[quote="Turiya"]CMT ...I was thinkin the same thing AND if wifey was to tell her about her husband ...he MAY have been ok telling her bs and getting off ...BUT if Mr. Minister comes through with the business ...it's done.
Think of the logic:
If a chick comes to you and tell you she's been sleeping with your man ...alright it could be a couple reasons why she's saying this with the #1 reason possibly being because it's true.
BUT if a dude comes to you and tell you, he found out through a text and a conversation WITH YOUR man that your husband has been sleeping with his wife ...well umm that's sticking and you're probably running with that little bit of info and going off!
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[quote="cmt"]OMG!!! are you serious?
Oh!! sistah not going to church then. Shoot she may never go back if that happens. That is totally embarrassing.
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Hmmm...I didn't think about that! well even if she does not go, her azz still should be embarassed! she called me about 10 min. ago, but I didn't answer (I know-I'm a bad friend) but shoot, it is too early in the a.m. to be dealing with her drama!!!!!!!!
TOTALLY off the subject but I see you have 7 days left!!!! excited yet?!?!?!?
yes im still excited depite the news of my videographer not being there.
Girlfriend is ready to cry on your shoulder now...OOPS!!! to late for that. she shoulda thought about that when she was gettin her freak on with brotha man
well I talked to her at lunch time and she is a hot MESS!!! now she's like "what I'm gone do" (her words exactly)I can't pay these bills by myself...and she is telling the truth! she works, but let's just say he's definetly the bread winner; when they met, she did not have a car, a job and was living on public assistance (which nothing is wrong with that so please don't crucify me for the following comments I am going ot make) but he pretty much made her what she is today, but like the saying goes, you can take the girl out of the ghetto, but not take the ghetto out of the girl...
I asked her if she has talked to loverman and she said no but I know she has probably been trying to call him...her madness NEVER stops-her next question was: does Stephen know what's going on??? I'm like huh?!?!? where did THAT come from and she said, I know that's your husband and all, and you know that's my boy BUT I really don't want him knowing my biz---I had to let her know in a very nice way that me & DH have other things to talk about besides her & her drama and I politely told her I had to go...
My d*&* head hurts now from all her madness....but I am not going to let her stress me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh no no no!!!!
I know she is not ashamed for people to find out now. Ooohhhh!!! she's beating a different drum now huh?
She dont want him knowing her biz!! WHATEVER HEFFA!!!! You put yo self out there like that. LOL
LOL cmt-and to tell you the truth DH has ALWAYS been skeptical of her...he really likes her husband from the times he has been around him-her husband even sought out DH and prayed with him before we got married--but DH always says there is something about her he can't put his finger on so even IF he knew her "biz" it would not suprise him one bit!
But you be here promptly after church to let us know what happens....Of course she probably is not going to show up!
But when he divorces her...oohhweee, lets see what happens.
That reminds me of a recent happening at the church I used to attend that I got married at----There was a guy cheating on his wife....I mean you should have seen him at his wedding in Feb 2006, singing on his keyboard about making her bath water, etc, etc....She talking about she will submit yah yah yah. Me and my DH (then BF) were like whoa, but we were like we can respect the love....Chile come to find out, he had cheated on her with another one of the lead choir girls (We'll call her Ms AKA) at the church-cause both the girls can sing...So when Mrs Submit found out.....she gave him an ultimatum, which he chose to marry her (and all this time I was wondering why her dad had not come to the wedding!).
THEN I just found Mr. Bath Water cheated on Mrs. Submit again with the same girl who is now engaged to his so-called homeboy, then Mr. Bathwater had the nerve to call Ms AKA's fiance, and say he was about the divorce his wife (Mrs Submit) of a few weeks, and marry HIS future wife (who is Ms AKA!).....And it was funny because in late 06, by the time I was engaged, they were in the Married and Engaged Couples Class at church giving testimony about a "situation" 3 weeks into the marriage that almost caused them to divorce...So of course, me and DH is "WTF?" Not Mr. Bath Water and Mrs. Submit...Who by the way was embarrassing him every week in class (surely not submitting!)
But knowing what I know I put 2 and 2 together and was like oooohhhh!
