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Venting-As most of you know, I have a little bridal shop. I'm not one of those who'll cut tags out of gowns, or won't do a quote over the phone. I DO allow brides to take photos (heck I'll snap the picture for you) in my shop. But Saturday I had a chance to see why most salons say no to pictures-I had a young lady in the shop looking at gowns right before I was closing for the night. She calls her MOH on her cell an ask her to rush over, so I agree to hang out a while longer for them. So the girl gets there and runs in with her camera, and ask where's the dress. So she shows her the grow in the catalog and tells her that I don't have it in the store. The MOH says out loud 'well if I don't have a picture from every angle I can't copy the design'. Really I couldn't care less who copies what, I can't tell anybody what to do with their money. But that was by far the tackiest display I've ever witnessed. But it gets better-the broad (MOH) asked me to photocopy the picture in the catalog for her. I gave her the web address and the name of the gown. She then says, 'if she orders it to try on, is she obligated to buy the gown?'.... What a way to end the day, thank God I have a good sense of humor, cause really for a minute I thought I was being Punked!

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Venting-As most of you know, I have a little bridal shop. I'm not one of those who'll cut tags out of gowns, or won't do a quote over the phone. I DO allow brides to take photos (heck I'll snap the picture for you) in my shop. But Saturday I had a chance to see why most salons say no to pictures-I had a young lady in the shop looking at gowns right before I was closing for the night. She calls her MOH on her cell an ask her to rush over, so I agree to hang out a while longer for them. So the girl gets there and runs in with her camera, and ask where's the dress. So she shows her the grow in the catalog and tells her that I don't have it in the store. The MOH says out loud 'well if I don't have a picture from every angle I can't copy the design'. Really I couldn't care less who copies what, I can't tell anybody what to do with their money. But that was by far the tackiest display I've ever witnessed. But it gets better-the broad (MOH) asked me to photocopy the picture in the catalog for her. I gave her the web address and the name of the gown. She then says, 'if she orders it to try on, is she obligated to buy the gown?'.... What a way to end the day, thank God I have a good sense of humor, cause really for a minute I thought I was being Punked!

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The nerve!!! I thought I asked a lot of questions, but darn...That is unbelievable. You must've been on that MTV show "Boiling Point" I know you reached yours dealing with those two.

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that is so crazy for her to some thing like that. so did she end up ordering the dress or did they just leave your shop

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them two women are a hot mess! I would've been upset and No! the dress can not be ordered to try on. that's what I would of told them ghetto hussy's.

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Nope, they rolled out after I told them I don't order gowns just for try ons.

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What in the world were they smoking? I mean that is very disrespectful to you.

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I am sorry that happended to you phenmonique! It can be frustrating, but for every bad apple you will get a bushel of good! I get girls coming into my store and wanting to rip out copies of invitations. I don't know why they won't ask for a sample! I even had someone ask for my dealer number so that they can corder straight from the wholesaleer after a two hour consultation! [lol]

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Some people are so incredibly bold and don't have any class. I would've been ashamed to act like that, that is down right trifling!!!!

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All a ya'll sugar coating this...I would've cuss the 2 a dem and then go in the backroom and repent...oh off course this would be after I kicked their triffling hip out on the sidewalk.....I have a problem with stupid people and worst if ya messing with one of my kin. Hog know right where to rub der skin.

Ya'll see how ghetto non christian I can be?...but hey I am praying for God to give me more patience....but I am a work in progress :-)

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Charley you are too funny!!!! Niquey I'm suprised you didn't curse them out. lol

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Uh Uh.Nah, those "heffas" didn't.I have much respect for Niquey and Rosey.I would have had to start cussing those broads out!

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[quote="Rosetta"]I get girls coming into my store and wanting to rip out copies of invitations. I don't know why they won't ask for a sample! I even had someone ask for my dealer number so that they can corder straight from the wholesaleer after a two hour consultation! [lol]
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I had to keep repaeting in my head 'Jesus keep me near the cross'! I'm like Charley, no tolerance for stupidity!

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Right about nah I probably would have seen on the run from the po po.

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Oh no, you ladies are crazy I'm cracking up here reading these posts! It is moments like Niquey's and Rosie's that truly test your ability to remain calm, cool and collected. I honestly don't know if I would've been able to act like a lady, I probably would've lost it and repented later!

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It would have been a "pre-meditated" sin - but sweetgirl was gonna cuss and deal with it later.

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Charly gurl you are exactly right with this one!

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Some people just know how to bring out the "NEGRO" in a person.

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Some people do have that affect, when they forget themselves and resort to being 'GHETTO'.

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[quote="Rosetta"]I get girls coming into my store and wanting to rip out copies of invitations. [/quote]
Rosy please tell us about your store! What do you carry in your shop?

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all you of ladies should check out ms phenomonique site, it is great and full of cool ideas

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[quote="phenomonique"]Venting 'if she orders it to try on, is she obligated to buy the gown?'[/quote]
Update- Do you know that chick called me today and asked me could I borrow the dress from the company so she can try it on!! She should be the poster child for the 'Say No To Drugs' campaign.

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LOL that is to funny phenomonique she must really be crazy to think that you would do that for her she is just wasting your time

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Sista gurl is a little touched and she's lucky you didn't come through the phone and strangle her!

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Rest the phone down gently and back away slowly taking deep breathes and counting backwards from 10.....lol!

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Charly gurl you are too much. Haaaaaaaa!!!!

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[quote="phenomonique"]Rosy please tell us about your store! What do you carry in your shop?
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I am a invitation consultant. I carry exclusive lines of invitations. They can't be sold online, though! Rats! And favors. I am a printer and all services are by appointment. I give an inital 2 hour invitation consultation. The consult is free for brides. Corporate clients pay $150 per hour for consultation.

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Every day in life should have some form of comic relief. My days a just full of comedy!

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I am not surprised all business owners are not acholics to be honest - I would have probably taken a sip just to avoid cussing an idiot who could have very well been a potential call back or referral. Good thing I get Jesus ah!

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[quote="Rosetta"]
I am a invitation consultant. I carry exclusive lines of invitations. They can't be sold online, though! Rats! And favors. I am a printer and all services are by appointment. I give an inital 2 hour invitation consultation. The consult is free for brides. Corporate clients pay $150 per hour for consultation.
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Now ya see! I want to be like YOU when I grow up!

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Rosey where exactly is your store located?

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I am in the company of some awesome women, I want to be like Rosie when I grow up too!

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that is a good business to be in. how did you come to be an inviation consultant? what made you do it? this site is full of smart and great woman, who put ther mind to something and see it all the way through until they are happy. i remember when i first signed on to vibride ms phenomonique was just about to open her shop she was still making plans, and to come to find out when i get back on the shop is open for business she what happen when we focue and set our minds to something. Good luck on all business that are open or that will be opening. i'm trying to have my salon open my next year.