[quote="Tewright1"]I am praying for you, Aresthea and Stlbride, who opened this subject. I pray for increase mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I ask the Lord to impart clarity and determination in our decisions. May we all continue in courage and wisdom to help pull up and lift up each other with our testomonies, advice and wisdom.
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Actually, I would like to extend this prayer to everyone in the sisterhood. Also to our friends and family as well. Thank you Tewright.
thank you for all of you sisters... now i have a decision to solve.. that physco girl wants to meet me. in one hand, i think meeting her will be one way to show that i aint scared of her witchcrap and it probably the best way to end all of the messiness. but in other hand, as ive mentioned above, i have lost my image infront of her (thanx to my fiance!) and meeting her will be something like witnessing her dancing her evil dance.. beside, what will she say if i really go and meet her? im sure he will again saying the same old crap that she doesnt mean to hurt me or there is nothing between her and my fiance. so now im on dilemma.. should i go and meet the beloved physco or not?.... >_< ;
To be honest you have no reason to meet this chick. The issue is between you and him, your issue really has nothing to do with her. If you meet her it will only further cloud and complicate the situation. Whatever you do, just be prayerful.
Real love requires a minimum of emotion and a maximum of the will - Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr.
[quote="IvyPrincess"]To be honest you have no reason to meet this chick. The issue is between you and him, your issue really has nothing to do with her. If you meet her it will only further cloud and complicate the situation. Whatever you do, just be prayerful.
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I totally agree with IvyPrincess. You have no reason whatsoever to meet with this woman. She has shown disrespect to you by consistently undermining your relationship.
Let your fiance sort her out as this is his baggage. As mentioned by the other ladies the only thing you can do is to seriously talk this out with him and let him know this is hurting you and you'll appreciate it if he could handle it once and for all before y'all get married.
Finally, trust God to work this out because no problem is bigger than Him. My prayers are with you and the rest of the ladies going through the same situation.
Aresthea, I agree there is no reason for you to meet the ex but I do hope you know what she looks like. Just in case she's a stalker or something. Have you seen her before?
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
ABSOLUTELY NO reason to meet her, just like others have said. What you need to do is what you stated above, have a meeting with your FH and see where everything stands, tell him how you're feeling about the upcoming marriage, this craxy ex, everything. You handle your relationship, he handles the crazy ex......nothing good could come out of your meeting with her, especially since like another woman posted she has constantly disrespected your relationship by calling and so forth. I would not meet her......
once again, thank you for the great advises.. thank God all advises said that i musnt see her, because if i have to meet her then it wont be easy at all. well, i dont know what she looks like since ive never met her before, but i do know her through her pics that displayed on the bulletin board (by the way, she is a missionarist). i dont know whether she is a stalker or not, but i think she is.. (look at what she had done so far to me).. me and my fiance had talked, and he promised me that it will be ok and that physco gal will never bug our life again because my fiance had given sort of ultimatum for her, if she dares to bug me again then we would complain to the priest/father of the church. if they found out that she had been into several affairs (not only with my fiance but she had also dated some of my fiance's friends) then the church would send her back to her country. i dont know what will happen, but i do hope all of you are with me.. your all prayers are mean so much for me.. thank you,.
[quote="atownswifey"]WHAT KIND OF MISSIONARY GOES AROUND SLEEPING WITH DIFFERENT MEN?????!!!!!!!!!! Honey I think the devil is real busy with that woman..... No offense
[quote="aresthea"]once again, thank you for the great advises.. thank God all advises said that i musnt see her, because if i have to meet her then it wont be easy at all. well, i dont know what she looks like since ive never met her before, but i do know her through her pics that displayed on the bulletin board (by the way, she is a missionarist). i dont know whether she is a stalker or not, but i think she is.. (look at what she had done so far to me).. me and my fiance had talked, and he promised me that it will be ok and that physco gal will never bug our life again because my fiance had given sort of ultimatum for her, if she dares to bug me again then we would complain to the priest/father of the church. if they found out that she had been into several affairs (not only with my fiance but she had also dated some of my fiance's friends) then the church would send her back to her country. i dont know what will happen, but i do hope all of you are with me.. your all prayers are mean so much for me.. thank you,.
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Ok the church should have excommunitcated her a long time ago. By allowing her hold one of the most honored positions for a woman of God is a slap the Lord's Face.I don't think you should wait, I think you take it to your pastor IMMEDIATELY!. You have tried speaking to her before, and it is obivous she is controlled be her flesh. She may not ever hurt you or your FH again but she will hurt another family.