But it gets better! The Pastor of my old church is a beast....Apparently, Mr. Bathwater did this 2 more times, and even since they had the baby, he done cheated again....baby 1 yrs old now. Well I found out the reason they all of a sudden picked up and moved south 2 months ago is because my Pastor puts all of his leaders on front street when they mess up...So when homey cheated a 3rd time, he was about to call the two cheaters (Mr. Bathwater and Ms AKA) out...Well, all of a sudden they (Mr Bathwater and his wife Mrs Submit) are down south before they got a chance to do it!!!!
When 2 other leaders of the church decided to get pregnant (again cause she miscarried the year before), he put them out on front street in in a church-wide meeting (he called it after guests left), and sat them down from their duties-He called both of them to the front and said he was sitting them down cause her (ow very obvious) pregnancy was due to her fornication with this(other) keyboard player (whats up with the keyboard players?)....So I mentioned all that to say:
First: they better hope ya'll pastor ain't like mine cause he don't play!
Second, I just can't understand why church folk gots to be the WORST!
Why don't you just not pretend like you so Holy and better, then we can stop looking at you like you crazy! Cause a minister, the minister's wife messing with the OTHER minister and whatever is plain out NAS-TAY!
So I mentioned all that to say
First: they better hope ya'll pastor ain't like mine cause he don't play!
Second, I just can't understand why church folk gots to be the WORST!
Why don't you just not pretend like you so Holy and better, then we can stop looking at you like you crazy! Cause a minister, the minister's wife messing with the OTHER minister and whatever is plain out NAS-TAY!
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Bumble I should have got some popcorn before reading this post! LOL
Fortunately, we all don't attend the same church, so I am not sure how their Pastor handles "issues" but as I stated in a previous post, I know they do confessions and testomonies alot at their church so ain't no telling WHAT might come out.
Her DH is the associate minister, lover man is just a church member (but very active) so yes, it should be pretty interesting...Fo'real I feel sorry for her DH because he has given this girl the world (and not just material things) but the good ones always finish last...heck, I must admit when I was single I envied her having a man like that-not that I wanted HIM but I loved what he stood for and how he handled himself. Granted, he is a man of God, but he is still a MAN and he ain't always been right...but when he decided to get right with God he cleaned up his act and did the right thing...he tries so hard to make her life easier, so I know all of those things are going thru her head and he probably wants to "bust her head to the white meat"! LOL (sorry ladies, someone sent me Bernie Mac's memorial program so I had to give one up for the MAC man!!)
Bumble the names you chose are too funny Mr. Bathwater and Mrs Submit -- too funny. LOL!!!
They are truly destined for heart ache. Unbelievable.
Your ex-pastor needs to come to my church and help my pastor. There are a few character's in my church that need some exposing too. (Don't know if I agree with the public humiliation, but they definitely need to be counseled! - LOL!!!)
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="cmt"]Oh no no no!!!!
I know she is not ashamed for people to find out now. Ooohhhh!!! she's beating a different drum now huh?
She dont want him knowing her biz!! WHATEVER HEFFA!!!! You put yo self out there like that. LOL
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I know thats right cmt she should have been thinking about that when she was riddin high hoe silver it was good to girlfriend then and whatever happens will be good for her trifflin azz now and if the biz hits the fan sun may the lord be with girlfriend.
[quote="PEBBLES35"]I know thats right cmt she should have been thinking about that when she was riddin high hoe silver it was good to girlfriend then and whatever happens will be good for her trifflin azz now and if the biz hits the fan sun may the lord be with girlfriend.
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Too funny - I agree 100%
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Girl, I still say, steer clear of that train wreck. What did she think was going to happen? That he would just take her indiscretions that weren't so discreet and not react? What planet is she living on? I find her very selfish and I don't feel sorry for her one bit. She brought this on herself. While plotting to deceave her husband, she could've used that time to reaffirm her relation with him. She is only reaping what she's sown.
Well Ginoue she is defintely a mess and I am guessing she lives in Texas but I must agree she must have been raised in A Galaxy Far Away to think her husband would be just fine with the disrespect and total lack of loyalty that she has shown to her marriage.
[quote="Mrs080908"]Well Ginoue she is defintely a mess and I am guessing she lives in Texas but I must agree she must have been raised in A Galaxy Far Away to think her husband would be just fine with the disrespect and total lack of loyalty that she has shown to her marriage.
