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Thick Chick Issue...

Hello everyone, I am in need of some advice about finding the right wedding gown. For all of the "Thick Chicks" out there, what dress looks good on us????
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Thick Chick Issue...

Hello everyone, I am in need of some advice about finding the right wedding gown. For all of the "Thick Chicks" out there, what dress looks good on us????
I would appreciate any comments. Thanks....

Be Blessed.....

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You know, it really depends on you. What are your limitations? Are you comfortable in sheaths, balgowns, a-lines, empire waist, strapless, spaghetti strap, sleeveless? And then there's colors and fabrics. LOL! But don't worry we'll get you through the selection process.

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Hello! i found that a great site to found a wedding dress is called Best Buy Bridals. http://www.bestbuybridals.com the dresses are around $195 and the Headpieces and veils around $45 for both. they have dresses ranging in size 4 to 30 and they look really good so check the site and and let me know what you think.

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Thanks ladies for your support on this issue. Phenomonique, to answer your question, I am a heavy chested woman w/ big arms. I would love to wear a strapless or a gown with some straps but I feel odd (like everything is hanging out). And then the color issue is, well, a whole other issue. Since my wedding is in Sept of next year, I was thinking of fall colors like burnt orange, yellows, dark reds or pinks. You know, the color of the autumn leaves. So, I don't know. I can tell you this, reading the feedback on this website is really giving me some good ideas. So I'm open to anything anyone has to offer. And Della, I am going to check that site out and get back to you on what I've found. If you run across any good ones, please let a sista know!!!

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Lanierh actually September is still a summer month so you may want to reconsider the fall colors. Bright, bold robust colors will be more appropriate for summer....unless that is what your heart desires then you can bend the rules just because you can and its your day. I too am busty with large arms but I think you would not want to draw attention to that, if you wear a strapless gown, you will only draw attention to your bust and arm size and like YOU said....'I feel odd (like everything is hanging out)'...accentuate the positives..do you have a well defined waist line...maybe think about an off-the-shoulder ball gown...again the choice is yours, this is only my suggestion...you still have the final call. Hook up with Phenomonique, that's her area....helping us find 'the dress'. Good Luck

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Thank you for the info...and I will consider all of that:)

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First I'd like to celebrate all the full figured sisters!!!! I too am full figured, I am full busted and I have wide hips. I discovered www.plussizebridal.com they have the most beautiful gowns that will compliment any body size/shape. Check it out ladies, I'm sure you'll find something that you like. Enjoy!!!

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THE SITE THAT DAUGHTERRHONDA SUGGESTED IS A GREAT SITE I WEN TO VIEW IT TODAY WHEN I GOT ON LINE AND THE SITE IS GREAT WITH GREAT PIECES TO MATCH. I WOULD BUY MY DRESSES THERE FOR MY NEW MWEDDING WHEN I RENEW MY MARRIAGE VOWS IN 2007.

May God Bless You and Keep you. Good luc in planning your Big Day

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I am somewhat of a thick chick. I went to several different bridal stores and tryed on gowns until I found a style that I liked. I then went to David's to see if they had the style that I liked in the color that I wanted. I went with a strapless gown that has an asymetrical waist. I chose to wear ivory because I felt like it complimented my skin tone better. It gave me a certain glow :>) My wedding date is October 1 and my bridesmaids are wearing cranberry and my flowers incorporate fall colors. My family has dark skin and I just think that the red family really looks good on them. When choosing a color make sure that the color compliments your skin tone as well as yor bridemaids. But remember that you may not be able to please them all. Another website to try is bridesave.com. I went there first looking for my bridesmaids dresses but I ordered them from pearlsplace.com. I hope this helps you out. Good Luck

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Yes, I'm very interested in this also. I'm in about a size 14-16 so I know the dress needs to be bigger. I'm attracted to the strapless gowns, but I am very heavy up top. What to do????!!!!

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you could buy a gown that strap's around your neck and you could still have the strapless dress. or you could get a dress that cross over one shoulder andlets the other should hang off. i have a few pic that show a one shoulder gown ill scan them and post them in about 2 days so be looking for them ok. god bless and good luck on your wedding

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The advice just keeps getting better and better. It's good to know that others are going thru the same issues as me. Now I don't feel as alone. Thanks, guys....This really helps :)

Be Blessed.....

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Great ideas....thanx soooo much! I'll look....