I agree with the others. MzTajsia makes a good point. Don't wait, tell your Pastor NOW!! You have given her too many opportunities as it is. She knows what she is doing is wrong; especially being a "so-called woman of God". Remember, everyone in church isn't saved and everybody on their knees in church ain't praying, either. Clearly, this woman needs to "fall on her face" and repent for the things she doing, especially being a missionary. She is supposed to help others; not wreak havoc on other peoples lives and destroy relationships.
My advice to you is: Don't give the devil anymore of your time. Don't go to see her, go to your Pastor. Also, I want you to pray and ask God for his protection. Please do this several times a day, everyday.
sorry for not posting anything for few days.. i got fever, so kinda away from comp. but im back. well, sistas.. all you are not the only one that got shocked.. i was shocked to the bone as well when i knew that she is a missionarist. she is from phillipine, a filipino gal. she is a 7 days adventist or something like that, i dont quite recall. but yeah, the bottom line is, she IS a missionarist. she does teaching kind of stuff here. hey sista, i wont get offense. :D but just to let you know, she didnt went to bed only with my FH.. she dated boys, and some of them were also my FH's friends.. they knew her from my FH (sort of) then they.. yeah, ended up on bed i guess.. whatever it is, all of you are right. i have to stand on my feet to get everything fixed. but i will give her one more chance, and if she blew it and hurted my once again, then i would definetely tell her pastor.. the good news is, i already had serious discussion with my Fh about everything, and i just let go of everything that i had in my heart for so long. we talked about "what is the solution", "how to handle in case she create a scene again", "what to do if she dares to hurt me (or terrorize) me". my FH gave all his words,.. and i certainly hope that they wont be just fake words. once again, i need all of your prayers, sistas.... and .. errr, i guess you are right. the devil keeps itself busy with this physco gal...... i really pray for her soul...
it might sound as the stupidest thing on earth... but yeah,.. i still wanna continue the plan... what do u sistas think about it? is it a bad decision?
[quote="aresthea"]it might sound as the stupidest thing on earth... but yeah,.. i still wanna continue the plan... what do u sistas think about it? is it a bad decision?
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only you know what you want to do in your heart...if you feel that this is the right decision for you then go ahead and do it-go to God and ask him to guide you in this decision not man...others will always give you THEIR opinion, but they are not and cannot walk in your shoes! good luck with whatever decision you make :)
[quote="aresthea"]it might sound as the stupidest thing on earth... but yeah,.. i still wanna continue the plan... what do u sistas think about it? is it a bad decision?
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Hi Aresthea, these ladies have given you some awesome advice. They have helped me through some challenges as well. The bottom line is this is your life. You have to make the decision as to whether you want to marry your fiance or not. What ever decision you make, you have to be at peace with it. The sisterhood will support you, but you must pray, search your heart and follow your instincts they will never lead you astray. Be encouraged, I wish you all the best in whatever decision you make.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Thank you shoo much for all the precious advises... me and my FH now is continuing the plan of getting married. about that physco gal, i havent heard anything again from her for these past few days, and i hope she really stop on bugging me. i guess my FH really did what he said to me about giving her the ultimatum to stay away from our life. keep praying for me.. and once again, thank you so much for all the concerns...
I know I came into this post late, and I'm glad I did. I may be way more confrontational than some of you ladies seem to be and that's why I feel out of place here sometimes :D
I believe in the power of prayer...God has made a way for me where there seemed to be no way. But I also believe in checking people, be it husband or ex-girlfriend. When a bothersome ex tried to interfere with my relationship I told DH (bf at the time) that if our relationship meant as much to him as much as he said it did that he needed to check her because if I had to do it, it would get ugly for both of them. He promptly nipped it in the bud.
Don't feel alone, I am the same exact way girl. I am a bit more confrontational. I have tried to work on it but its not really working yet. I have had the you fix it or I will conversation. And one time he didn't fix it well enough to suit me and I had to embarass chick chick. But she didn't step out of pocket again.
Real love requires a minimum of emotion and a maximum of the will - Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr.
