For Vibrant Brides of Color

Please Say A Prayer

31 posts / 0 new
Last post
shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Please Say A Prayer

Hey ladies,
I have had a rough past few days and it is still ongoing....
I know this is a very private situation but we need all the prayers...DH's cousin left a suicide note and we have not heard from her since Sunday night. She is the mother of 7 children, she has not shown that she is stressed or anything but we all know some people are private like that. she is very involved with the city event, all of her children are on the football and cheerleading teams so we hope that she will just show up to a practice or game.

I just ask that you say a pray for us, in hopes that we find her before anything.

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Please Say A Prayer

Hey ladies,
I have had a rough past few days and it is still ongoing....
I know this is a very private situation but we need all the prayers...DH's cousin left a suicide note and we have not heard from her since Sunday night. She is the mother of 7 children, she has not shown that she is stressed or anything but we all know some people are private like that. she is very involved with the city event, all of her children are on the football and cheerleading teams so we hope that she will just show up to a practice or game.

I just ask that you say a pray for us, in hopes that we find her before anything.

sensationablyhappy
sensationablyhappy's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 5 months ago
Joined: 09/22/2007 - 13:07
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Wow Shy, this is very serious and sad. A suicide note should not be taken lightly. A lot of people won't show when they are depressed when other people are around. Was the note given to police? My prayers go out to you, your DH and family.

soon2bmsj
soon2bmsj's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 3 months ago
Joined: 08/08/2007 - 08:26
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Shy-

I am sincerely praying for you and your family! Depression is no joke, I pray for that mother and her safety.

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

I don't know if they have given it to the police yet, I am sure they did. I spoke to (step)MIL, but she cant compose herself too much right now, this is her niece. she lives in PA, so it's hard for her. The kids have practice today my parents will be on the look out for her, since they deal with her alot with the sports.
I thank you in advance for all your prayers.

sweetp
sweetp's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 1 month ago
Joined: 11/20/2007 - 17:07
Re: Please Say A Prayer

I am sending up prayers for your family and her kids. I know this is hard for them.

Remember To Always Be Fabulous!!!

[url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/4;10716;24/st/20090718/e/Our+Wedding/k/7e60/event.png[/img]
[/url]

http://www.mywedding.com/porscheandfakhree

daughterrhonda
daughterrhonda's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 2 months ago
Joined: 05/26/2005 - 17:30
Re: Please Say A Prayer

I will pray for your DH's cousin and her children. May your entire family have peace in this trying time. God bless you all!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

soontobebride
soontobebride's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 7 months ago
Joined: 11/03/2006 - 23:16
Re: Please Say A Prayer

My prayer goes out for you, your hubby and all people involved!

pamcrow
pamcrow's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 10 months ago
Joined: 01/09/2004 - 15:48
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Shy I am praying for your entire family. You always hear from loved ones of missing persons that the "Not Knowing" is the hardest part. I pray your family will get some answers soon.

"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"

bumblebeekee
bumblebeekee's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 9 months ago
Joined: 06/06/2006 - 22:16
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Shy, I will definitely send up my prayers. I know it was a private matter but when you get many to pray for a situation, God will move in that direction. So here we are for you and your family:)

We've been Happily Married 2 Years and Counting:)

a href="http://www.TickerFactory.com/">

turiya
turiya's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 10 months ago
Joined: 08/29/2007 - 15:22
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Prayers gone up! Keep us posted.

[url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/4;10712;106/st/20081228/e/Our+Anniversary/k/5eb4/event.png[/img]
[/url]

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Thank you ladies and I definitely will keep you all posted.

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Well as of right now, her mom did give the letters to the police, came to find out that there were 4 letters. We have flyers going around the town and the neighboring cities. I got in touch with some of the people that know her in the other towns on the look out for her.

mrsdhudson
mrsdhudson's picture
Offline
Last seen: 14 years 1 week ago
Joined: 03/25/2008 - 12:00
Re: Please Say A Prayer

I am so glad that the police are involved and hopefully taking the correct actions to find her. You and your family will definitely be lifted in my prayers. God bless and we really appreciate the updates so far...

ivyprincess
Offline
Last seen: 16 years 3 months ago
Joined: 07/25/2007 - 11:12
Re: Please Say A Prayer

You are definately in my prayers honey

Real love requires a minimum of emotion and a maximum of the will - Bishop Keith W. Reed, Sr.

mrs080908
mrs080908's picture
Offline
Last seen: 16 years 1 month ago
Joined: 03/20/2008 - 14:02
Re: Please Say A Prayer

You and your family are in my prayers and I pray she comes home soon.

url=http://tickers.livingchaos.co.uk/][img]http://tickers.livingchaos.co.uk/tickers/image/anniversary/14/53/2009-8-9/19469/366/T3VyIEZpcnN0IEFubml2ZXJzYXJ5IGlzIGluIA.jpg[/img][/url]

platinumstyle
platinumstyle's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 1 month ago
Joined: 09/28/2005 - 12:32
Re: Please Say A Prayer

I'm sorry to hear this. I'm praying for you and your family.

Born Blessed!

