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Rooms (also posted in attendants)

I just read in a post that said the bride should pay for the hotel rooms of her attendants.................Do we really have to?I may be changing my wedding from Cali to Vegas and I really want people to come but I dont wanna be forking out money to pay for everybody.You guys know how people get.they get ther hater syndrom "why you paying for her room and not mine?". Some of the people in mine and FH families may even get jelous because they not in the wedding and another member is and if I pay for te room it will get worse.I cant pay fro the whole dang family to go to Vegas!
I've already had an episode with FH sisters ( twins ) getting mad at me&FH for picking their SIL (who I work with and am closer to) to be the Matron of Honor over them.One made the comment that I was going to pick SIL because she was skinny and the twins are not.

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Rooms (also posted in attendants)

I just read in a post that said the bride should pay for the hotel rooms of her attendants.................Do we really have to?I may be changing my wedding from Cali to Vegas and I really want people to come but I dont wanna be forking out money to pay for everybody.You guys know how people get.they get ther hater syndrom "why you paying for her room and not mine?". Some of the people in mine and FH families may even get jelous because they not in the wedding and another member is and if I pay for te room it will get worse.I cant pay fro the whole dang family to go to Vegas!
I've already had an episode with FH sisters ( twins ) getting mad at me&FH for picking their SIL (who I work with and am closer to) to be the Matron of Honor over them.One made the comment that I was going to pick SIL because she was skinny and the twins are not.

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Re: Rooms (also posted in attendants)

And like I posted my response on the other forum my answer is still the same...you do not have to pay for the room for the whole family....are you crazy woman!...or have you won the lottery? that room suggestion was for the bridal party not the entire family and some....your head good!!!???

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charley is right alvinslove. Breathe girl. Just invite them maybe book a block of rooms and they pay themselves upon check in. Check out Guaranteed Best Hotel Rates for Weddings and the hotels contact you.

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