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Ya'll see that dress on bribesplus.com with the navy blue running down the back, its a special order dress which says you can request whatever fabric or color in the back....man-oh-man, what a dress.

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Charlotte, I didn't see the gown you're speaking of. Give me the site and style number, I want to ooh and aah too. LOL!

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Moe, the site is www.plussizebridal.com, and the style number is 1502 and girl they added the matching flower girl dress....LORD GIVE ME STRENGTH...talk about fabulous......SOMEBODY HOLD ME UP PLEASE WOW!

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Girl you have me cracking up over here. Oh my goodness Charlottemodebe, I went to www.plussizebridal.com and looked at your dress #1502 and it is stunning, and the matiching flower girl dress, they have out done themselves!!!! I know you will look truly amazing!!!! Make sure you post pictures on the site, once you've said I do.

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Ya'll know that wide smile Whoopi Goldberg has in the color purple........well mines is bigger, wider and brighter than that. I think you can actually see my cavity in the back. That is what that dress is doing to me. OH MY!!!!!!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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CharlotteModebe, you are so funny (LOL)!!!!!

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Charlottemodebe that dress is very nice you will look great in it and so will the flower girl. best of luck and god bless.

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Rosetta could you post a picture of CharlotteModebes' gown, I can't find it. I'm very excited for you!!! My girl hooked me up like that too. I'm so glad I found this site. Moe saved me a grip! Rosetta you have a heck of a group here. I've been saving all the ideas on my computer. I'm going over them trying to create something magical for my day. I've been blowing Moes' email up. But it's coming together.

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I agree ladies, that dress is sooooooooooooo great. I wish that you were able to change the colors of the dress on the screen so that you could see the diffrenct looks. It is truly one in a million.....

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Laneirh that would be super cool if that could happen. Girl I am already blushing at the site of this dress, if we had the option to change the back material, my lip would have probably pushed thru the screen by now [lol]

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Mon Cheri Bridal has quite a few Women size gowns. Here are a few of my favorites. Also, for you ladie that feel more comfortable with your arms covered, there are shear bodysuits to go with the wedding gowns. Remember the wedding gown the girl wor in the movie 'The Best Man'? Well that what the bodysuit would look like under a strapless gown.
http://www.mcbridals.com/photos%2Fbridal05Fall%2Ffull%2F25289%2Ejpg
http://www.mcbridals.com/photos%2Fbridal05Fall%2Ffull%2F25281%5F1%2Ejpg
http://www.mcbridals.com/photos%2Fbridal05Fall%2Ffull%2F25291%2Ejpg
http://www.mcbridals.com/photos%2Fbridal05Fall%2Ffull%2F25285%2Ejpg
http://www.mcbridals.com/photos%2Fbridal05Fall%2Ffull%2F25206%2Ejpg

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Girl Moe, that last dress with the coat is slamming...if one would want to "kick it up a knotch" and change dresses for the reception, that would be perfect. Mind you it is also fabulous as the main gown as well.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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To all my curvy sistahs, I found another website that has really nice gowns www.bonny.com. Check it out, I'm sure you'll be able to find dresses for yourselves or your brides maids. Have fun and good luck!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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RE: Dress from Plussizebridal. I am DEFINATLY getting that dress for my daughter (flower girl). I decided on that dress maybe 2 weeks ago. As far as the matching bridal gown, I didn't know you could pick your own color. I thought it only came in the colors that you choose from (drop down menu). I have to check that out.

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Hi SeptBride, when is your wedding? Are you getting the dress with the NavyBlue and Silver embroidery?

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I have a while to go for my wedding. It's not until Sept of 07. But, I'm planning everything now (I'm an event coordinator). And since I'm not having a coordinator for my own wedding, I'm planning now. I know how the stress level can go up. I'm not getting that dress (the matching bride gown), but my daughter will have the flower girl dress.

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Phenom, can you send over a link for the bodysuit so I can see what you're talking about? It sounds interesting.

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Here's a link to the picture on bridesave
http://www1.bridesave.com/images/gowns/mgbodysuitm.jpg

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Niquey.....! is this body suite something that you would wear under a sleeveless, strapless gown?....I am totally freaked here cus I aint never see nothing like this before, please explain that concept. Thanks

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Yeah, you wear it under a strapless gown.
I order a couple of them, but I haven't
seen anyone in it yet.

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Hmmmm! so its like a leotard....a see thru leotard!?

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.