I will not go to the corner. HPV causes cancer. This is very serious and nasty. I dated a guy who did not satisfy me sexually. I stuck it out. then after we broke up for other reasons, I said never again.
He begged but that was one of the major reasons I didn't want him back. the sex was lame. It got even worse over time and he refused to learn or try anything new. I didnt stray though. Once I was free, I was done with him.
Soon, you may just have to leave this one alone. Continue to pray for your friend.
You know some people are so into the planning of the wedding because they want to be married so very badly just so that they may call them "Mrs so and so" but they don't really want to put the work that goes into making a marriage work. I guess she had the fanfare of the wedding, but don't really want the marriage. She has broken every vow known and given by God, why doesn't she just put the man out of his misery and Divorce him. Allow him to find true happiness with another who will respect him.
I am going to just throw aome fancy parties for myself to take the place of not having a wedding ceremony and call it a day. LOl. A nice dress, cake, food, minus the groom. LOL
Why not? I want one for my bday. And you can still register and have nice gifts and even have attendants if you want. I take marriage to seriously to marry a man just to have a wedding. IF I ever did get married i would however have a wedding. Even if it were a few years later. I like the excitment.
My friend who's 6 months pregnant's baby's father just broke it off with her...she ain't mad, he just mad she busted him out in his lies-but whatever...He was suposed to do her shower but she didn't beleive him so right when I was about to offer my services, she blurted out she had already started planning her own! I said great, cause I'm planning my own when the time comes! She was like another girl from her church had offered but she declined because she knew the girl was going to do EVERYTHING from the dollar store (it ain't nothing wrong with the dollar store) but hey, everyone don't want that so she is taking thr reigns...I was so happy for her AND happy at the fact that I wasn't the only one wanting to plan my own party!
We were talking about how some women marry a man just so that have can have a wedding, be married, and be called "Mrs." I stated that I will have none of that and just throw myself a fancy party with all the trimings in the place of a wedding. That way I get my day to shine and have fun minus the groom. Im even planning to get my own silver and fine china in the years to come! LOL.
[quote="Ginoue"]Soon, you may just have to leave this one alone. Continue to pray for your friend.
You know some people are so into the planning of the wedding because they want to be married so very badly just so that they may call them "Mrs so and so" but they don't really want to put the work that goes into making a marriage work. I guess she had the fanfare of the wedding, but don't really want the marriage. She has broken every vow known and given by God, why doesn't she just put the man out of his misery and Divorce him. Allow him to find true happiness with another who will respect him.
I still say that she's NASTY!!!
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G-I agree with you 100%!!!!!!!!! I have slowly but surely removed myself from this part of her life. She's still my girl and all, but I can only speak what I know is truth into her life, what she does from there is on her...I also am really trying to be non-judgemental because even though I do not agree with what she is doing...with me on the outside looking in, I really don't know what is going on between her and DH...I think he is a great guy, but that is just my thought...prime example: I have a friend that has it all (or atlease I thought) nice home, beautiful children, nice husband until she told me he use to whoop her azz on the regular and he was a drug addict but you never would have known this because he was a very influential figure in the community-so.....
and heck anyway, I takes alot to just keep my stuff together--I can't worry about her and all her drama!!!!!!!! :)
Soon,
You just said a mouth full. That i so true. I was married for 11 years and had everything you could ever imagine having. Big house, top of the line cars, clothes, ect. My Ex was a great provider and everyone on the outside looking in thought it was "Peaches N Cream"
But I went through a lot with him that noone knew about. (no fighting though, because he would be under the ground)
But I took my marriage very serious and didnt use that as an excuse to cheat.
That saves you to because what if her husband were to call you or ask you what is going on. That happens. You want a clear mind. You dont want any parts of it or having to lie so if you refuse to listen to it than you do not know about it. And you all go to the same church etc. Please.
[quote="mycenae1918"]That saves you to because what if her husband were to call you or ask you what is going on. That happens. You want a clear mind. You dont want any parts of it or having to lie so if you refuse to listen to it than you do not know about it. And you all go to the same church etc. Please.
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no THEY (her/dh fling & wifey) all attend the same church...that saves me too because unfortunately I cannot mask my emotions too well and I know I would be spilling the beans!! :)
just talked to my friend...she sent me a 911 text saying to call her ASAP!!! I leave my desk because I know sumthin' is up and I call her and she anwers the phone: HE KNOWS!!!! in the most pitiful wail I have heard...
hubby found out about her and co-worker by checking her cell phone.. this a.m.-co-worker texted her with a "can't wait to get at you girl" msg and she said hubby called back while she was in the shower...needless to say, hubby and lover had a pretty deep interesting convo, hubby is ready to kick azz and ask questions later (his words according to her) and told her f you and him I'm out and left...
