OMG!! I AM HAVING SOME REAL SADNESS. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SENSITIVE AND EMOTIONAL, BUT...LATELY...IT IS JUST CRAZY! LIKE RIGHT NOW, AS I TYPE THIS, I AM CRYING. NOTHING IS SERIOUSLY WRONG, BUT EVERY LITTLE THING MAKES ME CRY AND IRRITATES ME. I CAN'T STAND THE THOUGHT OF BEING AROUND ANYONE RIGHT NOW, AND I CAN'T SEEM TO FIGURE OUT WHY. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME??
OMG!! I AM HAVING SOME REAL SADNESS. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SENSITIVE AND EMOTIONAL, BUT...LATELY...IT IS JUST CRAZY! LIKE RIGHT NOW, AS I TYPE THIS, I AM CRYING. NOTHING IS SERIOUSLY WRONG, BUT EVERY LITTLE THING MAKES ME CRY AND IRRITATES ME. I CAN'T STAND THE THOUGHT OF BEING AROUND ANYONE RIGHT NOW, AND I CAN'T SEEM TO FIGURE OUT WHY. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME??
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASSUNDER
MARK 10:9
THE BIBLE-KJV
Girl, I used to be extremely sensitive like you. It's possible that the planning is taking a toll on you (or PMS). I hit my breaking point about 4 or 5 months before the wedding. My hubby could tell I was stressed out and we went away for the weekend. We didn't talk about the wedding or the house, we just relaxed. So, this is me suggesting that you do the same. Take a break from everything (and everyone) wedding related for a few days.
I'm a married woman as of December 2, 2006.
Delight yourself also in the Lord & He shall give you all the desires of your heart.-Psalm 37:4
I agree with Cinamin1 because you may have reached a threshold of stress from the wedding. I also think you should allow all of those emotions to release themselves and let your body physically dump all of that out.
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your not prego...are you?
(I know thats what some of yall were thinking)
Girl breath.LOL
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Just hold on and pray. I am there too. If I didn't have God or the vibrides, I would be laid out right now. Its gonna be okay....
Plus if I get too stressed my FH is going to try to take me to the courthouse and cancel the wedding. We apply for the license together on Valentine's day and he already said we can end all this drama then, and is just waiting on a word from me....:)
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[quote="MsBoston"]your not prego...are you?
(I know thats what some of yall were thinking)
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Yeah I was thinking it! lol
It is just the jitters, Double 07, and it creates the bridezilla in all of us!
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[quote="MsBoston"]your not prego...are you?
(I know thats what some of yall were thinking)
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lol! I guess since some of my own folks thought that of me, that was the last thing on my mind for someone else.
Stay strong 07 Bride. Keep praying and trusting GOD. Just say God you are the one who has control over my mind and emotions you are the one who can give me joy not even my FH. I have been going through the samething I have even has bad dreams that my wedding is not going to go right because guess what I have a GOD that is so awesome that he will make sure everything goes right because I am his child. I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank all of you who made comments about my situation. I still don't know what is really wrong with me.
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASSUNDER
MARK 10:9
THE BIBLE-KJV
Still down?!?
let's talk about it. What's going on?
Alot Ms. Boston, but I really don't know what to call it.
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASSUNDER
MARK 10:9
THE BIBLE-KJV
[quote="07_Bride"]Alot Ms. Boston, but I really don't know what to call it.
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Is it just wedding business, or other stuff...(if you don't mind me asking)?
Actually, it's wedding stuff, personal stuff, ect. Every little thing is getting to me, and I don't know how to stop it. I have been so emotional and depressed lately. I can't talk to anyone because no one seems to understand, so I am turning to my sistahs!
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASSUNDER
MARK 10:9
THE BIBLE-KJV
[quote="07_Bride"]Actually, it's wedding stuff, personal stuff, ect. Every little thing is getting to me, and I don't know how to stop it. I have been so emotional and depressed lately. I can't talk to anyone because no one seems to understand, so I am turning to my sistahs!
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Well we are praying for you. That God will give you peace and rest within your soul and mind. That with His help you will realize that you can't let issue (wedding or personal) get you down. I know that's easier said then done, but you can't get all stressed out. All you'll be is somebody who's stressed out with the SAME issues and problems you started out with. The last thing you want to add on to your life are health issues related to your stress. So try to relax, take things one day at a time, PRAY PRAY and PRAY some more, and realize if you believe that God is in control of everything, He's got all your issues covered, and it will work out in the end. When start getting like that I have to calm myself down, breathe, and say "God is in control...God is in control....He's gotten me through MANY MANY things in my life, so there's NOTHING he can't do"......after a while of saying this over and over again, it starts getting in your spirit, you relax and really start believeing it.
[quote="07_Bride"]Actually, it's wedding stuff, personal stuff, ect. Every little thing is getting to me, and I don't know how to stop it. I have been so emotional and depressed lately. I can't talk to anyone because no one seems to understand, so I am turning to my sistahs!
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Aw. We understand! Is there any way you can take a small break from the planning? Even if just a mental break to help you regroup and be refreshed?
Excellent advice STB.
I agree w/classy, sometimes even just a day dedicated to you will do wonders for your spirit. I know w/school and everything else it's sooo hard to get even a minute to yourself but a mani&pedi, a facial(professional or home-made) or massage(put FH to work), perhaps a lunch with the girls? Anything to de-stress-a-fy.
you are in my prayers. Keep your head up girl.