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yeah u can join all us sent to the corner in the corner and bring the red kool-aid sugar
"I'll take the bread-winner (the man who would take me from the poor to privilaged; The one who pays the car note, house note, vacations, utilities, all my living expenses) for $100, Jack". "I can pretend he blows my back out".
soon2bmsj you are way better than me. I would have sent her flowers with a "I told you so", card (okay maybe not; but it would have crossed my mind).
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
[quote="Tewright1"]"I'll take the bread-winner (the man who would take me from the poor to privilaged; The one who pays the car note, house note, vacations, utilities, all my living expenses) for $100, Jack". "I can pretend he blows my back out".
soon2bmsj you are way better than me. I would have sent her flowers with a "I told you so", card (okay maybe not; but it would have crossed my mind).
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But you know what Tewright you brought up a great point. If this man is taking care of you, and showing you true love, why not take him? People don't know but God can take care of every aspect of your marriage in whatever area is weak. Including sex. As a matter of fact, it was Mrs Submit who told me that one day! And I beleive it. Even though they have their issues, she is right today about that just like she was when she told me that 2 years ago! God wants your marriage to work, and if you need help with the ahem..."physical communication" part of it too, God can fix it. He created Sex, so why can't he bless it in marriage?
We are always praying for our finances, and communication in marriage, but why not sex? Best believe if I ever felt like my DH was slipping I'll be right down there praying to get it working again.....BUT as a sistah, I always like to be proactive, so I will make sure I am working it out on my end too. Me and God have an understanding like that! And shoot my DH ain't always in the mood, so as his wife I am always willing to get him there....Cause thats MY DH, and he will never ever ever say, "my wife doesn't do that!" LOL
And it hasn't failed yet! Even if he was mad at me:)
We are always praying for our finances, and communication in marriage, but why not sex? Best believe if I ever felt like my DH was slipping I'll be right down there praying to get it working again.....BUT as a sistah, I always like to be proactive, so I will make sure I am working it out on my end too. Me and God have an understanding like that! And shoot my DH ain't always in the mood, so as his wife I am always willing to get him there....Cause thats MY DH, and he will never ever ever say, "my wife doesn't do that!" LOL
And it hasn't failed yet! Even if he was mad at me:)
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Bumble are you in the corner or did you sneak out?!?!? LOL
you are right though!! but yall she got a GOOD man!!!!!!!! read my next post!!!!
ok! Sat. she said he got up EARLY and left the house and didn't come home until about 2 a.m. Sun morn; she said he got up Sun. for church and said 'get up-WE are going to church today' so off they went; when they got to church during altar call he came out of the pulpit, took her by the hand and took her to the altar to pray--she said he prayed and cried, he was crying so hard the Pastor came and took them by the hand and prayed for them. when they got home she said he went straight to bed, no words etc..
He got up later and told her 'we need to talk'-and of course he said he is struggling with the situation but the Bible says he is to remain married to her until death takes one of them, even though he is warranted at this point to leave the marriage due to her being an adultress according to the word, but he is not leaving her, if she wants to go she can--but it is her choice...
I told her this should be a lesson learned---because any other man would be OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! she said loverman and wifey didn't show up Sunday because DH said IF they had he was going to take them up to the altar and pray with them too!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yall TELL ME she ain't got a good man!!!!!!!!!! never under estimate the power of GOD!!!!!!! this man loves HIM soooooooo much he was going to take his wife's lover and go pray with him?!?!!? I told her she need to bottle him and keep him forever!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow, I hope she spends the rest of her life on her knees, for God has sent her an angel. With any other man, she most certainly would be assed out. And what did sister girl said? Was she willing to change her ways now?
Of course! do you think she is willing to give up her sugar for sh**??? BUT, I just wonder what will happen WHEN loverman does decide to contact her-remember they work together and see each other everyday...
I think she does realize how big of a mistake she has made, but unless he really puts her whole 100% into rebuilding this marriage and steer clear, she'll fall again...only because in the words of our dear sister Bumble-she is thinking with her "p" instead of her head... :( Loverman did something to her---so I really think she is hooked!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had a feeling he wasn't leaving just by his actions prior to Sunday. But she WILL BE messing up again ..and I can't say the same for the next go round. It still aint over. Nope not yet by far.
