Ladies, I need some advice.One of the guys that my fiance chose for a groomsman wants his lady in the wedding.However, I dont want her in the wedding, she's loud,obnoxious, and doesn't keep up her appearance. How can I explain that to my fiance and his friend without causing problems?
Ladies, I need some advice.One of the guys that my fiance chose for a groomsman wants his lady in the wedding.However, I dont want her in the wedding, she's loud,obnoxious, and doesn't keep up her appearance. How can I explain that to my fiance and his friend without causing problems?
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Your FH groomsman can have his girlfriend in his wedding, do you get what I'm saying? That's the only wedding he has any say in planning. LOL!!! You don't owe your FH's friend any excuses or explainations. If you chose any of the groomsmen, then that a different issue. LOL!
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I agree with Phenomonique, how dare he suggest that he wants his lady in YOUR wedding. When he has his own, then he can say who can or cannot be in the wedding. I think he's a little too forward. I would just tell your FH's friend politely, and move on. Hopefully, he will be mature about the whole thing and respect your wishes. Good Luck, keep us posted.
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{LOL] YOU GUYS!!! It is not uncommon for (men especially) bridal party members to want to walk down the aisle with a SO. Just say that you have already picked all your bridesmaids and his girlfiend would be the odd one out. Or you could just say
"No, but thank her so much for wanting to be in my wedding!" Or "Are you planning on proposing? She will definately start thinking marriage walking down the aisle on your arm."
That should shut him up.
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Things like this does cause people to cuss (Lord forgive me)....That man head can not be screw on good, excuse me and who wedding is this again, Girlfriend, YOU OWE HIM NOTHING, he is standing in YOUR wedding at YOUR pleasure, do not get all caught in his nonsense, no sugar coating...straight up say NO!. Nah if you scared to tell him, give him my number and I will do it for you...these people just to fresh, fast and forward for my good...how dare he!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Lol!Thank you, Ladies.I'll talk to my FH about it. Miss Thang is straight 'ghetto'. I'm trying to have a classy affair. I'll let you know how everything turns out.
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Hello...we don't do ghetto. We ladies at Vibride are all about elegance, class, sophistication, tell miss thing to bounce. Off course in a Vibride way....lol
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
You are so right Charlotte! LOL Say Hell to the Naw....in a very classy, elegant way.
I don't know what to say. I'm floored that he had the nerve to ask.
The good Lord knows exactly what he is doing and why He places us in certain situations. That just could not be me. As if it is not hard enough being a christain let alone some idiot trying to cause ya to sin......Father give me strength!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
LOL! You ladies are so funny. All I have to say is it's your wedding and you don't have to have any body in it that you don't want to. Tell o boy to save all that mess for his own wedding. Good Luck!
Commit your way to the Lord; trust also in Him and He will bring it to pass.(Psalm 37:5)
I agree with everyone hear. This is yours and your FH special day. Not everybody elses special day. Looks like your FH didn't explain the protocol to his groomsmen. Just let him know (like someone else suggested) that you have already choosen your bridal party and there is no room. You know how to do it, sweetly but with some umph....LOL :)
Be Blessed.....