I'm glad to know we have that in common Ivy :) Sometimes when I read these posts, I'm thinking to myself "jack that heffa up" but when everyone else initial reaction is "pray on it and give it to God" I think "oh my goodness I'm a crazy heathen" lol
Oh don't get it twisted I am one to act a fool. I am the type of chick who kicks azz and ask questions later, however with that being said there comes a time when you need to look a the bigger picture. Yes your first instinct is to want to believe what your man is saying even if you know his ass is telling a lie, and to be mad at the girl. When 9 times out of ten, YOUR MAN is the one who is playing both sides of the fence. He will tell you one thing so you will think nothing is going on between them two, and tell her something totally diffrent to make her think the he no longer wants you.
I've dealt with more than my share of drama. That's why I say "Pray about it". Some of you weren't on the site when I was going through my issues. I posted a topic called "Drama, Drama, Drama" about a similiar situation. I would have done some time if I didn't change my way of thinking. Thank God he was smart enough to handle the situation before I ended up going to jail...
[quote="STBMrsJ"]I'm glad to know we have that in common Ivy :) Sometimes when I read these posts, I'm thinking to myself "jack that heffa up" but when everyone else initial reaction is "pray on it and give it to God" I think "oh my goodness I'm a crazy heathen" lol
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Honey all of us are there given the right circumstances. God knows I have. Yes, there are many times I would love to say pray on it while your on your way to "handle your business". Then you have to ask the question "will I still be able to pay for my wedding after I have bailed myself out of jail?" ('ll take "Wedding" for $200 Jack)
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
actually, ive been thinking a lot these days. i dont know, but i think that the physco gal had really turned me into a very bad person, and i do feel so bad about my self right now. since she stepped into the scene, i started to grow this feeling of hateness for her that no one can imagine. (Lord please forgive me for this!) and i thought lots of bad things for her, such as to put her under an elephant so that it can step on her,.. or to tied her along a big rock and threw her into the deepest lake,... many things. i hate her, hate her sooooo much.. and i guess this triggers me into a very bad person... anybody, sistas, know how to press this feeling down?
I wouldn't waste anymore of my precious time and energy thinking about this chick. She loves the fact that she aggravated you enough to have you feeling that way about her. Don't give her the satisfaction. The devil is a liar! When you start having those feelings, read your bible, go to a spa, or do something that you LOVE to do. The devil feeds off of negativity...
[quote="aresthea"]actually, ive been thinking a lot these days. i dont know, but i think that the physco gal had really turned me into a very bad person, and i do feel so bad about my self right now. since she stepped into the scene, i started to grow this feeling of hateness for her that no one can imagine. (Lord please forgive me for this!) and i thought lots of bad things for her, such as to put her under an elephant so that it can step on her,.. or to tied her along a big rock and threw her into the deepest lake,... many things. i hate her, hate her sooooo much.. and i guess this triggers me into a very bad person... anybody, sistas, know how to press this feeling down?
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I agree with Plat and read your Bible. Carry it with you if you have to. Write down some scriptures that soothe you and keep them with you. Most importantly keep in mind things that make you happy. Dwell on those things that you like. Reflect on you and your FH; how you two met, how he makes you feel, and imagine your future.
This woman is not part of your future she is a person who is allowing the devil to use her. So when you pray; command every demonic force to cease from interfering with your life and for deliverance from the problems she is causing. You also need to pray that she too may be delivered from her demonic possession. This may sound hard but do it in faith. As Christians we seek for all to be delivered.
'Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.' - Hebrews 11:1
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
i was just re-read this board.. and i am so thankfullll.. that on those worst period of my life, i have allof you, my beloved sistas.. all of ya were there, gave precious valuable advises, gave some hints through the fog which led me to see the glowing light of our Lord.. and you all supported me in such endless way.. thank you so much.. thank you... once again, thank you....
[quote="Tewright1"]I am praying for you, Aresthea and Stlbride, who opened this subject. I pray for increase mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I ask the Lord to impart clarity and determination in our decisions. May we all continue in courage and wisdom to help pull up and lift up each other with our testomonies, advice and wisdom.
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Actually, I would like to extend this prayer to everyone in the sisterhood. Also to our friends and family as well. Thank you Tewright.