Now she's crying, boo hooing and saying "I can't believe this" and I am just listening because I want to see why the h#$$ can't you believe it?!?!?! she's soooo hurt hubby would talk to her like that-goes off into him cussing and fussing being a minister etc and I said hey, he is a man though-what you expect?
THEN this HEFFA say F you!! (me) because she thinks I am defending him instead of sticking up for her by not joining into her pity party..I tell her I will holla at her at 4:45 (the amnt of time it takes me to get from my job to her house)to really tell her what I think!!
what yall think?!?!? should I read her or let her make it because I am pissed to the 10th degree right about now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT!!!!!!Well thats a testimony for the saying "What's Done in the Dark comes to the light" aint that the truth. Sad Situation!!!! Sorry to say, but Good for her that she got caught, with that mentality she had!
if it was me, I would tell her a little something about herself (being mad at you)and then leave her be.
I think she got exactly what she deserves. I wouldn't waste my time telling her anything. HOW DARE THIS WOMAN run out on her marriage vows and acts as if everyone one else is wrong. What an idiot. Leave her to her tears and drama -- don't read her -- she is an idiot and she deserves exactly what she gets!!!!!!!! I don't think she's seen the half of it YET!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
ok........but see I don't play with "little girls" and she knows this..I have been by her side thru some major bull, being a ride 'n die chick when she would get caught up and the for her to flip on me?!?!? remember, when all this started I gave her my honest opinion of the situation but homie did her and now look at her...
Sorry ladies, I had an angel on one shoulder saying "let her make it" the devil on the other saying "girl-do you"--guess which one I picked??? LOL
Leave her alone Soon! Honestly, when I read what she told you ...I laughed!!! and you should to ...aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnddddddddddd when she calls you back for ANYTHING don't answer and don't talk to her!!! She said F you remember!!! You think she's going through now, it's the first day baby ...she haven't seen the real deal YET!!! And you're right ..being a Minister has nothing to do with being a MAN FIRST!!! I'm sure the other husband gave her husband the "Snoop and Jody" conversation when Snoop called from jail on Baby Boy!!! Digging all in his stuff about what SHE said he don't do for her ...don't NO MAN wanna hear that NO MATTER how good OR bad he is to his woman.
It aint over Soon ..cause the OTHER wife GOTTA find out too ...step out now ..before she stresses you the hell out!!! Pray for her from a distance.
I wouldn't "tell her off" either. I mean what would be the point? You tried to warn her in the beginning and she wasn't listening. Let her sit there and have her pity party, I know that's easier said then done because she is/was a very good friend of yours, but sometimes we have to let people take up the FULL consequences of her actions. I mean really, what did she think was going to happen? Like another one of the ladies said "what you do in the dark ALWAYS ALWAYS comes to light" sooner or later...it never fails! I can't remember and I didn't want to read through all the posts, but do they have any children between them? If so....that's VERY unfortunate for them....lordy...
[quote="soontobebride"]I wouldn't "tell her off" either. I mean what would be the point? You tried to warn her in the beginning and she wasn't listening. Let her sit there and have her pity party, I know that's easier said then done because she is/was a very good friend of yours, but sometimes we have to let people take up the FULL consequences of her actions. I mean really, what did she think was going to happen? Like another one of the ladies said "what you do in the dark ALWAYS ALWAYS comes to light" sooner or later...it never fails! I can't remember and I didn't want to read through all the posts, but do they have any children between them? If so....that's VERY unfortunate for them....lordy...
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they have 3 altogether 2 live w/them and 1 lives with his ex...19, 17 & 2 1/2
[quote="soon2bmsj"]I wouldn't "tell her off" either. I mean what would be the point? You tried to warn her in the beginning and she wasn't listening. Let her sit there and have her pity party, I know that's easier said then done because she is/was a very good friend of yours, but sometimes we have to let people take up the FULL consequences of her actions. I mean really, what did she think was going to happen? Like another one of the ladies said "what you do in the dark ALWAYS ALWAYS comes to light" sooner or later...it never fails! I can't remember and I didn't want to read through all the posts, but do they have any children between them? If so....that's VERY unfortunate for them....lordy...
they have 3 altogether 2 live w/them and 1 lives with his ex...19, 17 & 2 1/2
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[quote="VIPrincessBride"]There's going to be nothing but DRAMA at that house. I'd stay as far away as I could. If she needs help, she can call the police.
