Spontaneity, keep it fresh and exciting. For the sake of all the is holy please sistas...please lets try avoid curlers some nights and those nasty face cremes :-). If you gatta wear short pants and a shirt to bed...wear nothing, even if your mad with him....that'll teach him a lesson. I know we are in the era of independance but every now and then, let him think he has won that round....remember when they think about something, we've already thought about that several days ago!...come on, we're women! DAH! Let him lead, nothing is worst than crushing a man's ego. Ya'll hear me, this advice coming from a divorcee [lol] but fa real ladies there is no "me" in a marriage. If you and your partner are on the same wave length, I can not see any bottle-necks. Blessings.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Thanks Charlotte for keeping it real. This is my first marraige and I want it to last. In my family there are not too many role models who have with stood the test of time. I know that he and I will make it as long as we keep God first.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I'm not married yet, but I got this advice from a wise woman. Only only talk to people that have what you want or realize why they don't have it. To me, that means to talk to a woman that has had the fifty year marriage and experienced its joys and pains. Or talk to a woman that has grown enough to realize her part in the break up of her marriage. That honest reflection may help many a bride to be. That makes sense to me!
Hi Ladies, what advice can you guys give (I'm sure we can all benefit from it) on keeping love strong and having our marraiges last.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Spontaneity, keep it fresh and exciting. For the sake of all the is holy please sistas...please lets try avoid curlers some nights and those nasty face cremes :-). If you gatta wear short pants and a shirt to bed...wear nothing, even if your mad with him....that'll teach him a lesson. I know we are in the era of independance but every now and then, let him think he has won that round....remember when they think about something, we've already thought about that several days ago!...come on, we're women! DAH! Let him lead, nothing is worst than crushing a man's ego. Ya'll hear me, this advice coming from a divorcee [lol] but fa real ladies there is no "me" in a marriage. If you and your partner are on the same wave length, I can not see any bottle-necks. Blessings.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Thanks Charlotte for keeping it real. This is my first marraige and I want it to last. In my family there are not too many role models who have with stood the test of time. I know that he and I will make it as long as we keep God first.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Absolutely...Keep God first and people, friends, company............... last!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
You're right on, Charlotte.
Blessed be the Lord my strength ......
Great, keep the advice coming ladies. We need strong marriages in our communities, families, etc.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Ya know what ladies....forget company...do not ever include them in your new life "Misery likes company" at any cost...so forget them!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
I'm not married yet, but I got this advice from a wise woman. Only only talk to people that have what you want or realize why they don't have it. To me, that means to talk to a woman that has had the fifty year marriage and experienced its joys and pains. Or talk to a woman that has grown enough to realize her part in the break up of her marriage. That honest reflection may help many a bride to be. That makes sense to me!
SouthernThoughts thanks for sharing that honest reflection. Those are truly wise words and I will keep them in mind as I transition into my new life.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37