I really hope she learned her lesson. She need to stay on bended knees thanking God. I wonder does Loverman's Wife know. He is really trying to keep her out of Hubbys presence huh?
He probably think the whole church knows by now, thats probably why he was a no show
[quote="Ginoue"]Wow, I hope she spends the rest of her life on her knees, for God has sent her an angel. With any other man, she most certainly would be assed out. And what did sister girl said? Was she willing to change her ways now?
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Well said Ginoue! She should be spending the rest of her life on her knees. God has been exceptionally good to her. She has a great man, unfortunately sisters like her don't appreciated them. I only pray that she works on her relationship with God first and then her husband.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I am anxious to see how it all plays out also..and how her and loverman will react to one another at work today...she told me that she does not want to lose her family-so maybe she has seen the error of her ways--but I still think that she feels she has some "unfinished biz" with loverman... :(
Rhony, you are so right. There are good single women who would love to have a good man like him. Some women just dont know what they have until its gone, or in this case, until its almost gone. I just hope she realizes it and do what she need to do to build his trust back again. Its gonna be hard but with GOD it can happen.
Too funny, Future. Back to the corner warehouse you go. I'm gonna stop by too, since you guys are frying fish -- LOL!!! I'll be sure to bring some Kool Aid too!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
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Ginuoe and Rhony, I had a totally different thought as to why she should be on her knees! LOL! But prayer is good too! :)
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ROTFLMAO!!! Thinking you should buy her some knee pads for an early xmas present.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
(Sneaking quietly on my tip toes BACK to the corner, licking my lips cause I been eating BBQ all weekend outside the corner)....(And giggling cause I know I been cuttin' up)....
But girl she better get it right cause you know what they say, if you don't get it right, God will send him someone who will and your homegirl gonna be looking around with what we down south call the "po' mouth".....
Soon yyour friend should be so lucky that he is willing to stay in the marriage and because she messed up she should be kissing major azz
ans get her mind right and leave mr right now to his wife and beg for forgiveness from god and her mr right and if she cant get her mind off of mr right now she needs to let her dh go, Im afraid that if her sexcapades continue with mr right now dh may very well lose it and kill up them both,if the sex was her only problem she needs to talk to dh about why she did what she did and ways of how they can both rectify the situation.
I'm not convinced by old girl. I think she will pawn her Million Dollar husband to get a value meal at McDonalds. All Tricks are Trash; they just look like a treat!
Oh and soon2bmsj I do have some ack rite in me; I just don't know how to use it. You see I picked it up used on ebay, 'bout a month ago and it didn't come with instructions. Can anybody help a sister out? LOL
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
Well I talked to my pitiful friend last night..she said her and loverman talked yesterday at work and he told her he told his wife everything (I don't believe that for nothing!) he said he don't want any further problems, so they need ot chill...
Now she is pissed because she really doesn't think he told his wife and SHE wants to be the one to tell her! her response is "If I have to go thru hell with my husband, then he should have to go thru hell too" I told her to let it go and focus all of that energy back into her marriage but I really don't know if she will.
And THEN me & DH got into the biggest argument because he "overheard" part of our conversation (I told yall he is nosey) and put 2 & 2 together-so he goes off saying I'm wrong for entertaining that bull with her, you need to check your friend because she is foul, she is married and you need to let her handle her mess alone etc, etc...of course I'm trying to tell him my side and he ain't trying to hear it, so needless to say a sister is sleeeeeeppppy today because when his alarm went off at 2 a.m. (he has to be to work at 4)I had to get my say in LOL
Oh so she big and bad enough to tell the next man wife that she f*cked her husband but to ashamed for her friends husband to know. PLEASE. Instead of counting her blessings and moving forward, she wants to stay stuck on stupid. I hope she does tell his wife so she can haul off and slap the shit out of her. Maybe she will wake up then.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
OMG!!! are you serious?
Oh!! sistah not going to church then. Shoot she may never go back if that happens. That is totally embarrassing.
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[quote="Turiya"]CMT ...I was thinkin the same thing AND if wifey was to tell her about her husband ...he MAY have been ok telling her bs and getting off ...BUT if Mr. Minister comes through with the business ...it's done.