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oookk.... :)
I'm suppose to be mad, but you ladies have me over here rollin' :)
Ima chill...plus I don't want her to mess up my evening with her nonsense since we are doing a family outing to the Cowboys game tonight...BUT if that HEFFA calls with some more drama...I don't know...
How loyal are my vibride sistahs?? will yall take up some bail money for me?!?!?! LOL
[quote="Turiya"]Leave her alone Soon! Honestly, when I read what she told you ...I laughed!!! and you should to ...aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnddddddddddd when she calls you back for ANYTHING don't answer and don't talk to her!!! She said F you remember!!! You think she's going through now, it's the first day baby ...she haven't seen the real deal YET!!! And you're right ..being a Minister has nothing to do with being a MAN FIRST!!! I'm sure the other husband gave her husband the "Snoop and Jody" conversation when Snoop called from jail on Baby Boy!!! Digging all in his stuff about what SHE said he don't do for her ...don't NO MAN wanna hear that NO MATTER how good OR bad he is to his woman.
It aint over Soon ..cause the OTHER wife GOTTA find out too ...step out now ..before she stresses you the hell out!!! Pray for her from a distance.
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Almost pissed myself laughing- TURIYA YOU MADD GURL!! SNOOP AND JODY!!! I am going to find that movie and watch it again!! You took me back to the moment. But on the real- SOON wash your hands- you warned the woman- now she needs to sort out her own mess
I think our vi sisters are right leave this broad alone dont waste your time or energy with her a hard head makes a soft azz so she needs to DEAL WITH IT misery loves company she thinks that this is it sugar wait until the wife finds out girl your friends dh is hot as fish grease and u better believe there is gonna be some smoke in that city like the ladies said he is PISSED and his home is wrecked and mr minister is gonna return the favor believe that stay out u dont need that kind of drama in ur house enjoy the cowboys.
I would leave her alone. She will disturb your sleep patterns. I mean she was married and sleeping with a man she knew was married. Yuck. He was right to roll out. Infidelity is a reason to divorce in the Bible. Oh well. Leave her alone. She will be ok.
just talked to my friend...she sent me a 911 text saying to call her ASAP!!! I leave my desk because I know sumthin' is up and I call her and she anwers the phone: HE KNOWS!!!! in the most pitiful wail I have heard...
hubby found out about her and co-worker by checking her cell phone.. this a.m.-co-worker texted her with a "can't wait to get at you girl" msg and she said hubby called back while she was in the shower...needless to say, hubby and lover had a pretty deep interesting convo, hubby is ready to kick azz and ask questions later (his words according to her) and told her f you and him I'm out and left...
Now she's crying, boo hooing and saying "I can't believe this" and I am just listening because I want to see why the h#$$ can't you believe it?!?!?! she's soooo hurt hubby would talk to her like that-goes off into him cussing and fussing being a minister etc and I said hey, he is a man though-what you expect?
THEN this HEFFA say F you!! (me) because she thinks I am defending him instead of sticking up for her by not joining into her pity party..I tell her I will holla at her at 4:45 (the amnt of time it takes me to get from my job to her house)to really tell her what I think!!
what yall think?!?!? should I read her or let her make it because I am pissed to the 10th degree right about now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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OMG!!!!!!
How did I miss this.. SOOO... The drama unfolds..
Why the heck is she getting mad at you? You tried to tell her from the start that she was gonna get caught up. GUURRRLLL!!! So PREACHER MAN went off huh? LOL
[quote="Turiya"]Leave her alone Soon! Honestly, when I read what she told you ...I laughed!!! and you should to ...aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnddddddddddd when she calls you back for ANYTHING don't answer and don't talk to her!!! She said F you remember!!! You think she's going through now, it's the first day baby ...she haven't seen the real deal YET!!! And you're right ..being a Minister has nothing to do with being a MAN FIRST!!! I'm sure the other husband gave her husband the "Snoop and Jody" conversation when Snoop called from jail on Baby Boy!!! Digging all in his stuff about what SHE said he don't do for her ...don't NO MAN wanna hear that NO MATTER how good OR bad he is to his woman.
It aint over Soon ..cause the OTHER wife GOTTA find out too ...step out now ..before she stresses you the hell out!!! Pray for her from a distance.
