[quote="HapplyMarried505"]She paying out around or about $200,000 or her wedding[/quote]
How much is he paying?
[quote="HapplyMarried505"]So what would be the best way to ask him to sign the Prenuptial Agreements?[/quote]
That's not your job, it's the attorney's responsibility.
I think Then maybe she should really have been up front about the pre nup. before hand like when he asked her hand in marriage. That is one thing I did with my FH put everything out there so that there would be no suprises and If he truly loves her the prenup. should not matter. He'll get out of the marriage what he has brought into it (financially).
[quote="virtuousV"]I think Then maybe she should really have been up front about the pre nup. before hand like when he asked her hand in marriage.[/quote]
And some men get upset when a woman asks for a prenup, but it's fine for them to want one..
WOW! I would def. have him sign a prenup. i'm sorry to say, but he sounds like he wants the benjamins and since she has been paying for everything through out sounds like she's fine with all that? But I guess she wants to give when she wants and not allow him to be entitle to anything.
I can't see you hurting your head over this because it really does not come under the portfolio of "wedding planner"....as Niquey stated...AND I QUOTE..."That's not your job, it's the attorney's responsibility"....avoid getting entangled in situations that do not come before you...the minute she "asked your advise"...you should have made that very clear....and a person spending $200,000.00 on a wedding do not have the intellect to know that?????? INTERESTING!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
I agree with other posters that it is not the responsibility of the wedding planner to make such a decision, but I also know that money doesn't automatically equal brains, especially on inheritances! So, with that being said, it sounds like this signals a deeper communication issue and those kinds of issues are best worked out in premarital counseling!
A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave.
Gandhi~
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[quote="HapplyMarried505"]She paying out around or about $200,000 or her wedding[/quote]
How much is he paying?
[quote="HapplyMarried505"]So what would be the best way to ask him to sign the Prenuptial Agreements?[/quote]
That's not your job, it's the attorney's responsibility.
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
I know that, but she ask me what would be a good to ask him to sign an prenuptial Agreement, she doesn
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
Well ...She can start by asking him how he feels about it.
That's one way...and if he say's he against it then what?
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
I think Then maybe she should really have been up front about the pre nup. before hand like when he asked her hand in marriage. That is one thing I did with my FH put everything out there so that there would be no suprises and If he truly loves her the prenup. should not matter. He'll get out of the marriage what he has brought into it (financially).
I to believe that she should have told him about the pre-nup up front, that
[quote="virtuousV"]I think Then maybe she should really have been up front about the pre nup. before hand like when he asked her hand in marriage.[/quote]
And some men get upset when a woman asks for a prenup, but it's fine for them to want one..
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
WOW! I would def. have him sign a prenup. i'm sorry to say, but he sounds like he wants the benjamins and since she has been paying for everything through out sounds like she's fine with all that? But I guess she wants to give when she wants and not allow him to be entitle to anything.
I can't see you hurting your head over this because it really does not come under the portfolio of "wedding planner"....as Niquey stated...AND I QUOTE..."That's not your job, it's the attorney's responsibility"....avoid getting entangled in situations that do not come before you...the minute she "asked your advise"...you should have made that very clear....and a person spending $200,000.00 on a wedding do not have the intellect to know that?????? INTERESTING!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Excellent suggestion Niquey!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
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Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
I agree with other posters that it is not the responsibility of the wedding planner to make such a decision, but I also know that money doesn't automatically equal brains, especially on inheritances! So, with that being said, it sounds like this signals a deeper communication issue and those kinds of issues are best worked out in premarital counseling!
A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave.
Gandhi~
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Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
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Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37