Born Blessed!
thank you for all of you sisters... now i have a decision to solve.. that physco girl wants to meet me. in one hand, i think meeting her will be one way to show that i aint scared of her witchcrap and it probably the best way to end all of the messiness. but in other hand, as ive mentioned above, i have lost my image infront of her (thanx to my fiance!) and meeting her will be something like witnessing her dancing her evil dance.. beside, what will she say if i really go and meet her? im sure he will again saying the same old crap that she doesnt mean to hurt me or there is nothing between her and my fiance. so now im on dilemma.. should i go and meet the beloved physco or not?.... >_< ;
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
To be honest you have no reason to meet this chick. The issue is between you and him, your issue really has nothing to do with her. If you meet her it will only further cloud and complicate the situation. Whatever you do, just be prayerful.
Real love requires a minimum of emotion and a maximum of the will - Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr.
[quote="IvyPrincess"]To be honest you have no reason to meet this chick. The issue is between you and him, your issue really has nothing to do with her. If you meet her it will only further cloud and complicate the situation. Whatever you do, just be prayerful.
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I totally agree with IvyPrincess. You have no reason whatsoever to meet with this woman. She has shown disrespect to you by consistently undermining your relationship.
Let your fiance sort her out as this is his baggage. As mentioned by the other ladies the only thing you can do is to seriously talk this out with him and let him know this is hurting you and you'll appreciate it if he could handle it once and for all before y'all get married.
Finally, trust God to work this out because no problem is bigger than Him. My prayers are with you and the rest of the ladies going through the same situation.
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Amen to Tewright's prayer.
Aresthea, I agree there is no reason for you to meet the ex but I do hope you know what she looks like. Just in case she's a stalker or something. Have you seen her before?
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
ABSOLUTELY NO reason to meet her, just like others have said. What you need to do is what you stated above, have a meeting with your FH and see where everything stands, tell him how you're feeling about the upcoming marriage, this craxy ex, everything. You handle your relationship, he handles the crazy ex......nothing good could come out of your meeting with her, especially since like another woman posted she has constantly disrespected your relationship by calling and so forth. I would not meet her......
once again, thank you for the great advises.. thank God all advises said that i musnt see her, because if i have to meet her then it wont be easy at all. well, i dont know what she looks like since ive never met her before, but i do know her through her pics that displayed on the bulletin board (by the way, she is a missionarist). i dont know whether she is a stalker or not, but i think she is.. (look at what she had done so far to me).. me and my fiance had talked, and he promised me that it will be ok and that physco gal will never bug our life again because my fiance had given sort of ultimatum for her, if she dares to bug me again then we would complain to the priest/father of the church. if they found out that she had been into several affairs (not only with my fiance but she had also dated some of my fiance's friends) then the church would send her back to her country. i dont know what will happen, but i do hope all of you are with me.. your all prayers are mean so much for me.. thank you,.
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
WHAT KIND OF MISSIONARY GOES AROUND SLEEPING WITH DIFFERENT MEN?????!!!!!!!!!! Honey I think the devil is real busy with that woman..... No offense
[quote="atownswifey"]WHAT KIND OF MISSIONARY GOES AROUND SLEEPING WITH DIFFERENT MEN?????!!!!!!!!!! Honey I think the devil is real busy with that woman..... No offense
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DITTO!!!!!!!!!!!
[quote="aresthea"]once again, thank you for the great advises.. thank God all advises said that i musnt see her, because if i have to meet her then it wont be easy at all. well, i dont know what she looks like since ive never met her before, but i do know her through her pics that displayed on the bulletin board (by the way, she is a missionarist). i dont know whether she is a stalker or not, but i think she is.. (look at what she had done so far to me).. me and my fiance had talked, and he promised me that it will be ok and that physco gal will never bug our life again because my fiance had given sort of ultimatum for her, if she dares to bug me again then we would complain to the priest/father of the church. if they found out that she had been into several affairs (not only with my fiance but she had also dated some of my fiance's friends) then the church would send her back to her country. i dont know what will happen, but i do hope all of you are with me.. your all prayers are mean so much for me.. thank you,.
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Ok the church should have excommunitcated her a long time ago. By allowing her hold one of the most honored positions for a woman of God is a slap the Lord's Face.I don't think you should wait, I think you take it to your pastor IMMEDIATELY!. You have tried speaking to her before, and it is obivous she is controlled be her flesh. She may not ever hurt you or your FH again but she will hurt another family.
Introducng the new Mrs. Durrant!!!