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LOL-turiyas Jody and Snoop scenerio "scared" me! we all know the outcome of that one!!!!! LOL
Anyway she blew my phone up last night and I kept hitting ignore until I got home at about 11 p.m. I finally call her and ask her what's up-she said DH came home gave her the I should kill you "B" look and went into his den and didn't say a word until the kids were in their rooms then she said he went off!! called her everything under the sun and TOLD her he will be hollering at MRS "X" to let her know what a "B" her hubby is, that she best to start making a backup plan because he will not be staying with no trifling low down "H" so she better figure out how to pay the bills by herself. she said she tried to talk to him and he just kept telling her to shut the f up, and pushed her out of the bedroom and slammed the door. She said about 30 minutes later, he threw HER pillow and blanket out in the hallway and said and "B" you are sleeping on the couch tonight! Ok-I must admit I laughed my azz off when she told me that part!!!!
so as of right now, she is a sitting duck, waiting for the next ax to drop...she has taken another sick day (today) and BTW-lover man won't answer his phone either!!! (hmmmm)
See see see!!! LMAO. I actually think he's doing pretty good. He respecting the kids and everything ..LOL That chick wouldn't have made it over here!!! She lucky all she got was a "lil name calling" and the couch! Mr. Minister even gave her a pillow and a blanket!!! She making out forreal.
[quote="Turiya"]See see see!!! LMAO. I actually think he's doing pretty good. He respecting the kids and everything ..LOL That chick wouldn't have made it over here!!! She lucky all she got was a "lil name calling" and the couch! Mr. Minister even gave her a pillow and a blanket!!! She making out forreal.
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forreal forreal, because most men would have put her out right then and there. I really worry about her hubby though because he is such a nice dude and this will RUIN him for the next girl (if he decides to move on)
I don't know...she tried to call him several times yesterday and he was 'MIA'--her dumb azz will probably be trying to contact him again...
I just hope the big show-down don't go down on Sunday!!!!!!! her husband seems to be a very respectful man, so I don't think he would disrespect the house of the Lord, BUT right now his mind is Gooooooooonnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeee....
CMT ...I was thinkin the same thing AND if wifey was to tell her about her husband ...he MAY have been ok telling her bs and getting off ...BUT if Mr. Minister comes through with the business ...it's done.
Think of the logic:
If a chick comes to you and tell you she's been sleeping with your man ...alright it could be a couple reasons why she's saying this with the #1 reason possibly being because it's true.
BUT if a dude comes to you and tell you, he found out through a text and a conversation WITH YOUR man that your husband has been sleeping with his wife ...well umm that's sticking and you're probably running with that little bit of info and going off!
[quote="Turiya"]CMT ...I was thinkin the same thing AND if wifey was to tell her about her husband ...he MAY have been ok telling her bs and getting off ...BUT if Mr. Minister comes through with the business ...it's done.
Think of the logic:
If a chick comes to you and tell you she's been sleeping with your man ...alright it could be a couple reasons why she's saying this with the #1 reason possibly being because it's true.
BUT if a dude comes to you and tell you, he found out through a text and a conversation WITH YOUR man that your husband has been sleeping with his wife ...well umm that's sticking and you're probably running with that little bit of info and going off!
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You are right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just hope Mr. Minister don't lose his religion-because one look at lover man and it is going to be ON!!!!!!!!! also, I hope he don't stand up and tell everything because they are a church that do confessions, testomonies etc...EVR'Y Sunday...
I will not go to the corner. HPV causes cancer. This is very serious and nasty. I dated a guy who did not satisfy me sexually. I stuck it out. then after we broke up for other reasons, I said never again.
He begged but that was one of the major reasons I didn't want him back. the sex was lame. It got even worse over time and he refused to learn or try anything new. I didnt stray though. Once I was free, I was done with him.
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No Mycenae, you were sent to the corner for bringing starting this post up again. We all know how serious it is.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Ok. let me get my hat. let me know when I can come out.
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LOL!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
LMAO!
Soon, you may just have to leave this one alone. Continue to pray for your friend.
You know some people are so into the planning of the wedding because they want to be married so very badly just so that they may call them "Mrs so and so" but they don't really want to put the work that goes into making a marriage work. I guess she had the fanfare of the wedding, but don't really want the marriage. She has broken every vow known and given by God, why doesn't she just put the man out of his misery and Divorce him. Allow him to find true happiness with another who will respect him.
I still say that she's NASTY!!!
I am going to just throw aome fancy parties for myself to take the place of not having a wedding ceremony and call it a day. LOl. A nice dress, cake, food, minus the groom. LOL
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If that's what you want? Why not? There's nothing wrong with throwing yourself a party.
