Have you ladies ever been in a situation where you were close to someone and you were helping them hook up with someone and you feel in love with them.....Oh my Lord! The enemy is very busy. My friend from my church really likes this lady who I am very close with...she is really and truly not interested and now I am becoming smitten by him--this is not fear and the worst thing about it is he is such a beautiful person....don't worry thou, I am not one to reveal my feelings about anything, it just hurts inside to be falling for someone who does not even know you exist and you can't have...hmmm!
Have you ladies ever been in a situation where you were close to someone and you were helping them hook up with someone and you feel in love with them.....Oh my Lord! The enemy is very busy. My friend from my church really likes this lady who I am very close with...she is really and truly not interested and now I am becoming smitten by him--this is not fear and the worst thing about it is he is such a beautiful person....don't worry thou, I am not one to reveal my feelings about anything, it just hurts inside to be falling for someone who does not even know you exist and you can't have...hmmm!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
A love triangle, huh? Ask him if he would be interested in someone like you. Life is too short to miss out on love. possibly. [smile]
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Rosetta....I am not brave enough to do that...."you do it for me please" :-) We were online talking last night until about 1:00am and he says things like..."you are so special, why do you think I took to you so quickly" that time I am on the other end about to cry cause he has no clue and I am saying to myself "if he only knew". This is the worst feeling ever! I am trying to console him because the one he loves does not love him back and I love him and he does not even know it.....man oh man it hurts like hell!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
I believe the opportunity will present itself for you to reveal your true feelings. When you were online that was one of those times -- it will come around again. Hang in there Charlotte, you are someone who can handle herself in any given situation. I agree with Rosetta "life is too short to miss out on love." Be encouraged my friend.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Take it from someone who kept her feelings in and missed out on what could've been a wonderful situation. If you can't just come out and say it, play the what if game with him. I call it the question of the day- its how I get to talk about things without putting myself "out there" and you get to know where he stands.
Like Nike- just do it
Take a chance my dear Charlotte (in your own way and time of course). You don't want to live your life saying if I could've, would've, should've. Perhaps the "what if" game is a suttle way of finding out where you guys stand. Gurl if you're talking to the man 1:00am in the morning -- I believe their just may be some interest on his behalf.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Charlotte, I agree with all. Take the chance. You will always wonder if you do not. Best of Luck!
Blessed be the Lord my strength ......
Go guys are so special that is why when the system was down the other day I thought I was going to lose my mind....Thank you all so very much, this has been going on for about 5 years now...well actually I saw him from a distance and then I changed my church and whoop! there he was---I almost dropped, then I got more involved in church and we interact so much more and I think that is how the feelings got so strong as they are now to the point that I can actually admit to them. He is a wonderful annointed man of God who just can not seem to find "that person", I was trying to help him "as per his request of course" and they rejected him but my feelings for him are so strong it is unbelievable at this point, but not to the point that I will let him know. My take on it is if he was interested in me, the same way he asked me about the other person, he probably would have said something to me...but he didn't so I'll just continue loving him from a distance...It's so ironic thou---I feel we compliment each other so much--it's amazing. Thank you ladies (sisters)
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Charlotte I wish you so much happiness, because you deserve it. An annointed man of God..... oh my goodness girl!!!! I am a firm believer that if something is meant to be, then it will be. My own situation is a testimony of that. My daughter's father and I were apart for ten years and thought about each other during that entire time until one day "I" had the courage to reveal my true feelings. (I prayed long and hard about it. We are so happy!!!!! Be encouraged!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Thank you so much Ronny...I want you to know that this is eating me up inside and the more he asks me about other people and they reject him, the more difficult it gets cause I am RIGHT THERE and he can't see me....wow!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Gurrrrrrl my heart goes out to you! I know that must be such a challenge for you. I only hope that Mr. man opens up his eyes to see the jewel right in his face.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Nah see why you want make me start crying....you so wrong...SO RIGHT...but so wrong for making me cry.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Charlotte, dry those tears girl -- I believe that this will work out for your good!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
It has already worked for her good. A man of God where you don't have to question his relationship, many dream of the opportunity. Just walk out on the water, you'll be relieved when he meets you half way. Men are simple, he's been rejected and doesn't want to face it again. Ask him out and sit at a coffee shop and have the same wonderful conversations face to face. When you two lock eyes, he'll know and the rest is God's magic.
You said it Sistah!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Nah see!...I just come back from a fabulous meeting with my new boss at House of Assembly and I am sitting here trying to enjoy this conch (snail) that I am allergic to and haven't eating in more than 5 years but I gatta have it cause it's a Bahamian delicate delight....and I read you'll reply and nah my appetite is gone.....Man oh man what a time! and the thing about it is you'll so right, that meeting thingy sounds so wonderful, I heart is racing just thinking about it, this gives a new meaning to the terminology "so close but yet so far"...
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
You are sooo funny. OK, I have an idea where to start even if you don't do it face to face. Ask him hypothetically what is the strangest way he learned someone liked him and what is the strangest way he told someone he did. Then open the door for him to reverse the question to you- when he does, consider your door of opportunity open.
Sistah...you are something else....you ain't gan stop till this man knows how I feel about him hey..
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Ok- I'll stop but I'm excited for you. I just know what its like to wonder what-if but I also know how important it is to recognize God's hand.
Hey ya'll the saga continues...we had a week long fasting and praying in my chrurch and last night he was there...I didn't know he noticed me until he came on line today and told me,,,nice feeling ah-not quit...he also told me he did not stay because he had a DATE [someone please pull the sharp object called hurt out of my heart]....he said someone at his place of employment found out that he was single again and asked him out to a movie...i listen and congratulated him and said be very careful of office romance....he said he really wanted to date one of our other friends but she said, it will ruin the friendship...It told him have fun but be careful---I also asked him if he was afraid of being lonely, he said not really but he chooses not to be,....I told him that God will send 'that person'...just take his time..he agreed. That was a little blow for me but I'm ok.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Hey ya'll the saga continues...we had a week long fasting and praying in my chrurch and last night he was there...I didn't know he noticed me until he came on line today and told me,,,nice feeling ah-not quit...he also told me he did not stay because he had a DATE [someone please pull the sharp object called hurt out of my heart]....he said someone at his place of employment found out that he was single again and asked him out to a movie...i listen and congratulated him and said be very careful of office romance....he said he really wanted to date one of our other friends but she said, it will ruin the friendship...It told him have fun but be careful---I also asked him if he was afraid of being lonely, he said not really but he chooses not to be,....I told him that God will send 'that person'...just take his time..he agreed. That was a little blow for me but I'm ok.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.