Think of the logic:
If a chick comes to you and tell you she's been sleeping with your man ...alright it could be a couple reasons why she's saying this with the #1 reason possibly being because it's true.
BUT if a dude comes to you and tell you, he found out through a text and a conversation WITH YOUR man that your husband has been sleeping with his wife ...well umm that's sticking and you're probably running with that little bit of info and going off!
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Thats soooo True!
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He aint going to lose it ...NOW he may leave it in the car when he takes his visit ..but when he gets back in the car he'll be straight again! LOL
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Oh me, Oh my...That would be something serious in that church!
[quote="cmt"]OMG!!! are you serious?
Oh!! sistah not going to church then. Shoot she may never go back if that happens. That is totally embarrassing.
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Hmmm...I didn't think about that! well even if she does not go, her azz still should be embarassed! she called me about 10 min. ago, but I didn't answer (I know-I'm a bad friend) but shoot, it is too early in the a.m. to be dealing with her drama!!!!!!!!
TOTALLY off the subject but I see you have 7 days left!!!! excited yet?!?!?!?
yes im still excited depite the news of my videographer not being there.
Girlfriend is ready to cry on your shoulder now...OOPS!!! to late for that. she shoulda thought about that when she was gettin her freak on with brotha man
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well I talked to her at lunch time and she is a hot MESS!!! now she's like "what I'm gone do" (her words exactly)I can't pay these bills by myself...and she is telling the truth! she works, but let's just say he's definetly the bread winner; when they met, she did not have a car, a job and was living on public assistance (which nothing is wrong with that so please don't crucify me for the following comments I am going ot make) but he pretty much made her what she is today, but like the saying goes, you can take the girl out of the ghetto, but not take the ghetto out of the girl...
I asked her if she has talked to loverman and she said no but I know she has probably been trying to call him...her madness NEVER stops-her next question was: does Stephen know what's going on??? I'm like huh?!?!? where did THAT come from and she said, I know that's your husband and all, and you know that's my boy BUT I really don't want him knowing my biz---I had to let her know in a very nice way that me & DH have other things to talk about besides her & her drama and I politely told her I had to go...
My d*&* head hurts now from all her madness....but I am not going to let her stress me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh no no no!!!!
I know she is not ashamed for people to find out now. Ooohhhh!!! she's beating a different drum now huh?
She dont want him knowing her biz!! WHATEVER HEFFA!!!! You put yo self out there like that. LOL
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LOL cmt-and to tell you the truth DH has ALWAYS been skeptical of her...he really likes her husband from the times he has been around him-her husband even sought out DH and prayed with him before we got married--but DH always says there is something about her he can't put his finger on so even IF he knew her "biz" it would not suprise him one bit!
Just dropped in to say I'm STILL LMAO!
That is all!
This is a SAD mess.
But you be here promptly after church to let us know what happens....Of course she probably is not going to show up!
But when he divorces her...oohhweee, lets see what happens.
That reminds me of a recent happening at the church I used to attend that I got married at----There was a guy cheating on his wife....I mean you should have seen him at his wedding in Feb 2006, singing on his keyboard about making her bath water, etc, etc....She talking about she will submit yah yah yah. Me and my DH (then BF) were like whoa, but we were like we can respect the love....Chile come to find out, he had cheated on her with another one of the lead choir girls (We'll call her Ms AKA) at the church-cause both the girls can sing...So when Mrs Submit found out.....she gave him an ultimatum, which he chose to marry her (and all this time I was wondering why her dad had not come to the wedding!).
THEN I just found Mr. Bath Water cheated on Mrs. Submit again with the same girl who is now engaged to his so-called homeboy, then Mr. Bathwater had the nerve to call Ms AKA's fiance, and say he was about the divorce his wife (Mrs Submit) of a few weeks, and marry HIS future wife (who is Ms AKA!).....And it was funny because in late 06, by the time I was engaged, they were in the Married and Engaged Couples Class at church giving testimony about a "situation" 3 weeks into the marriage that almost caused them to divorce...So of course, me and DH is "WTF?" Not Mr. Bath Water and Mrs. Submit...Who by the way was embarrassing him every week in class (surely not submitting!)
But knowing what I know I put 2 and 2 together and was like oooohhhh!