Yep, that's what my co-worker is doing this year to celebrate her 40th birthday.
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Why not? I want one for my bday. And you can still register and have nice gifts and even have attendants if you want. I take marriage to seriously to marry a man just to have a wedding. IF I ever did get married i would however have a wedding. Even if it were a few years later. I like the excitment.
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Ain't nothin wrong with throwing your own party!
My friend who's 6 months pregnant's baby's father just broke it off with her...she ain't mad, he just mad she busted him out in his lies-but whatever...He was suposed to do her shower but she didn't beleive him so right when I was about to offer my services, she blurted out she had already started planning her own! I said great, cause I'm planning my own when the time comes! She was like another girl from her church had offered but she declined because she knew the girl was going to do EVERYTHING from the dollar store (it ain't nothing wrong with the dollar store) but hey, everyone don't want that so she is taking thr reigns...I was so happy for her AND happy at the fact that I wasn't the only one wanting to plan my own party!
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Im so lost here how did we go from would you cheat to planning parties
and solo weddings.
We were talking about how some women marry a man just so that have can have a wedding, be married, and be called "Mrs." I stated that I will have none of that and just throw myself a fancy party with all the trimings in the place of a wedding. That way I get my day to shine and have fun minus the groom. Im even planning to get my own silver and fine china in the years to come! LOL.
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[quote="PEBBLES35"]Im so lost here how did we go from would you cheat to planning parties
and solo weddings.
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Girl I sooo glad you asked cause I was lost right along with ya.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Pebbles & PamCrow -- to the corner -- LOL!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="Ginoue"]Soon, you may just have to leave this one alone. Continue to pray for your friend.
You know some people are so into the planning of the wedding because they want to be married so very badly just so that they may call them "Mrs so and so" but they don't really want to put the work that goes into making a marriage work. I guess she had the fanfare of the wedding, but don't really want the marriage. She has broken every vow known and given by God, why doesn't she just put the man out of his misery and Divorce him. Allow him to find true happiness with another who will respect him.
I still say that she's NASTY!!!
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G-I agree with you 100%!!!!!!!!! I have slowly but surely removed myself from this part of her life. She's still my girl and all, but I can only speak what I know is truth into her life, what she does from there is on her...I also am really trying to be non-judgemental because even though I do not agree with what she is doing...with me on the outside looking in, I really don't know what is going on between her and DH...I think he is a great guy, but that is just my thought...prime example: I have a friend that has it all (or atlease I thought) nice home, beautiful children, nice husband until she told me he use to whoop her azz on the regular and he was a drug addict but you never would have known this because he was a very influential figure in the community-so.....
and heck anyway, I takes alot to just keep my stuff together--I can't worry about her and all her drama!!!!!!!! :)
Soon,
You just said a mouth full. That i so true. I was married for 11 years and had everything you could ever imagine having. Big house, top of the line cars, clothes, ect. My Ex was a great provider and everyone on the outside looking in thought it was "Peaches N Cream"
But I went through a lot with him that noone knew about. (no fighting though, because he would be under the ground)
But I took my marriage very serious and didnt use that as an excuse to cheat.
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That saves you to because what if her husband were to call you or ask you what is going on. That happens. You want a clear mind. You dont want any parts of it or having to lie so if you refuse to listen to it than you do not know about it. And you all go to the same church etc. Please.
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[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Pebbles & PamCrow -- to the corner -- LOL!!!!!
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Pebbles you see how they do us, get a little confused and get sent to the corner. Well at least we got each other..LOL!!
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
[quote="mycenae1918"]That saves you to because what if her husband were to call you or ask you what is going on. That happens. You want a clear mind. You dont want any parts of it or having to lie so if you refuse to listen to it than you do not know about it. And you all go to the same church etc. Please.
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no THEY (her/dh fling & wifey) all attend the same church...that saves me too because unfortunately I cannot mask my emotions too well and I know I would be spilling the beans!! :)
Oh, technically I m still in the corner anyway. Can I come out guys? lol
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[quote="pamcrow"]Pebbles & PamCrow -- to the corner -- LOL!!!!!
Pebbles you see how they do us, get a little confused and get sent to the corner. Well at least we got each other..LOL!!
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[quote="PEBBLES35"]Im so lost here how did we go from would you cheat to planning parties
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LMAO @ solo weddings!!!
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Dang pam two post this week that got me sent to the corner.
