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I think I may have posted this same request twice before, but I really need your help now. I am struggling with a song selection for my processional. I really wanted to use "Spend my life with you" by Tamia and Eric Benet, but that song is really common so I want to pick something different. I also thought about "Forever" by Jaheim, but wasn't really feeling it. Please throw all of your suggestions at me. My time is running short (4 months left). Also, my FH father sings and wants to sing at the ceremony. I am not sure where in the ceremony to place him. My other soloist is singing the song that I will walk to and she is singing the Lord's Prayer after the exchange of rings. My aunt is doing a reading after my entrance. Any suggestions on where I can fit my FFIL??? By the way, he is singing " So Amazing" by Luther (not that it matters).

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I think I may have posted this same request twice before, but I really need your help now. I am struggling with a song selection for my processional. I really wanted to use "Spend my life with you" by Tamia and Eric Benet, but that song is really common so I want to pick something different. I also thought about "Forever" by Jaheim, but wasn't really feeling it. Please throw all of your suggestions at me. My time is running short (4 months left). Also, my FH father sings and wants to sing at the ceremony. I am not sure where in the ceremony to place him. My other soloist is singing the song that I will walk to and she is singing the Lord's Prayer after the exchange of rings. My aunt is doing a reading after my entrance. Any suggestions on where I can fit my FFIL??? By the way, he is singing " So Amazing" by Luther (not that it matters).

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Hey Nlbostic, you said you really wanted to use "Spend my life with you" by Tamia and Eric Benet. I love that song and I don't think it is common. I have been to several weddings and to tell you the truth, I never heard it played for the processional. It is a beautiful song and I am very partial to it -- perhaps you should reconsider.... I haven't even begun to think about songs because of this apartment thing. Suggestion: maybe your FH's father can sing after you guys exchange your vows. The good thing about it is you can pretty much do what you want, it's your wedding. Good luck.

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Thanks for the suggestions Ronnie. I think I may reconsider. I really like the song. I really changed my mind when I mentioned it to someone and she said "No, everybody uses that song". Forget her, it's my wedding and I'll do what I want to do. Thanks for the reassurance. As far as my future FIL, let me understand what you are saying. Exchange vows, then he sings, the exchange rings and then the Lord's Prayer?

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Bossie you can have your Father-In-Law sing while you all sign the license.

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Another young lady was looking for a song a while back. I listened to the words and the melody, and it would be great for a processional. 'From Now On' by Regina Bell and Glenn Jones. Check it out on LimeWire.com

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Thanks Ronnie...but our license will be signed ahead of time. That is not a part of the ceremony.

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Thanks Monique. I have limewire installed. I am going to check it out right now. I tell you, if I like this song...I am going to scream. You ladies are the best. I get all my questions answered right here...and for free. Who needs a bridal magazine subscription?

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Monique, the song is beautiful. I am strongly considering it. Thanks so much. ANy other suggestions?

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[quote="nlbostic"] You ladies are the best. I get all my questions answered right here...and for free. Who needs a bridal magazine subscription?
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I truly appreciate that and you are right these ladies are the best! I never even HEARD "Spend my life with you" by Tamia and Eric Benet until you mentioned it and looked up the song. I really like it. What makes you hink it is common? You heard it at a wedding before?

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Isn't the song pretty Rosetta? I love it and I think it's just perfect. I have never heard it at a wedding either. The reason I think it's common is because I've seen it listed as the processional song on a few wedding programs and a friend of mine said that a great deal of weddings she's been to she has heard the song. But so what, my FH and I both like it and thats what matters. Whatever song I pick, I am sure I won't be the first person to use it. I am going to listen to it again right now to remind myself just how much I love it. Any suggestions about my future father in-law issue?

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I'm using these songs for my wedding-Love of my life by Brian McKnight and This Very Moment-by K-Ci and Jo Jo.What do you think about these?Is Limewire a free service?I thinking of making CD's for my wedding favors.

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Thank Platinum. Both are those songs are beautiful. I had considered love of my life my Brian Mcknight, but a friend of mine used that as her professional song not too long ago. Thanks for the suggestions. Yes, Limewire is a free service. Just go to www.limewire.com and download the basic version. You can find just about any song you are looking for.

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Hi Nlbostic, that was actually Charlotte (she and I have the same busy bee -- great minds think alike!) that suggested that you have your FIL sing when you sign your license. What I suggested is that you exchange vows, then he sings, then exchange rings and then the Lord's Prayer.

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Hey I have never heard of signing the licence before the ceremony...that's a first for me. Interesting thou...nah iff we could cut thru some other parts in the whole event that would be great--like the waiting while the bride takes pictures with serving refreshments :-)

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What do you think about "I Believe In You and Me" by Whitney Houston?

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Does anybody know if limewire has Gospel music on the site?

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limewire has just about every song you can think of.

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As soon as I get my computer hooked up at home, I'm heading to the limewire site. Thanks.

