Same Hair Do or Not

Uniformity....absolutely, unequivocally without a shadow of a doubt!

I'm leaving it up to the ladies. Some women are very particular about their hair. Some women must have a bang, some not, other women must wear their hair up, some must wear it down. Some hairstyles just don't do some women any justice.

The only thing I am asking them is to NOT wear any crazy colors in their hair, like purple or orange:) My bm's don't usually wear that kind of stuff, but I want to make sure they don't try to experiment with it on my wedding day:)

I just requested that they all wear their hair up. They can wear any style they want, just as long as it's up

For an example, one of my bm's has a "weird" shaped head, and she only wears her hair down in a wrap. She would feel so self concsious about her head and her face if I forced her to wear it up.

On the other hand, another one of my bm's has a very, very small, round head, so she only wears it short. She would feel self conscious if if I made her wear her hair long. You wouldn't even be able to see her pretty face because her head and face is so small.

I know some brides that are requesting their BM's wear a long ponytail. That's not my style so I can see how this could be a problem for some of the ladies. Personally, I prefer them to be comfortable so they can wear their hair how they want to. I can understand uniformity but if I could respect if some didn't want to do it. That's one thing I want them to va choice in. I even allowed my BM's to choose their style of dress as long as it was burnt orange and the same designer. I did this because everything doesn't look good on everybody. Different shapes and sizes

NOT! Everything doesn't look good on everybody.

So true 'Mo. It is hard to find a look to fit every face and head shape. I have a giant head so I donn't like "bog hair" type styles. But hairdressers are aleays trying to do that to me. Look in our Hair gallery to see lots of styles for different hair textures and lengths.

Dig it! I gave up on my natural hair quest for a minute. Got a short tappered cut and a relaxer! My ears are strange, or maybe my face is too fat.

Ya know what!!!!...Niquey is the Matron of honor...let her have the headache diciding damn it!!!!!

I only have two BMs...they can wear their hair however they like, as long as I approve of the style.

I was going to have my bridesmaids wear their hair the opposite of mine.I havent decided on how I want my hair yet (to be determined when I get the dress) so I dont know what style tey will wear.I was thinking maybe wearing my hair down and curly if so then my Bridesmaids will wear an up-do. But now that I think about it eveyones head is very different.I will have to think more about the hair styles I want for them and myself.I like the idea of uniformity.

I am the gastapo (sp?) here but I am stuck on uniformity...personally I do not want the attention on my bridesmaid - they will get that at their individual entrances, but I think different hair styles will get the congregations attention further, I like things to look alike.

I'm leaving it up to my BM. All I ask is that they wear the flowers I have chosen for there headpieces.

I was thinking about having my bridesmaids wear a single rose in their hair.If not that then maybe a studded hairband or pin,depending on the style we choose.

That will depend on how fussy the dresses are....over accessorizing can be murder on a beautiful dress.

Less is definitely more...

I am letting everyone choose her own hairstyle, with the promise that it will not be anything unsual or crazy. I want them all to feel good about how they look.

Not!My BM's are different sizes and ages.I want them to be comfortable so I'm letting them choose their own hair styles.