IT'S ON...IT'S ON...IT'S ON...!!!!!!!!!!
just talked to my friend...she sent me a 911 text saying to call her ASAP!!! I leave my desk because I know sumthin' is up and I call her and she anwers the phone: HE KNOWS!!!! in the most pitiful wail I have heard...
hubby found out about her and co-worker by checking her cell phone.. this a.m.-co-worker texted her with a "can't wait to get at you girl" msg and she said hubby called back while she was in the shower...needless to say, hubby and lover had a pretty deep interesting convo, hubby is ready to kick azz and ask questions later (his words according to her) and told her f you and him I'm out and left...
Now she's crying, boo hooing and saying "I can't believe this" and I am just listening because I want to see why the h#$$ can't you believe it?!?!?! she's soooo hurt hubby would talk to her like that-goes off into him cussing and fussing being a minister etc and I said hey, he is a man though-what you expect?
THEN this HEFFA say F you!! (me) because she thinks I am defending him instead of sticking up for her by not joining into her pity party..I tell her I will holla at her at 4:45 (the amnt of time it takes me to get from my job to her house)to really tell her what I think!!
what yall think?!?!? should I read her or let her make it because I am pissed to the 10th degree right about now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT!!!!!!Well thats a testimony for the saying "What's Done in the Dark comes to the light" aint that the truth. Sad Situation!!!! Sorry to say, but Good for her that she got caught, with that mentality she had!
if it was me, I would tell her a little something about herself (being mad at you)and then leave her be.
I think she got exactly what she deserves. I wouldn't waste my time telling her anything. HOW DARE THIS WOMAN run out on her marriage vows and acts as if everyone one else is wrong. What an idiot. Leave her to her tears and drama -- don't read her -- she is an idiot and she deserves exactly what she gets!!!!!!!! I don't think she's seen the half of it YET!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
ok........but see I don't play with "little girls" and she knows this..I have been by her side thru some major bull, being a ride 'n die chick when she would get caught up and the for her to flip on me?!?!? remember, when all this started I gave her my honest opinion of the situation but homie did her and now look at her...
Sorry ladies, I had an angel on one shoulder saying "let her make it" the devil on the other saying "girl-do you"--guess which one I picked??? LOL
I am a strong believer in Karma. She got what she deserved.
Leave her alone Soon! Honestly, when I read what she told you ...I laughed!!! and you should to ...aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnddddddddddd when she calls you back for ANYTHING don't answer and don't talk to her!!! She said F you remember!!! You think she's going through now, it's the first day baby ...she haven't seen the real deal YET!!! And you're right ..being a Minister has nothing to do with being a MAN FIRST!!! I'm sure the other husband gave her husband the "Snoop and Jody" conversation when Snoop called from jail on Baby Boy!!! Digging all in his stuff about what SHE said he don't do for her ...don't NO MAN wanna hear that NO MATTER how good OR bad he is to his woman.
It aint over Soon ..cause the OTHER wife GOTTA find out too ...step out now ..before she stresses you the hell out!!! Pray for her from a distance.
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I wouldn't "tell her off" either. I mean what would be the point? You tried to warn her in the beginning and she wasn't listening. Let her sit there and have her pity party, I know that's easier said then done because she is/was a very good friend of yours, but sometimes we have to let people take up the FULL consequences of her actions. I mean really, what did she think was going to happen? Like another one of the ladies said "what you do in the dark ALWAYS ALWAYS comes to light" sooner or later...it never fails! I can't remember and I didn't want to read through all the posts, but do they have any children between them? If so....that's VERY unfortunate for them....lordy...
Turiya you are too funny -- but you are sooooooo right! LOL!!!!
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[quote="soontobebride"]I wouldn't "tell her off" either. I mean what would be the point? You tried to warn her in the beginning and she wasn't listening. Let her sit there and have her pity party, I know that's easier said then done because she is/was a very good friend of yours, but sometimes we have to let people take up the FULL consequences of her actions. I mean really, what did she think was going to happen? Like another one of the ladies said "what you do in the dark ALWAYS ALWAYS comes to light" sooner or later...it never fails! I can't remember and I didn't want to read through all the posts, but do they have any children between them? If so....that's VERY unfortunate for them....lordy...
