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O.k. here's the deal. I have decided to use one venue for my ceremony and reception. It's a beautiful mansion. I have one problem. I don't know how to keep guest occupied elsewhere while my wedding consultant is busy changing the place for the reception. I need to know how can I easily and smoothly change this gorgeous mansion, the downstairs area only into a recpetion area without having to have all the guests in way standing around. :blink: The mansion has a beautiful green lawn outside. I know some may say why not have the ceremony outside, but I didn't want to chance rain. Mom suggested maybe having a butterfly release ceremony or something outside to keep guests occupied. I will need about 30 min. (I didn't think this would be a delima, I should have done a church, but I'm not from the place where my wedding taking place) Can anyone help!!!!!! :o

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O.k. here's the deal. I have decided to use one venue for my ceremony and reception. It's a beautiful mansion. I have one problem. I don't know how to keep guest occupied elsewhere while my wedding consultant is busy changing the place for the reception. I need to know how can I easily and smoothly change this gorgeous mansion, the downstairs area only into a recpetion area without having to have all the guests in way standing around. :blink: The mansion has a beautiful green lawn outside. I know some may say why not have the ceremony outside, but I didn't want to chance rain. Mom suggested maybe having a butterfly release ceremony or something outside to keep guests occupied. I will need about 30 min. (I didn't think this would be a delima, I should have done a church, but I'm not from the place where my wedding taking place) Can anyone help!!!!!! :o

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Hi there Exhale (Waiting to...)welcome girl....Listen, yes you do have a slight problem but I am sure if thought of carefully, we can figure this out.

It will be rude to ask your guest to get out of the way whilst you change the ambience...so why not have a cocktail moment outside while you take pictures. Serve them drinks(wine/cider) cheese and grapes, they can stand around and watch you take your pictures or chat amongst themselves, at least the refreshments will keep them from cutting their eye at you (lol) and the caterer can be inside doing their thing.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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I think the butterfly ceremony is a great idea. Also you can stage a video ceremony, meaning I was actually going to do that as well and will the room was going to be changed over we were going to set up a small tent where the guess would come over and watch a small video or slide show of him and I. When we met (like a store telling session) and you could have baby pictures tell about the both of you all the way up until you met! That would be really nice and it would that their mind off of being away from the ceremony temporarily. or you could also use this time to have your videographer to interview your guest to put together a presentation for you and the groom. There's a lot that you can get creative with. Good luck, I know it's going to be just beautiful

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This is a great question. I am having one venue for my wedding and reception as well (museum).

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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[quote="waiting2bwed"]O.k. here's the deal. I have decided to use one venue for my ceremony and reception. It's a beautiful mansion. I have one problem. I don't know how to keep guest occupied elsewhere while my wedding consultant is busy changing the place for the reception. I need to know how can I easily and smoothly change this gorgeous mansion, the downstairs area only into a recpetion area without having to have all the guests in way standing around. :blink: The mansion has a beautiful green lawn outside. I know some may say why not have the ceremony outside, but I didn't want to chance rain. Mom suggested maybe having a butterfly release ceremony or something outside to keep guests occupied. I will need about 30 min. (I didn't think this would be a delima, I should have done a church, but I'm not from the place where my wedding taking place) Can anyone help!!!!!! :o
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How about a balloon release where each guest or a group of guests could give you and your fh well wishes and tie to the end of the balloon. That would buy you some time with them coming up with sweet words of wisdom before the release.

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that's beauitful, I like that idea coppertone!

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Welcome to the vibride.com, waiting2bwed!

You can

  1. Use this opportunity to thank and greet each guest personally. Like an informal recieveing line.
  2. Consider using this time as a photo op with the new husband and wife. Offer champagne on pour while they wait for their turn with you.
  3. Set up a game of croquet or bacci ball outside. I loved those games as a child.
  4. Or you could have a voclaist or magician or comedian perform outside on the lawn and have everyone gather around to listen.

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I'm sure Waiting2bewed will agree, you ladies are so full of wonderful ideas!

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Thanks all daughterRhonda you're right you guys have great ideas. I especially like the balloon release!

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That would be nice waiting2bewed. In any event, I wish you all the best.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Well maybe you could just set up the Reception Site instead of the Ceremony Site. I have a Bride right now who is going to be doing, she

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[quote="HapplyMarried505"]I have a Bride right now who is going to be doing, I have seen pictures of how it will be decorated and setup and in my option I think that it looks great. [/quote]

Once again...in the right place at the right time....I have a question however....if you are the Wedding Planner...whose photos are you looking at?

