WITWI TAJMOM?

I was wondering the same thing when I saw the when and where is your wedding post. TAJMOM if you're out there - DROP US A LINE!

Honey Taj was MIA before. I asked everyone where she was and no one knew. I guess since it's so close to her date she is just tieing up any loose ends.

Ladies I am sooooo sorry for ignoring you there has been soo much going on. Yall know I'm long winded so let's see if i can catch u up quickly. Ok,,Future mother in law died suddenly, no will no insurance, pension just enough to pay 4 funeral except Fh is a wimp and let irresponsible sis handle everything, huge mess big mistake, fmil house went in foreclosure and sis left everything for us to pay. Sis moves in with us, find out she made deal with an uncle re some mtg pymts now he wants to sue us 4 the money since we now own the house!!!! Enter my irresponsible sister who cld nt afford the dress 4 my wedding but whatever she moves in with my niece who is 1 and my sis things is a china doll, around my rough tough 3 yr old, Yeah lots of Fun, no where else to go, one wld think I live in a mansion, Fh ex being difficult about his daughter coming 4 the wedding, moh cannot fit the dress and waited until 2 weeks b4 wedding to try to order another,Fh now being referred to as future stupid from this point on, FS broke acl tendon trying to be like Mike 4 weeks b4 wedding, out of work for the next 2 months, Davids bridal will not clean my gown even though I bought it there says after 2 years they do nt shw record, put gown in cleaners cost $50 aggravation priceless! 1 week b4 wedding and we now have to arrange for a pickup of baby girl by ex from maryland, she has nt tried on dress since Thanksgiving has no shoes and hair and nails need to be done, did I mention we have no money, with 7 kids 2 of which are in college 1 graduated early from high school, cld nt be a boy had to be a girl they are more expensive,had to do prom, ring etc last minute. Living in NJ highest cost of living in the country, maintaining house with all complete bills in North Carolina and hubby out on disability.

Family and close friends are taking bets and calling me the Runaway bride.

The plus side is somehow during all of this I was taking classes in Phlebotomy and Ekg for the eventual move to NC, took my Nationals and passed with flying colors. I am now licensed to practice nt just in NJ but nationwide.

OHHH did I add I'm getting married in 8 days!!!!!!

Taj, welcome back! We missed you. That sounds like quite a busy time, but I hope it all works you. AND you know that I will be there on Saturday. Good luck and keep the faith!

Congrats on passing the Nationals!!!

As far as everything else, God never puts more on us than we can bear, you'll be okay.

Tajmom you are officially excused from being MIA. Sweetie I will be in prayer for you. I know how it feels to sacrifice for your own and then have to sacrifice again for some grown a** people who should be making their own damn sacrifices for their children! But hey, but by the grace of God are we able to sustain and come out unbruised and unwavered.

BTW, "FS" - that's too funny!

Wow Taj! That's a lot. I'm sorry to hear about your FH's mom. I am also to hear about all of your other problems. I will pray that everything else will be alright for you.

YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED!!!! I am going to be there and I will definately let you know that I came. Your day is going to be beautiful.

Oh TAJ, when it rains it pours, but for the grace of God. Feel free to start as many blogs as you need to relieve some of this stress and know that your sisters will be there to support you on your day, some in the flesh, the rest of us in spirit. Remember, it's not about dresses or nail appointments as much as the union of you and your soul mate (aka FS).

Tupac said it best, Keep ya head up!

Its amazing how through all that, you still have a blessing from the Lord! Nevertheless, you, my brother, and thousands of others are getting married on probably the biggest wedding day of this century: 7/7/07, God's number for completion will be just the thing you need to signal that the end (of all this mess) is near. I learned long ago that things get worse before they get better.....you are so close....we are here praying for you....So when all this after this wedding, you will see how quickly God puts this mess to an end. And life, just like the end of one chapter....begins a NEW.
God Bless. We love you.

[quote="Bumblebeekee"]Its amazing how through all that, you still have a blessing from the Lord! Nevertheless, you, my brother, and thousands of others are getting married on probably the biggest wedding day of this century: 7/7/07, God's number for completion will be just the thing you need to signal that the end (of all this mess) is near. I learned long ago that things get worse before they get better.....you are so close....we are here praying for you....So when all this after this wedding, you will see how quickly God puts this mess to an end. And life, just like the end of one chapter....begins a NEW.
God Bless. We love you.
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Bumble, that was beautifully put, it has inspired me...Thanks Gurl

Taj we really missed you. Sorry to haar about all of the issues that you and fh have on your plates. I know that you will pull through all of this like a champ. We love you and we are praying for your and your family. Also CONGRATS GIRL!!!! There are many blessings that follow.

See I really missed you ladies!!! You are all so inspirational and supportive. Thank You so much and I love you all!

Taj, glad to see you are back. God's got your back...and his going to keep moving you forward. Congratulations on your nationals!!!!

Taj you know the sisterhood's here for ya! BTW congrats on your nationals, 4got to mention that in my earlier reply!

And we love you back Taj!!!