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they have 3 altogether 2 live w/them and 1 lives with his ex...19, 17 & 2 1/2
[quote="soon2bmsj"]I wouldn't "tell her off" either. I mean what would be the point? You tried to warn her in the beginning and she wasn't listening. Let her sit there and have her pity party, I know that's easier said then done because she is/was a very good friend of yours, but sometimes we have to let people take up the FULL consequences of her actions. I mean really, what did she think was going to happen? Like another one of the ladies said "what you do in the dark ALWAYS ALWAYS comes to light" sooner or later...it never fails! I can't remember and I didn't want to read through all the posts, but do they have any children between them? If so....that's VERY unfortunate for them....lordy...
they have 3 altogether 2 live w/them and 1 lives with his ex...19, 17 & 2 1/2
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MAN.....that sucks.....poor kids...
There's going to be nothing but DRAMA at that house. I'd stay as far away as I could. If she needs help, she can call the police.
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[quote="VIPrincessBride"]There's going to be nothing but DRAMA at that house. I'd stay as far away as I could. If she needs help, she can call the police.
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oookk.... :)
I'm suppose to be mad, but you ladies have me over here rollin' :)
Ima chill...plus I don't want her to mess up my evening with her nonsense since we are doing a family outing to the Cowboys game tonight...BUT if that HEFFA calls with some more drama...I don't know...
How loyal are my vibride sistahs?? will yall take up some bail money for me?!?!?! LOL
[quote="Turiya"]Leave her alone Soon! Honestly, when I read what she told you ...I laughed!!! and you should to ...aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnddddddddddd when she calls you back for ANYTHING don't answer and don't talk to her!!! She said F you remember!!! You think she's going through now, it's the first day baby ...she haven't seen the real deal YET!!! And you're right ..being a Minister has nothing to do with being a MAN FIRST!!! I'm sure the other husband gave her husband the "Snoop and Jody" conversation when Snoop called from jail on Baby Boy!!! Digging all in his stuff about what SHE said he don't do for her ...don't NO MAN wanna hear that NO MATTER how good OR bad he is to his woman.
It aint over Soon ..cause the OTHER wife GOTTA find out too ...step out now ..before she stresses you the hell out!!! Pray for her from a distance.
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Almost pissed myself laughing- TURIYA YOU MADD GURL!! SNOOP AND JODY!!! I am going to find that movie and watch it again!! You took me back to the moment. But on the real- SOON wash your hands- you warned the woman- now she needs to sort out her own mess
Soon, sister, don't touch this with a 10-foot pole. Let her sort out her mess. If she calls, ignore it. STAY FAR AWAY FROM THIS ONE.
I think our vi sisters are right leave this broad alone dont waste your time or energy with her a hard head makes a soft azz so she needs to DEAL WITH IT misery loves company she thinks that this is it sugar wait until the wife finds out girl your friends dh is hot as fish grease and u better believe there is gonna be some smoke in that city like the ladies said he is PISSED and his home is wrecked and mr minister is gonna return the favor believe that stay out u dont need that kind of drama in ur house enjoy the cowboys.
I would leave her alone. She will disturb your sleep patterns. I mean she was married and sleeping with a man she knew was married. Yuck. He was right to roll out. Infidelity is a reason to divorce in the Bible. Oh well. Leave her alone. She will be ok.
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[quote="soon2bmsj"]IT'S ON...IT'S ON...IT'S ON...!!!!!!!!!!
just talked to my friend...she sent me a 911 text saying to call her ASAP!!! I leave my desk because I know sumthin' is up and I call her and she anwers the phone: HE KNOWS!!!! in the most pitiful wail I have heard...
hubby found out about her and co-worker by checking her cell phone.. this a.m.-co-worker texted her with a "can't wait to get at you girl" msg and she said hubby called back while she was in the shower...needless to say, hubby and lover had a pretty deep interesting convo, hubby is ready to kick azz and ask questions later (his words according to her) and told her f you and him I'm out and left...
Now she's crying, boo hooing and saying "I can't believe this" and I am just listening because I want to see why the h#$$ can't you believe it?!?!?! she's soooo hurt hubby would talk to her like that-goes off into him cussing and fussing being a minister etc and I said hey, he is a man though-what you expect?
THEN this HEFFA say F you!! (me) because she thinks I am defending him instead of sticking up for her by not joining into her pity party..I tell her I will holla at her at 4:45 (the amnt of time it takes me to get from my job to her house)to really tell her what I think!!
what yall think?!?!? should I read her or let her make it because I am pissed to the 10th degree right about now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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OMG!!!!!!
How did I miss this.. SOOO... The drama unfolds..
Why the heck is she getting mad at you? You tried to tell her from the start that she was gonna get caught up. GUURRRLLL!!! So PREACHER MAN went off huh? LOL
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Dang MrsJ leave her alone she is a mess and half.
