website.
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ladies I just put our "engagement" pics on our site if you want to go check them out; we are going to enclose the pics with our wedding invitations to our family and close friends
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ladies I just put our "engagement" pics on our site if you want to go check them out; we are going to enclose the pics with our wedding invitations to our family and close friends
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Nice pics....Ya'll look cute!
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Thanks Bumble!! :)
I signed your guestbook soon. You guys look so good. Congrats on you up comming wedding. 3 and a half more months and you will be a MRS.
[quote="sensationablyhappy"]I signed your guestbook soon. You guys look so good. Congrats on you up comming wedding. 3 and a half more months and you will be a MRS.
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thank you for your kind words! :)
Nice site Soon - love the intro... Wishing you all the best with the planning
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Theresa I love your site and the song you choose for the intro is beautiful.
Soon nice engagement pics. You two look compliment each other nicely.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
thanks Pam! believe it our not, people has asked us before if we were sis and bro (?????????) I don't know WHERE that comes from... :)
I signed your guest book - your website is so cute!! Can't wait to se the wedding pics!
As I said on your website, we've used the same background for our website. I'm in the process of finishing my websites (yes, websites!!) off - doing one for the wedding in London and another for our blessing in St Lucia the week after. I promise I'll post details once I've got them in some proper kind of order - probably after Christmas......
Havig lots of fun doing the websites and looking at all of yours!!! U guys are looking great!
By the way, Theresa - those pictures are beautiful! are those your official engagement pictures?
I've been reviewing this post and it occurred to me that there are quite a few that I haven't signed and I'm so sorry Divas. For all the love and support that you all have given me, the least I can do is sign your guestbook.
No worries ~ I've taken steps to remedy the situation presently. Here's where I stand on the Wedding Websites:
Diva Housewife - I've searched this entire link and I didn't see any mention of your website. I'm sure that the overlook is on my part, but would you mind very much telling me if you created one yet and if so, may I please have the info so I could see it and sign your guestbook? Appreciate it sister.
DwBride ~ What's the password to your website? Would love to sign it as well, but I can't get in to do so, sorry.
Choklittkiss ~ can't locate yours either ~ I'm having a blind moment, but please tell me how to access yours. Thanks
MrsRobinson - Sorry so late, but I've just signed your guestbook. What a wonderful website. I felt like I was there for every single second of your wonderful wedding day!!! Much happiness to you and your family.
Continuing ~
STBMrsJ - Yours is password protected. May I please have the password as I would love to sign yours also.
Onyxswan - Very lovely ~ Just signed yours
Musikana ~ You guys are so cute together ~ Just signed yours too.
Miss Ieasha ~ I've signed yours too
Soon2bride ~ Hello there Ms Michelle ~ I signed your book back in November. Great pictures!!!
2Bmrspotts ~ signed yours back in September ~ you guys are so cute!!!
TiffyB ~ Now I know I've done yours
vicky4Brian - Just signed yours ~ wonderful pictures
Wow Teresa, I'm sure I've said it before, but you and your fiance look so good together and that 3rd gown will look so heavenly on you and there won't be a dry eye in that church when you walk in.
That being said sister, please help me find where to sign on your website. I'm missing it. Sorry
Oh and BTW ~ The music on your webpage is awesome ~ WOW!!! It has the old school Motown feel to it. My FH stayed on your page for about 15 minutes this morning because he was hooked on the song. Must be the musician in him. I love it!!!
Well, go on with your bad self Teresa.
Option on the dress ~ a bolero jacket would do okay because I understand that some church may have an objection to the low cut or even a very beautiful matching shawl.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOO ~ just thought of it, how about a mink-inspired stole? When is your wedding? A mink-inspired stole would look wonderful as well.
Gotcha Diva ~ a mink-inspired stole would be way too hot in June. You know David's Bridal has great wedding shawls or bolero jackets. You might want to take a look at one of their catalogs.
[quote="Ginoue"]Soon2bride ~ Hello there Ms Michelle ~ I signed your book back in November. Great pictures!!!
2Bmrspotts ~ signed yours back in September ~ you guys are so cute!!!
TiffyB ~ Now I know I've done yours
vicky4Brian - Just signed yours ~ wonderful pictures
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Thanks Ginoue....
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Diva mrspotts, I'm blessed, thanks.
So today I found a new wedding website server that has a lot more functionality than the one I was using before. The RSVP is easier to keep track of etc.
The new site is
http://dennyandmo.weddingannouncer.com
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Hey Ivy, I just went and signed your guestbook -- very nice.
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Hey Ivy - just signed your guestbook . Loving the new website!
Me too! :)
Great job on your website Ivy! I signed your guestbook also.
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I have one as well.
http://tcobbsandwjones.weddings.com
Teresa and Shy, I just signed your guestbooks. Shy I love the paper ring story. You should incorporate that into your day some how.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Thanks. That is a cool idea. hmmm.. let me ponder on that.
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