Ok in another post I was talking about my cousin being replaced becasue she's pregnant...in her place I want to use her sister who's 18. Now the new problem is this....THE MOTHER! She's a real BIOTCH!
My aunt has a way of doing thing thats not normal. She has like crazy mood swing. Everybody always says its because she's a Gemini.Well my problem is this. I want her 9 year old daughter to be one of my flowergirls and now I'm thinking of asking the 18 year old to be my bridesmaid. How will I deal with this lady and not choke her out. I think I will have a big problem with her not wanting to pay for anything,or showing up on time to meeting or showing up at all. She will get mad and just say they cant do it.
My aunt will say she's on her way over to my grandma's house which is 10 minutes away from her house and wont show up until 6 hours later! She says she's going to take you somewhenre then call you from the place and say she just wanted to be alone, or she wont call at all and tell you how much fun she had!Or she will say we'll go and we never do!She always has something to do when you need her for something! She will not let the kids come to the house if "SHE" doesnt want them there. She a real *ITCH! This will be where most of my stress comes from, I just know it!
Ok in another post I was talking about my cousin being replaced becasue she's pregnant...in her place I want to use her sister who's 18. Now the new problem is this....THE MOTHER! She's a real BIOTCH!
My aunt has a way of doing thing thats not normal. She has like crazy mood swing. Everybody always says its because she's a Gemini.Well my problem is this. I want her 9 year old daughter to be one of my flowergirls and now I'm thinking of asking the 18 year old to be my bridesmaid. How will I deal with this lady and not choke her out. I think I will have a big problem with her not wanting to pay for anything,or showing up on time to meeting or showing up at all. She will get mad and just say they cant do it.
My aunt will say she's on her way over to my grandma's house which is 10 minutes away from her house and wont show up until 6 hours later! She says she's going to take you somewhenre then call you from the place and say she just wanted to be alone, or she wont call at all and tell you how much fun she had!Or she will say we'll go and we never do!She always has something to do when you need her for something! She will not let the kids come to the house if "SHE" doesnt want them there. She a real *ITCH! This will be where most of my stress comes from, I just know it!
LOL.You are so funny, Allies. I have a Gemini sister. I think I can relate. Why not avoid the predictable drama and not have any of her children in the wedding?
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Rosey, those are my sentiments exactly! Allies, if you already know that she's trifling and not dependable don't even bother to involve er in any aspect of your day. Perhaps there are other girls that you can ask or maybe just do without them if you can't find anyone else. You really don't need to be worried about whether someone is going to show up. Best wishes
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The thing is I dont really talk to any of my friends from High school anymore. I just moved away from home (about a year agao) and I dont really know many people here except FH's family.My aunt and her girls 5 girls are the only part of my family thats here in Cali.I know it will be hell to get the out of towners to participate.I love my little cousins to death but the problem lie in their mom. I really want them to be in the wedding. Even my mom and grandma said they would pay for the dresses for the girls. But that will NEVER solve her problem. I just have to pray for me.Hopefull I will figure this all out SOON!
Girl find someone else. I have two girls you can use them! LOL
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[quote="Rosetta"]LOL.You are so funny, Allies. I have a Gemini sister. I think I can relate. Why not avoid the predictable drama and not have any of her children in the wedding?
[/quote]my sentiments exactly
Allies you still have a little time. Think carefully. Take from me, if you can avoid the drama, then do so, it isn't worth it! I think I aged a few years dealing with unnecessary drama - LOL!!!
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I was wondering if you made a decision yet. Keep us posted.
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