Ladies How many of you have had issues with ya BM? I have one that I am unsure of if she should be in it or not. I feel that she may not come and though it would hurt its on her..If she doesnt come that will be something that she has to live with. and any of my other friends who follow he lead and not showing up...They automatically assume that they are in it...WHen I was in Ny they were my girls but out them all only one is in it the other arent and my other BM are friend that I had prior to them..Sigh...
Ladies How many of you have had issues with ya BM? I have one that I am unsure of if she should be in it or not. I feel that she may not come and though it would hurt its on her..If she doesnt come that will be something that she has to live with. and any of my other friends who follow he lead and not showing up...They automatically assume that they are in it...WHen I was in Ny they were my girls but out them all only one is in it the other arent and my other BM are friend that I had prior to them..Sigh...
Another sister to get a crown!! if you read previous posts, you will see ALOT of us has had issues with BM, MOH, GM, BM etc... when exactly is your wedding? from my experience with issues I had with my MOH time is the major factor. I start planning my wedding in 7/07 and I guess to my wedding party March 08 was too far away, I was getting NO cooperation, but as of Jan 1 EVERYONE is getting their rear in gear including FH...so in other words, just relax (as much as you can) and it will all fall into place and whoever is not on your team-THEIR LOSS NOT YOURS
I definitely had issues with my bridal party. One dropped out at the last minute and I couldn't replace her, but with a little creativity, she wasn't even missed!!!!
Anyway my sister, unfortunately this is very common. I don't know why women act up when it comes to weddings. My husband didn't have any drama with his groomsmen. In any event I wish you the best.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
MsJ my wedding day isnt until '09 but I had friends from NYC that I have known for about 15 years and I have friends in Ga I have known about the same time but my one friend who is supposed to be my babys god mother she has a thing with her. She tried to be errybody momma..And she is nasty I just dont want the negativity that comes with her. And when my mom saw her and asked were they coming to my wedding she said we better be in the wedding..
This is the same chick who I dont speak to period...at all...I have one friend in ny i speak to weekly the rest never call me and nope I dont call them but I wouldnt assume that I was automatically in their wedding..
I am not gonna let it worry me I want a happy day and they can come an enjoy themselves or not..
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I am not gonna let it worry me I want a happy day and they can come an enjoy themselves or not..
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Good thinking!!! :)
Thanks :)
[quote="asiass"]MsJ my wedding day isnt until '09 but I had friends from NYC that I have known for about 15 years and I have friends in Ga I have known about the same time but my one friend who is supposed to be my babys god mother she has a thing with her. She tried to be errybody momma..And she is nasty I just dont want the negativity that comes with her. And when my mom saw her and asked were they coming to my wedding she said we better be in the wedding..
This is the same chick who I dont speak to period...at all...I have one friend in ny i speak to weekly the rest never call me and nope I dont call them but I wouldnt assume that I was automatically in their wedding..
I am not gonna let it worry me I want a happy day and they can come an enjoy themselves or not..
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AMEN!
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