Hey ladies, as usual your advise is needed. My FH and I were discussing the possibilities of moving back to his home after we were married. [Africa] ...Now we have spoken about this before and I told him that I have not ruled out the possibility of this happening but also too if it is condusive for the upbringing of my 2 small children. We were talking the other night and it came up because of some pending business plans that may come to pass...but I have been hearing things like thyphoid and yellow fewer other things that make me uncomfortable about exposing my kids to that environment besides that my ex-husband may have 2 chickens and a hen about me relocation his children to the other side of the world and let me tell you now, I am NOT leaving my children. Do you think I am being unreasonable if I say it may be safer and better for us to stay here....[we had already started making plans for him to relocate here] I mean don't you think if he can have a successful business in Africa he can have it here as well....I'm I being selfish.....
Hey ladies, as usual your advise is needed. My FH and I were discussing the possibilities of moving back to his home after we were married. [Africa] ...Now we have spoken about this before and I told him that I have not ruled out the possibility of this happening but also too if it is condusive for the upbringing of my 2 small children. We were talking the other night and it came up because of some pending business plans that may come to pass...but I have been hearing things like thyphoid and yellow fewer other things that make me uncomfortable about exposing my kids to that environment besides that my ex-husband may have 2 chickens and a hen about me relocation his children to the other side of the world and let me tell you now, I am NOT leaving my children. Do you think I am being unreasonable if I say it may be safer and better for us to stay here....[we had already started making plans for him to relocate here] I mean don't you think if he can have a successful business in Africa he can have it here as well....I'm I being selfish.....
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You are not being unreasonable. But consider that there are shots for yellow fever and thyphoid. You can immunize your children before they go. Consider also that a lot of people would say that it would be dangerous to move to the Bahamas! My cousin moved to Gambia and lived there quite happily for 12 years and both children were born there and one came to live with her from Georgia. Ask yourself how important this relationship is to you. He already has a thriving business. It would be difficult for him to start over. Because he really would be starting from scratch with no guarantee of success.
Are you yourself nervous about it for you? Did you know that you may have to move when he proposed?
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Rosetta, I welcomed the idea of moving more than he did and no I am not vervous for me, I look at all the possibilties involved like meeting and being a part of his wonderful family.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.