But it gets better! The Pastor of my old church is a beast....Apparently, Mr. Bathwater did this 2 more times, and even since they had the baby, he done cheated again....baby 1 yrs old now. Well I found out the reason they all of a sudden picked up and moved south 2 months ago is because my Pastor puts all of his leaders on front street when they mess up...So when homey cheated a 3rd time, he was about to call the two cheaters (Mr. Bathwater and Ms AKA) out...Well, all of a sudden they (Mr Bathwater and his wife Mrs Submit) are down south before they got a chance to do it!!!!
When 2 other leaders of the church decided to get pregnant (again cause she miscarried the year before), he put them out on front street in in a church-wide meeting (he called it after guests left), and sat them down from their duties-He called both of them to the front and said he was sitting them down cause her (ow very obvious) pregnancy was due to her fornication with this(other) keyboard player (whats up with the keyboard players?)....So I mentioned all that to say:
First: they better hope ya'll pastor ain't like mine cause he don't play!
Second, I just can't understand why church folk gots to be the WORST!
Why don't you just not pretend like you so Holy and better, then we can stop looking at you like you crazy! Cause a minister, the minister's wife messing with the OTHER minister and whatever is plain out NAS-TAY!
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So I mentioned all that to say
First: they better hope ya'll pastor ain't like mine cause he don't play!
Second, I just can't understand why church folk gots to be the WORST!
Why don't you just not pretend like you so Holy and better, then we can stop looking at you like you crazy! Cause a minister, the minister's wife messing with the OTHER minister and whatever is plain out NAS-TAY!
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Bumble I should have got some popcorn before reading this post! LOL
Fortunately, we all don't attend the same church, so I am not sure how their Pastor handles "issues" but as I stated in a previous post, I know they do confessions and testomonies alot at their church so ain't no telling WHAT might come out.
Her DH is the associate minister, lover man is just a church member (but very active) so yes, it should be pretty interesting...Fo'real I feel sorry for her DH because he has given this girl the world (and not just material things) but the good ones always finish last...heck, I must admit when I was single I envied her having a man like that-not that I wanted HIM but I loved what he stood for and how he handled himself. Granted, he is a man of God, but he is still a MAN and he ain't always been right...but when he decided to get right with God he cleaned up his act and did the right thing...he tries so hard to make her life easier, so I know all of those things are going thru her head and he probably wants to "bust her head to the white meat"! LOL (sorry ladies, someone sent me Bernie Mac's memorial program so I had to give one up for the MAC man!!)
Why cant the cheating wife be the entertainment on here instead of me and my escapades. Just kidding. LOL.
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Bumble the names you chose are too funny Mr. Bathwater and Mrs Submit -- too funny. LOL!!!
They are truly destined for heart ache. Unbelievable.
Your ex-pastor needs to come to my church and help my pastor. There are a few character's in my church that need some exposing too. (Don't know if I agree with the public humiliation, but they definitely need to be counseled! - LOL!!!)
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Bumble that is to funny.LMAO
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[quote="cmt"]Oh no no no!!!!
I know she is not ashamed for people to find out now. Ooohhhh!!! she's beating a different drum now huh?
She dont want him knowing her biz!! WHATEVER HEFFA!!!! You put yo self out there like that. LOL
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I know thats right cmt she should have been thinking about that when she was riddin high hoe silver it was good to girlfriend then and whatever happens will be good for her trifflin azz now and if the biz hits the fan sun may the lord be with girlfriend.
[quote="PEBBLES35"]I know thats right cmt she should have been thinking about that when she was riddin high hoe silver it was good to girlfriend then and whatever happens will be good for her trifflin azz now and if the biz hits the fan sun may the lord be with girlfriend.
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Too funny - I agree 100%
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
So now it gets more interesting!!!
Girl, I still say, steer clear of that train wreck. What did she think was going to happen? That he would just take her indiscretions that weren't so discreet and not react? What planet is she living on? I find her very selfish and I don't feel sorry for her one bit. She brought this on herself. While plotting to deceave her husband, she could've used that time to reaffirm her relation with him. She is only reaping what she's sown.
Well Ginoue she is defintely a mess and I am guessing she lives in Texas but I must agree she must have been raised in A Galaxy Far Away to think her husband would be just fine with the disrespect and total lack of loyalty that she has shown to her marriage.