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

hey ladies, Thanks again for all your prayers. I have not really asked her mom if she has heard anything, since she is not holding up too well. I dont wanna keep bothering her. you know....
but i did speak with her brother's ex girlfriend and she said that she has been messing with this guy that was locked up for a while now and that it is very possible that he got out and they ran off together. I hope and pray that is the case, even though these children are still the ones to suffer but at least we will know that she can come back to them.

soon2bmsj
soon2bmsj's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 3 months ago
Joined: 08/08/2007 - 08:26
Re: Please Say A Prayer

thanks for the update! Well, as bad as it sounds, I pray this is the case (her running off with the boyfriend)versus the inevitable.

I will continue to keep your family in prayer...

pamcrow
pamcrow's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 10 months ago
Joined: 01/09/2004 - 15:48
Re: Please Say A Prayer

I'll continue to pray as well.

"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"

sensationablyhappy
sensationablyhappy's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 5 months ago
Joined: 09/22/2007 - 13:07
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Your family is still in my prayers.

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Great News Sistahs!!!!! PRAISE HIM!!! GOD IS GOOD!!!!!

She has been located. She ended up in Washington DC, it seems that she was living on the streets out there. MY FIL said that she went out there and was alone, she ran out of money and reached out to her brother's friend for more money but he turned her down and she made her way back to Jersey, she went to the hospital and tried to admit herself due to stress but they turned her away. That is how the family caught up with her. Her mom said that she looked a mess and that she is now claiming that she doesn't know anyone in the family or friends, including her kids, so FIL took her back to the same hospital and got her admitted to the psyche ward. Better there, than living on the streets of GOD knows where alone. Hopefully this will better her and she will realize things. I am just so happy she has been found before anything. and of course, I thank you my VIBRIDE sistahs for all your prayers!!! GOD IS GOOD!!!!!

daughterrhonda
daughterrhonda's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 2 months ago
Joined: 05/26/2005 - 17:30
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Prayer is a wonderful thing!!!! Shy41208, praise God for the victory! I am glad that your DH's cousin has been found. May God heal her mind and soul!!! I will continue to pray for her and your family. Praise God!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Thanks much

pamcrow
pamcrow's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 10 months ago
Joined: 01/09/2004 - 15:48
Re: Please Say A Prayer

God is indeed good. I'm so happy for your family Shy. Now I'll pray for her speady recovery.

"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"

bumblebeekee
bumblebeekee's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 9 months ago
Joined: 06/06/2006 - 22:16
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Praise God! This is good to see her in safe hands. Lets pray for her recovery.

We've been Happily Married 2 Years and Counting:)

a href="http://www.TickerFactory.com/">

platinumstyle
platinumstyle's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 1 month ago
Joined: 09/28/2005 - 12:32
Re: Please Say A Prayer

[quote="Shy41208"]Great News Sistahs!!!!! PRAISE HIM!!! GOD IS GOOD!!!!!

She has been located. She ended up in Washington DC, it seems that she was living on the streets out there. MY FIL said that she went out there and was alone, she ran out of money and reached out to her brother's friend for more money but he turned her down and she made her way back to Jersey, she went to the hospital and tried to admit herself due to stress but they turned her away. That is how the family caught up with her. Her mom said that she looked a mess and that she is now claiming that she doesn't know anyone in the family or friends, including her kids, so FIL took her back to the same hospital and got her admitted to the psyche ward. Better there, than living on the streets of GOD knows where alone. Hopefully this will better her and she will realize things. I am just so happy she has been found before anything. and of course, I thank you my VIBRIDE sistahs for all your prayers!!! GOD IS GOOD!!!!!
[/quote]

A friend of mine had a family member that did the same thing except she left Mississippi and went to Arkansas. Her family found out about her because (according to the cops) she broke into a home and she and the kids had been living there for several weeks. (The family that lived in the home left town and went on vacation) When they came back, they called the cops. The mom was placed in a psych ward and the kids were placed in the care of their grandmother. I haven't heard about the situation lately but the family says she's "not in her right mind", doesn't recognize family members, and or remember important events in her life. I think she had a serious breakdown.

Shy, I'm so happy to hear that she's alright. I will continue to pray for her to have a speedy recovery.

Born Blessed!

shy41208
shy41208's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 4 months ago
Joined: 01/16/2008 - 12:05
Re: Please Say A Prayer

WOW!!! It's just so sad...
I will pray for her as well

cmt
cmt's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 3 months ago
Joined: 04/28/2008 - 18:20
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Shy, I'm happy to hear that all has worked out. I pray for her sanity

[url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/]
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/4;10728;2/st/20090906/e/Our+1st+Anniversary/k/f5b3/event.png[/img]
[/url]

sensationablyhappy
sensationablyhappy's picture
Offline
Last seen: 15 years 5 months ago
Joined: 09/22/2007 - 13:07
Re: Please Say A Prayer

Thats Great News Shy. I hope the all goes well for her.

ginoue
ginoue's picture
Offline
Last seen: 13 years 6 months ago
Joined: 06/04/2007 - 06:23
Re: Please Say A Prayer

God is so Good. I'm so very glad that things worked out alright for your family Shy, well your DH's family all the same.