Well ladies it's me again. Just when everything seem to be back on track something us comes along. Satan is really riding my back. I thank GOD I know who is in control. Well his is my situation I have 4 BM which is wearing a burnt orange dress with a train my two JBM and the MOH is wearing another style dress in burnt orange. The dress has a swag on the back the JBM dress is all burnt orange the MOH is burnt orange white a white swag. Well everybodies dress fit except my MOH she is a plus size women and the dress is not fitting right. I love the dress but I might have to change the style dress in order for it to fit right but I don't really want to because it flows with the other dresses. Then if I change the dress the other style may not look as good on the JBM. I like everything to match. I'm a match freak and I really don't want to have 3 different style dresses. I know this story is long but please help. What should I do???
Well ladies it's me again. Just when everything seem to be back on track something us comes along. Satan is really riding my back. I thank GOD I know who is in control. Well his is my situation I have 4 BM which is wearing a burnt orange dress with a train my two JBM and the MOH is wearing another style dress in burnt orange. The dress has a swag on the back the JBM dress is all burnt orange the MOH is burnt orange white a white swag. Well everybodies dress fit except my MOH she is a plus size women and the dress is not fitting right. I love the dress but I might have to change the style dress in order for it to fit right but I don't really want to because it flows with the other dresses. Then if I change the dress the other style may not look as good on the JBM. I like everything to match. I'm a match freak and I really don't want to have 3 different style dresses. I know this story is long but please help. What should I do???
Kmed, as a bride,I have to say your day your way. I am sorry this is happening to you. I unfortunatly am 1 of those people who have to be honest. This is 1 of the things you have to consider when picking the dresses. I have girls of all sizes in my wedding party and i have a pet peeve about matching as well. I wanted all my ladies looking good in my wedding party so we went on a field trip. Took all the girls to Davids Bridal and picked out the dresses I liked. They got to pick out of my choices with the 1 requirement that the dress look good from the biggest girl(size 22)to smallest girl(size 8). All wearing the same dress. If the dress looks that bad you may have no other choice but to change everybodies dress or just that 1. Good Luck
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Thanks for the advice. I'm thinking about just keeping the BM their dress and JBM in their dress and just change the MOH. I want all my girls to look good but most people expect the MOH to stand out. I thoght that was what I was doing when we picked that dress. I also wanted it to be a little different that is why I also had the JBM wearing the same dress. I'm just going to pray about it and keep looking. I hope all is well with your wedding planning.
With your wedding being almost 2 months away, I think it would be inconsiderate for everyone to have to buy another dress, unless you're paying for it. Is it that your MOH doesn't look right in that dress because she's larger or is it the dress that was ordered doesn't fit?
It not that my MOH does not look right in her dress, the dress does not fit. The only people would have to change their dresses would be the MOH and the two JBM. They do not have to pay anything extra. The store is allowing us to change if we want because it does not fit.
Can her dress be altered to fit?
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I am having a problem with my moh as well. She has VERY LARGE BREAST and now all of a sudden she claims she feels uncomfortable wearing a strapless dress. Mind you we are all wear strapless dresses. Now I have to find her another style dress, maybe a halter style dress or either she will be wearing a jacket in july.
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[quote="housewife147"]I am having a problem with my moh as well. She has VERY LARGE BREAST and now all of a sudden she claims she feels uncomfortable wearing a strapless dress. Mind you we are all wear strapless dresses. Now I have to find her another style dress, maybe a halter style dress or either she will be wearing a jacket in july.
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Wow. Good luck with that! At least you can choose another style and you have time to do so. That's the reason I chose BM dresses with short sleeves.
Kmed sorry that your going through all this hassle so close to the wedding. I too have BM's of all sizes (4-24) and am also a match freak, however fit supercedes style any day and in any situation. My advice is to get the three dresses changed and FAST. Did the boutique say that the dresses would be in on time if you did re-order? I certainly hope so for your sake. Good luck, and you will let us know what's happening with your choice?
Thanks for the advice ladies. The store said I would be able to get it back in time if I reorder now. I did look for BM dresses that had short sleeves but I was not able to find any. The dress that was ordered for my MOH has a thin strap on it but that was not the problem it was her breast. I can't wait for this to be over with. I know things can be worst so I won't complain but I look forward to the night of the wedding.