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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[quote="HapplyMarried505"]Well maybe you could just set up the Reception Site instead of the Ceremony Site. I have a Bride right now who is going to be doing, she

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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The butterfly release is a great idea, a cocktail hour will work as well. The time goes by fast, you'd be surprised.
Charley! Corner, now! (don't worry I'm coming too)

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This is the first day since I've been on Vibride that this corner is gonna be full...lets just have a party.....wwwwwwwwwweeeeeeeee

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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You're back in the corner Charley? You might as well have it redecorated so that it's cozy for you.

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And don't forget the snacks!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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And some good magazines!

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That's right Copper! Nothing like a good magazine!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Hmmmmmmmmm, no response! Charly I'm joining you in the corner!

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We were having to much fun that is why I took so long to respond....but you'll know every now and then I will peep out to see what's up!

But hey Cooper after yesterday's drama this corner can't hold anothe sister....sorry :-(

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charly actually I was referring to the question you posed but you never got a response to! Can I bring my favorite snacks to the corner? I'll share!

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[quote="CharlotteModebe"]
Once again...in the right place at the right time....I have a question however....if you are the Wedding Planner...whose photos are you looking at?
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Oh yeah this question.............hmmmmm, your right.

But then again why I'm I not surprised, read my signature....bup bup!!!..............see ya'll think I be trippng!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Oh no PureB, I hear the corner calling you too! Charley, Niquey, it's time to look for a bigger corner (lol)!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I just got it too! That quote is true Charly but..... you know your are in the corner!(smile) If I say what I was thinking I will be i there too.

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If ya thinking it Copper, the corner has a place reserved for you too! Haaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Do you know how people get heart attacks...by keeping in things that bother them......I'll be damned if I get a heart attack for some fool and leave my children here to suffer....I gatta live long enough to stress them out like they stressing me out now.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charly you are a mess! HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!

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Let's all go to the corner and see who's left!!!!!!!!

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She's right though. Life is too short. No response back yet huh?

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Something tells me ya'll ain't paying attention so let me MAGNIFY IT!

"ANYTIME YOU SEE SOMEONE TALKING A LOT OF HOT AIR...THEY ARE USUALLY FULL OF IT"

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Everybody's in the corner, and no one is left! Haaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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forget the corner...putting ya'll in the closet and locking the door. all of ya'll...Charley, Ronnie, Askalot, Niquey, Copper and Pure Bliss

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Bossie, gurl ya better grab a chair I hear the corner/closet calling you too!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Oh don't try that Bossie...you been in here from yesterday......na nae nee boo boo!!!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Bossie, you know Charly on duty, she's joined the po po!!! HAAAAAA!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I TOLD YOU ALL I DON'T MISS A LICK...BELIEVE IT!!!!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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I'm a believer!!!! HAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

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[quote="CharlotteModebe"]Something tells me ya'll ain't paying attention so let me MAGNIFY IT!

"ANYTIME YOU SEE SOMEONE TALKING A LOT OF HOT AIR...THEY ARE USUALLY FULL OF IT"
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Oh No! I got it crystal clear!!!! I miss ONE day talking to yall and look what I miss? And Happily married.......... where are you? I asked you about a post in another forum and you are GHOST!

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Oh yeah I forgot. After the last post I am sending myself to the corner. See the PoPo don't even have to come looking for me. I am turning myself in.

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On blast now..............

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Who me?

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Not you darling. The ummmmm imposter!!! Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I'm calling CSI to see if they can track anyone down by the DNA.

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Don't waste CSI's time.....they don't have time for triflng people...let me at em.......one kick...that'll stare them straight...my foot ain't big for nothing (10 1/2)

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Let me look in the want ads for a new job.

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Haaaaaaa!!!! What are we gonna do with you???? HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! Charly, gurl I love ya!!!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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[quote="coppertone"]Let me look in the want ads for a new job.
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Me too Copper!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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You'l gatta know how to work this thing....my boss will walk in and I tell you my face will be burning where I am laughing so hard on the inside and he will not know...if he should look at the screen....I just minimize it and I gat another screen on "stand-by"...ha!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charly sounds like you got this thing down pat!!!! ...So do all the rest of us who live on this website when we are supposed to be working. (lol)!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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