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[quote="Turiya"]Leave her alone Soon! Honestly, when I read what she told you ...I laughed!!! and you should to ...aaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnddddddddddd when she calls you back for ANYTHING don't answer and don't talk to her!!! She said F you remember!!! You think she's going through now, it's the first day baby ...she haven't seen the real deal YET!!! And you're right ..being a Minister has nothing to do with being a MAN FIRST!!! I'm sure the other husband gave her husband the "Snoop and Jody" conversation when Snoop called from jail on Baby Boy!!! Digging all in his stuff about what SHE said he don't do for her ...don't NO MAN wanna hear that NO MATTER how good OR bad he is to his woman.
It aint over Soon ..cause the OTHER wife GOTTA find out too ...step out now ..before she stresses you the hell out!!! Pray for her from a distance.
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As I LMAO all I can say is ditto!
LOL-turiyas Jody and Snoop scenerio "scared" me! we all know the outcome of that one!!!!! LOL
Anyway she blew my phone up last night and I kept hitting ignore until I got home at about 11 p.m. I finally call her and ask her what's up-she said DH came home gave her the I should kill you "B" look and went into his den and didn't say a word until the kids were in their rooms then she said he went off!! called her everything under the sun and TOLD her he will be hollering at MRS "X" to let her know what a "B" her hubby is, that she best to start making a backup plan because he will not be staying with no trifling low down "H" so she better figure out how to pay the bills by herself. she said she tried to talk to him and he just kept telling her to shut the f up, and pushed her out of the bedroom and slammed the door. She said about 30 minutes later, he threw HER pillow and blanket out in the hallway and said and "B" you are sleeping on the couch tonight! Ok-I must admit I laughed my azz off when she told me that part!!!!
so as of right now, she is a sitting duck, waiting for the next ax to drop...she has taken another sick day (today) and BTW-lover man won't answer his phone either!!! (hmmmm)
See see see!!! LMAO. I actually think he's doing pretty good. He respecting the kids and everything ..LOL That chick wouldn't have made it over here!!! She lucky all she got was a "lil name calling" and the couch! Mr. Minister even gave her a pillow and a blanket!!! She making out forreal.
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[quote="Turiya"]See see see!!! LMAO. I actually think he's doing pretty good. He respecting the kids and everything ..LOL That chick wouldn't have made it over here!!! She lucky all she got was a "lil name calling" and the couch! Mr. Minister even gave her a pillow and a blanket!!! She making out forreal.
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forreal forreal, because most men would have put her out right then and there. I really worry about her hubby though because he is such a nice dude and this will RUIN him for the next girl (if he decides to move on)
ooo-weee!!!! LMAO
Is MR co-worker at work today? He's probably trying to do damage control with his wife before she finds out by the minister
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I don't know...she tried to call him several times yesterday and he was 'MIA'--her dumb azz will probably be trying to contact him again...
I just hope the big show-down don't go down on Sunday!!!!!!! her husband seems to be a very respectful man, so I don't think he would disrespect the house of the Lord, BUT right now his mind is Gooooooooonnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeee....
CMT ...I was thinkin the same thing AND if wifey was to tell her about her husband ...he MAY have been ok telling her bs and getting off ...BUT if Mr. Minister comes through with the business ...it's done.
Think of the logic:
If a chick comes to you and tell you she's been sleeping with your man ...alright it could be a couple reasons why she's saying this with the #1 reason possibly being because it's true.
BUT if a dude comes to you and tell you, he found out through a text and a conversation WITH YOUR man that your husband has been sleeping with his wife ...well umm that's sticking and you're probably running with that little bit of info and going off!
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[quote="Turiya"]CMT ...I was thinkin the same thing AND if wifey was to tell her about her husband ...he MAY have been ok telling her bs and getting off ...BUT if Mr. Minister comes through with the business ...it's done.
Think of the logic:
If a chick comes to you and tell you she's been sleeping with your man ...alright it could be a couple reasons why she's saying this with the #1 reason possibly being because it's true.
BUT if a dude comes to you and tell you, he found out through a text and a conversation WITH YOUR man that your husband has been sleeping with his wife ...well umm that's sticking and you're probably running with that little bit of info and going off!
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You are right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just hope Mr. Minister don't lose his religion-because one look at lover man and it is going to be ON!!!!!!!!! also, I hope he don't stand up and tell everything because they are a church that do confessions, testomonies etc...EVR'Y Sunday...
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