I agree with the others. MzTajsia makes a good point. Don't wait, tell your Pastor NOW!! You have given her too many opportunities as it is. She knows what she is doing is wrong; especially being a "so-called woman of God". Remember, everyone in church isn't saved and everybody on their knees in church ain't praying, either. Clearly, this woman needs to "fall on her face" and repent for the things she doing, especially being a missionary. She is supposed to help others; not wreak havoc on other peoples lives and destroy relationships.
My advice to you is: Don't give the devil anymore of your time. Don't go to see her, go to your Pastor. Also, I want you to pray and ask God for his protection. Please do this several times a day, everyday.
By the way, where is she from?
Born Blessed!
sorry for not posting anything for few days.. i got fever, so kinda away from comp. but im back. well, sistas.. all you are not the only one that got shocked.. i was shocked to the bone as well when i knew that she is a missionarist. she is from phillipine, a filipino gal. she is a 7 days adventist or something like that, i dont quite recall. but yeah, the bottom line is, she IS a missionarist. she does teaching kind of stuff here. hey sista, i wont get offense. :D but just to let you know, she didnt went to bed only with my FH.. she dated boys, and some of them were also my FH's friends.. they knew her from my FH (sort of) then they.. yeah, ended up on bed i guess.. whatever it is, all of you are right. i have to stand on my feet to get everything fixed. but i will give her one more chance, and if she blew it and hurted my once again, then i would definetely tell her pastor.. the good news is, i already had serious discussion with my Fh about everything, and i just let go of everything that i had in my heart for so long. we talked about "what is the solution", "how to handle in case she create a scene again", "what to do if she dares to hurt me (or terrorize) me". my FH gave all his words,.. and i certainly hope that they wont be just fake words. once again, i need all of your prayers, sistas.... and .. errr, i guess you are right. the devil keeps itself busy with this physco gal...... i really pray for her soul...
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
Do you still plan on getting married?
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it might sound as the stupidest thing on earth... but yeah,.. i still wanna continue the plan... what do u sistas think about it? is it a bad decision?
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
[quote="aresthea"]it might sound as the stupidest thing on earth... but yeah,.. i still wanna continue the plan... what do u sistas think about it? is it a bad decision?
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only you know what you want to do in your heart...if you feel that this is the right decision for you then go ahead and do it-go to God and ask him to guide you in this decision not man...others will always give you THEIR opinion, but they are not and cannot walk in your shoes! good luck with whatever decision you make :)
I fully agree with soon. Only you can make that decision.
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[quote="aresthea"]it might sound as the stupidest thing on earth... but yeah,.. i still wanna continue the plan... what do u sistas think about it? is it a bad decision?
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Hi Aresthea, these ladies have given you some awesome advice. They have helped me through some challenges as well. The bottom line is this is your life. You have to make the decision as to whether you want to marry your fiance or not. What ever decision you make, you have to be at peace with it. The sisterhood will support you, but you must pray, search your heart and follow your instincts they will never lead you astray. Be encouraged, I wish you all the best in whatever decision you make.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
See Rhony that's why we need you around here. You always give the most encouraging words.
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Thank you shoo much for all the precious advises... me and my FH now is continuing the plan of getting married. about that physco gal, i havent heard anything again from her for these past few days, and i hope she really stop on bugging me. i guess my FH really did what he said to me about giving her the ultimatum to stay away from our life. keep praying for me.. and once again, thank you so much for all the concerns...
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
I'm glad you worked it all out. You'll stay in my prayers.
Born Blessed!
I know I came into this post late, and I'm glad I did. I may be way more confrontational than some of you ladies seem to be and that's why I feel out of place here sometimes :D
I believe in the power of prayer...God has made a way for me where there seemed to be no way. But I also believe in checking people, be it husband or ex-girlfriend. When a bothersome ex tried to interfere with my relationship I told DH (bf at the time) that if our relationship meant as much to him as much as he said it did that he needed to check her because if I had to do it, it would get ugly for both of them. He promptly nipped it in the bud.
Don't feel alone, I am the same exact way girl. I am a bit more confrontational. I have tried to work on it but its not really working yet. I have had the you fix it or I will conversation. And one time he didn't fix it well enough to suit me and I had to embarass chick chick. But she didn't step out of pocket again.
Real love requires a minimum of emotion and a maximum of the will - Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr.
[quote="housewife147"]See Rhony that's why we need you around here. You always give the most encouraging words.