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Me too! The wedding is 3 months away and I have a big question mark by music for the wedding. Ideas are welcomed!!!!

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Here's another site that might help you ladies. I got this one from my DJ.Wedding Songs

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Thanks Askalot, I've printed out a list which I will read on the way home today.

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Hey, Askalot!That list is a big help.

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Just as I getting all excited about LimeWire here comes a sista with another fabulous site. Cool Askalot....we may have to soon change your name to "Knowsalot" hehe!

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I know that's right Charly (Knowsalot is a good one!)-- lol.

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What about songs for the entrance of the bride? Any suggestions?

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lol - you guys are a trip - knowsalot. If that's the case, why do I ask soooooo many questions? lol

Copper, check out the link I posted (just scroll up). It may help you.

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i have a suggestion.You may nwant to think about luther vandross's here and now. The song has so many beautiful lyrics. Take a listen if not it may a great song for you and your hubby to dance to.

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Hey there MickyD didn't get a chance to formally welcome you.....I am Charly (always in trouble) I've been out with the flu but it is nice to meet you. Love the Luther suggestion...He was such a powerhouse...I love his music, so romantic and moving, I think its perfect.

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Hi ladies I was just listening to this song by Yalonda adams and I thought it was so beautiful it's called through the storm. See if you can listen to it I think i'm gonna have the soloist sing it during the ceremony. Let me know what you think ok

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i think that is a great song to have at the ceremony. it means that you and your fh cant make it through anything with Gods help and Prayer. best of luck my sista bride

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Excellent choice VirtuousV. Through the Storm would be a very moving song to have sung at your ceremony.

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Yolanda is a gifted woman of God who can really SSSSAAANNNGG! (that's what we say over here) - I have her CD in my car and I listen to it every morning on the way to work - have to so these foolish drivers don't cause me to cuss...my only concern is that the person at your wedding can actually sing this wonderful song.

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Virtuous V,

That is an awesome song. You are wearing waterproof mascara aren't you? You surely will cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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You guys have such interesting choices for wedding music! I just love your ideas. I have an article AA wedding songs that is based on songs vibrides suggest. I am sure to add the Yolanda Adams song.

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Charly i'm gonna send you to the corner :) I don't know if she can sing like Yalonda Adams, but she can blow, she has a strong voice, I think everyone has their own style and she has been singing in the church since she was a kid. My FH asked that same question, so now she has to try out. One time we went to this wedding and this lady was singing real loud and everybody got silent and they were holding their ears, I tried my best not to laugh, but I couldn't it was terrible! and thanks for all of your opinions, greatly appreciated

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Oh my goodness VirtuousV if I had been at that wedding when girlfriend was singing too loud, I would've laughed. Oh nooooooooo, that must have been hilarious! How did you (and all the other guests) get through that.

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Thank the lord for undergarmet sheilds...I probably would have excused myself before I burst.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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A wedding ain't a wedding unless you have some comic relief!

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Okay ladies, just throwing some ideas for music. That is my specialty. Here's my ceremony music...

Praise and Worship
The Way that Jesus Loves You-Kirk Franklin
Serenade-Ted and Sheri
Center of My Joy-Richard Smallwood

Seating of Honored Guests/Parents
Just For Me-Karen Clark-Sheard

Wedding Party Processional
Special Gift-DOnnie McClurkin

Bridal Entrance
You Are- Ron Kenoly
(It has a dual meaning..."You are the love of my life, you are the hope that I cling to, You mean more than this world to me. I wouldn't trade you for silver or gold. I wouldn't trade you for riches untold. You are, you are my everything"

Communion
Give Us This Day

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Rhonda I have no idea how we got through it, but after the ceremony was over nobody saw that woman again. You know how something is so loud it like screeches in your ear, it was like that (LOL) now my FH family is like make sure you have somebody that doesn't sing too loud

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Excellent music choices VWallace. I love every last song on your list. VirtuousV, I am still laughing about you experience at that wedding. You & FH are right to make sure that no one sings too loud at your ceremony.

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I think the problem is not only singing too loud but singing out of tone - a lot of people can not carry a note if you put it in a paper sack and staple it shut...and the hurtful thing is they do not realize it and nobody will straight up and tell them the truth.

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Daughter Rhonda is right. Every song is perfect. As a matter of fact I had been lamenting on a song for my entrance and now the search is over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It will be Just for me. Thank you so very much.

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You're right Charly when people sing out of tune it can be too much to bear and embarrassing to say the least. Coppertone, I'm glad you found a song, isn't this site the best!

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Yes I love this site!!!!! Wedding planners all over the country are going to have their lips poked out because sisters have found a way of doing things together!

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Oh yeah girl - they are gonna be so mad cause we found a way to do it ourselves without paying them. :-)

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Hey Coppertone, I love that acronym! And we are all DIVAs here.

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That's right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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DIVA!!!...excuse me I am a "QUEEN"...LOL...stop it, that's me being stink...I am divalicious :-)

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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