Pisser offer............. He done did it this morning. FH called me and tells me I have something to tell you.... I am like "what"? He says " I have a surprise for you". I am, "yea, what is it"? I got all excited and then this starts shuckin and jivin talking about you have to wait until March.....
I said "dude please, why the heck you gonna tell me that I have a surprise but have to wait for 2 months". He pissed me off ultimately this morning.... Then he gonna tell that the surprise might make me move our wedding date up.... *sighs* Oh heLL nawl, not after my hard work and those extra 4 months and 2 weeks counts....
He keeps playing with me... He truly doesnt understand how stressful wedding planning is and I am really to snap on a negro
Pisser offer............. He done did it this morning. FH called me and tells me I have something to tell you.... I am like "what"? He says " I have a surprise for you". I am, "yea, what is it"? I got all excited and then this starts shuckin and jivin talking about you have to wait until March.....
I said "dude please, why the heck you gonna tell me that I have a surprise but have to wait for 2 months". He pissed me off ultimately this morning.... Then he gonna tell that the surprise might make me move our wedding date up.... *sighs* Oh heLL nawl, not after my hard work and those extra 4 months and 2 weeks counts....
He keeps playing with me... He truly doesnt understand how stressful wedding planning is and I am really to snap on a negro
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Reed2be,
Don't fret and get upset! If he is THAT adamant about telling you "I have a suprise for you but you will have to wait until March" trust me, you will know by the WEEKEND!! LOL whatever it is obviously he can't hold it-so you will know soon enough.
Give him a chance...its rare to see men act like this...you never know...you may actually LIKE the surprise....Its not worth the stress!
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I think he's just trying to help. Most men do not understand that we cannot snap our fingers and "voila!", a wedding will appear. Atleast he is willing to help, even if he doesn't realize that he's getting on your nerves while doing it.Lol!
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THanks ladies, i feel alittle better but he still working my nerves....
Yippy Im a Board Diva now!!!!!!!!!!!
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[quote="MrsReed2be"]THanks ladies, i feel alittle better but he still working my nerves....
Yippy Im a Board Diva now!!!!!!!!!!!
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You go girl!!!!!!!!!! LOL
I know that he's working your very last nerves, but try to relax and don't snap when he's being childish. They just don't understand what it takes to plan a wedding. That being said, he will tell you before the 2 months are up. If he called you just to tell you he has a surprise for you, trust me, he will cave. He can't hold it in any longer. Just try to smile and relax and have a nice cup of tea when you feel you're loosing it. Trust me girl, by the end of the 3rd sip, you will see his mouth moving, but you will not be able to hear what he's saying. Just smile and sip ~ this is my advice to all of my brides. Oh and the tea, your choice of flavor, but Celestial Seasoning!!!
Don't worry girl - the suprise might actually be a good one!! Just be patient and all will be revealed. I know it can be stressful planning the wedding and it seems like he'r not taking it seriously, but you know what men can be like.
I hope you don't actually have to wait 2 months....the suspense is killing me already!!
He keeps playing with me... He truly doesnt understand how stressful wedding planning is and I am really to snap on a negro
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Lol, men can't live with em' can't get married without em' (well in most states).
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