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Thank you House!!!! xoxoxoxoxo
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I'm glad to know we have that in common Ivy :) Sometimes when I read these posts, I'm thinking to myself "jack that heffa up" but when everyone else initial reaction is "pray on it and give it to God" I think "oh my goodness I'm a crazy heathen" lol
Too funny!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I know what you ladies mean MrsJ and Ivy. That's why I told her to try to stay calm cause I didn't. That was the 1st time I hit a man!
Oh don't get it twisted I am one to act a fool. I am the type of chick who kicks azz and ask questions later, however with that being said there comes a time when you need to look a the bigger picture. Yes your first instinct is to want to believe what your man is saying even if you know his ass is telling a lie, and to be mad at the girl. When 9 times out of ten, YOUR MAN is the one who is playing both sides of the fence. He will tell you one thing so you will think nothing is going on between them two, and tell her something totally diffrent to make her think the he no longer wants you.
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I've dealt with more than my share of drama. That's why I say "Pray about it". Some of you weren't on the site when I was going through my issues. I posted a topic called "Drama, Drama, Drama" about a similiar situation. I would have done some time if I didn't change my way of thinking. Thank God he was smart enough to handle the situation before I ended up going to jail...
Born Blessed!
[quote="STBMrsJ"]I'm glad to know we have that in common Ivy :) Sometimes when I read these posts, I'm thinking to myself "jack that heffa up" but when everyone else initial reaction is "pray on it and give it to God" I think "oh my goodness I'm a crazy heathen" lol
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Honey all of us are there given the right circumstances. God knows I have. Yes, there are many times I would love to say pray on it while your on your way to "handle your business". Then you have to ask the question "will I still be able to pay for my wedding after I have bailed myself out of jail?" ('ll take "Wedding" for $200 Jack)
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
actually, ive been thinking a lot these days. i dont know, but i think that the physco gal had really turned me into a very bad person, and i do feel so bad about my self right now. since she stepped into the scene, i started to grow this feeling of hateness for her that no one can imagine. (Lord please forgive me for this!) and i thought lots of bad things for her, such as to put her under an elephant so that it can step on her,.. or to tied her along a big rock and threw her into the deepest lake,... many things. i hate her, hate her sooooo much.. and i guess this triggers me into a very bad person... anybody, sistas, know how to press this feeling down?
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
Sister, read your bible. I know that's probably something you don't want to hear but believe me, it really helps!
Born Blessed!
yeah,... thats one good advise.. i'll take it happily, and thank you sho muchh!!!
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
I wouldn't waste anymore of my precious time and energy thinking about this chick. She loves the fact that she aggravated you enough to have you feeling that way about her. Don't give her the satisfaction. The devil is a liar! When you start having those feelings, read your bible, go to a spa, or do something that you LOVE to do. The devil feeds off of negativity...
Born Blessed!
[quote="aresthea"]actually, ive been thinking a lot these days. i dont know, but i think that the physco gal had really turned me into a very bad person, and i do feel so bad about my self right now. since she stepped into the scene, i started to grow this feeling of hateness for her that no one can imagine. (Lord please forgive me for this!) and i thought lots of bad things for her, such as to put her under an elephant so that it can step on her,.. or to tied her along a big rock and threw her into the deepest lake,... many things. i hate her, hate her sooooo much.. and i guess this triggers me into a very bad person... anybody, sistas, know how to press this feeling down?
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I agree with Plat and read your Bible. Carry it with you if you have to. Write down some scriptures that soothe you and keep them with you. Most importantly keep in mind things that make you happy. Dwell on those things that you like. Reflect on you and your FH; how you two met, how he makes you feel, and imagine your future.
This woman is not part of your future she is a person who is allowing the devil to use her. So when you pray; command every demonic force to cease from interfering with your life and for deliverance from the problems she is causing. You also need to pray that she too may be delivered from her demonic possession. This may sound hard but do it in faith. As Christians we seek for all to be delivered.
'Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.' - Hebrews 11:1
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
i was just re-read this board.. and i am so thankfullll.. that on those worst period of my life, i have allof you, my beloved sistas.. all of ya were there, gave precious valuable advises, gave some hints through the fog which led me to see the glowing light of our Lord.. and you all supported me in such endless way.. thank you so much.. thank you... once again, thank you....
Either I will Find a way, or I will MAKE a way!!!
All I can say is praise God! I'm glad things are better and for you. God bless!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
That's what the sisterhood is for! Once again, welcome back!
I'm happy things worked out for the better. God Bless You my sister!
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