I have been married all of 48 days and the drama is already beginning. Not with hubby, but with these trifling women out here. Hubby is a DJ's on the side. Last night a friend of his had a birthday party and asked hubby to DJ. I was asleep when he got home. This morning he said " I just wnat you to know that this wedding ring is a magnet". Apparently some chic he knew from high school was talking to him and asked if he had a girl, he put his hand up to show his ring and that little heffa said "so, what's up with us, that just means no strings attached...it's better that way".
At first I was mad that he told me that, but then I was glad that he did. I trust hubby. He has never given me a reason not to, but my gaurd is always up because a man is a man. I am sure he didn't tell me the whole conversation verbatim, but I simply told him "That's nice. I want you to feel like you still got it. I don't want to think that I'm the only one who wants you. They can look and admire all they want. But you better not take that ring off, I don't care how many women it attracts, you better shoo them off like flies". He had to laugh at that. Just had to let ya'll know about these stinkin' b**ch's...they got a lot of nerve.
TRIFLING WOMEN
Fri, 07/28/2006 - 10:31
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TRIFLING WOMEN
I have been married all of 48 days and the drama is already beginning. Not with hubby, but with these trifling women out here. Hubby is a DJ's on the side. Last night a friend of his had a birthday party and asked hubby to DJ. I was asleep when he got home. This morning he said " I just wnat you to know that this wedding ring is a magnet". Apparently some chic he knew from high school was talking to him and asked if he had a girl, he put his hand up to show his ring and that little heffa said "so, what's up with us, that just means no strings attached...it's better that way".
At first I was mad that he told me that, but then I was glad that he did. I trust hubby. He has never given me a reason not to, but my gaurd is always up because a man is a man. I am sure he didn't tell me the whole conversation verbatim, but I simply told him "That's nice. I want you to feel like you still got it. I don't want to think that I'm the only one who wants you. They can look and admire all they want. But you better not take that ring off, I don't care how many women it attracts, you better shoo them off like flies". He had to laugh at that. Just had to let ya'll know about these stinkin' b**ch's...they got a lot of nerve.
OMG some women can be so trifling!!! Why would anyone want someone else's HUSBAND. Just down right desparate! Bossie you have a great guy, he told you. You two seem to have a wonderful relationship. What a blessing. Shame on that skank!!! She should get a life with her trifling behind!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Okay, I'll cut you up later for me having to read about this on Vibride!
Yes, Bossie, I heard that before. Actually a guy friend stopped by my mom's house the other night and said the same thing. He's been married for 4 years and he said "it doesn't make any since how some of these women are"! He said he's had more twat thrown at him since he's been married than he has his whole life. Another guy told me he went through the same thing. A woman that I know said she did it because of the challenge! Get that! Challenge of what? A man sleeping with you but never being with you because he's married? What satisfaction comes out of that? Theses girls are TRIFLING!
I'm so proud of your hubby! Go 'head K, put them stanks in their place. Bossie, I'm proud of you too! Just let me know if I need to get my sneakers on!
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]OMG some women can be so trifling!!! Why would anyone want someone else's HUSBAND. Just down right desparate! Bossie you have a great guy, he told you. You two seem to have a wonderful relationship. What a blessing. Shame on that skank!!! She should get a life with her trifling behind!
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In my married and engaged couples class at church we learned that the women are the prayer warriors...and you are right, a man is a man and its gonna be up to us to pray for that protective hedge around them when we are apart, because you made the devil mad by doing God's will and getting married in the first place, and then being happy and praising God about it....it just ticks the devil off! So he has to try other devices....we have to pray that our hubbies have a continuous conviction in their spirit to do the right thing in moments like these....I trust my man fully also, but it is guaranteed that women will come, and these chicks are getting worse with their loose behinds and their intent to steal, divide, and conquer so they can look at you like "I got with her man".....
Thanks for sharing your experience Bossie....I like it here because we keep it real and thats how it should be....I hate when other people give folks a false sense of perfection in their marriage.... but if we ask God to protect our marriages and walk in that faith, then it shall be done in the earth. I beleive that with all my heart. And I agree with Rhony, you have your Adam with you...God made you from him and now you are one....you have NOTHING to fear sister....
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Preach Bumble!!!! You are so right! Thanks for the reminder it is so important to pray for our men when they are not with us. The enemy is out to destroy families, my pastor constantly talks about that. I agree that we must walk in faith and ask God to protect our marriages. Awesome advice!
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Bossie, congrats on having a good man! I remember there was an episode on Oprah where women ONLY wanted to date married men or men in longterm relationships. They felt safer. Kinda how there are church groupies where some women go to bone the pastor/reverend/preacher/priest. It is sickening. I wonder where these women get that disgusting mentality from. I could never see myself not honoring someones marriage vows & I will cut the heffa that tries to get mine to break his (it will be on and poppin). You did right my sister, stand strong and know that this man loves you above all others, thats why you got the ring.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
Future girl I love ya!!! You are someone that keeps it totally real!!! And you are too funny!!!!!!!!!!
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[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Future girl I love ya!!! You are someone that keeps it totally real!!! And you are too funny!!!!!!!!!!
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omg rhony, i am so serious. I'm a little quiet person too in real life. I'm only 5'2 but I will I come out of my shell and cut a heffa who step wrong.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
Big ups to your hubby! It says alot about him that he told you! We have to pray without ceasing for God to cover our husbands, ourselves and our relationship from the attacks of the enemy. Their are trifling women out there and they can care less about you or anything else for that matter, all they want is a man. Let's keep each other uplifted!
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Amen PB&J!!! Future girl if a woman is smart she will not look at your fiance -- LOL!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Amen PB&J!!! Future girl if a woman is smart she will not look at your fiance -- LOL!!!
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rhony if she values her eyes, she better keep em in her head & off my man. hahaha... I'm not that bad. They can look, hell, he can look. He can not touch.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way. ~ Pablo Neruda
[quote="FutureMsLee"]Amen PB&J!!! Future girl if a woman is smart she will not look at your fiance -- LOL!!!
rhony if she values her eyes, she better keep em in her head & off my man. hahaha... I'm not that bad. They can look, hell, he can look. He can not touch.
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Yeah girl I'm with you...I also have to pray to constantly have the Holy Ghost on me cause these women are too much...tryin to bring the devil out of me! And I'm usually quiet..... Thats why people hear how once in a while a woman you know who is usually nice have to spend the night in jail for jackin up these triflin women with no restraint over their stankin' cats or no morals...Ooohhhhhhhh I wish a chicken would! Talk about some smoke in the city!
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LMAO...ya'll are too funny, but everything you are saying is the truth. Yes, I do have a good man and I am thankful that he told me because he could have very easily tried to test the waters. Whoever said marriage was hard work never lied.
Bossie,congrats to you,again.I don't understand why women can be so trifling.Girl,you have a good man!Be prepared to hear more scenarios like this from your hubby because the buzzards will continue to circle him.I agree with Ms.Bee.Continue to pray to keep your marriage strong.God bless you!
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Prayer is the key ladies! The family that prays together stays together!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37