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[quote="Mrs080908"]Well Ginoue she is defintely a mess and I am guessing she lives in Texas but I must agree she must have been raised in A Galaxy Far Away to think her husband would be just fine with the disrespect and total lack of loyalty that she has shown to her marriage.
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yeah u can join all us sent to the corner in the corner and bring the red kool-aid sugar
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"I'll take the bread-winner (the man who would take me from the poor to privilaged; The one who pays the car note, house note, vacations, utilities, all my living expenses) for $100, Jack". "I can pretend he blows my back out".
soon2bmsj you are way better than me. I would have sent her flowers with a "I told you so", card (okay maybe not; but it would have crossed my mind).
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
ok tewright you can join the rest of us in the corner and bring red kool-aid
[quote="Tewright1"]"I'll take the bread-winner (the man who would take me from the poor to privilaged; The one who pays the car note, house note, vacations, utilities, all my living expenses) for $100, Jack". "I can pretend he blows my back out".
soon2bmsj you are way better than me. I would have sent her flowers with a "I told you so", card (okay maybe not; but it would have crossed my mind).
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But you know what Tewright you brought up a great point. If this man is taking care of you, and showing you true love, why not take him? People don't know but God can take care of every aspect of your marriage in whatever area is weak. Including sex. As a matter of fact, it was Mrs Submit who told me that one day! And I beleive it. Even though they have their issues, she is right today about that just like she was when she told me that 2 years ago! God wants your marriage to work, and if you need help with the ahem..."physical communication" part of it too, God can fix it. He created Sex, so why can't he bless it in marriage?
We are always praying for our finances, and communication in marriage, but why not sex? Best believe if I ever felt like my DH was slipping I'll be right down there praying to get it working again.....BUT as a sistah, I always like to be proactive, so I will make sure I am working it out on my end too. Me and God have an understanding like that! And shoot my DH ain't always in the mood, so as his wife I am always willing to get him there....Cause thats MY DH, and he will never ever ever say, "my wife doesn't do that!" LOL
And it hasn't failed yet! Even if he was mad at me:)
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We are always praying for our finances, and communication in marriage, but why not sex? Best believe if I ever felt like my DH was slipping I'll be right down there praying to get it working again.....BUT as a sistah, I always like to be proactive, so I will make sure I am working it out on my end too. Me and God have an understanding like that! And shoot my DH ain't always in the mood, so as his wife I am always willing to get him there....Cause thats MY DH, and he will never ever ever say, "my wife doesn't do that!" LOL
And it hasn't failed yet! Even if he was mad at me:)
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Bumble are you in the corner or did you sneak out?!?!? LOL
you are right though!! but yall she got a GOOD man!!!!!!!! read my next post!!!!
ok! Sat. she said he got up EARLY and left the house and didn't come home until about 2 a.m. Sun morn; she said he got up Sun. for church and said 'get up-WE are going to church today' so off they went; when they got to church during altar call he came out of the pulpit, took her by the hand and took her to the altar to pray--she said he prayed and cried, he was crying so hard the Pastor came and took them by the hand and prayed for them. when they got home she said he went straight to bed, no words etc..
He got up later and told her 'we need to talk'-and of course he said he is struggling with the situation but the Bible says he is to remain married to her until death takes one of them, even though he is warranted at this point to leave the marriage due to her being an adultress according to the word, but he is not leaving her, if she wants to go she can--but it is her choice...
I told her this should be a lesson learned---because any other man would be OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! she said loverman and wifey didn't show up Sunday because DH said IF they had he was going to take them up to the altar and pray with them too!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yall TELL ME she ain't got a good man!!!!!!!!!! never under estimate the power of GOD!!!!!!! this man loves HIM soooooooo much he was going to take his wife's lover and go pray with him?!?!!? I told her she need to bottle him and keep him forever!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow, I hope she spends the rest of her life on her knees, for God has sent her an angel. With any other man, she most certainly would be assed out. And what did sister girl said? Was she willing to change her ways now?
Of course! do you think she is willing to give up her sugar for sh**??? BUT, I just wonder what will happen WHEN loverman does decide to contact her-remember they work together and see each other everyday...
I think she does realize how big of a mistake she has made, but unless he really puts her whole 100% into rebuilding this marriage and steer clear, she'll fall again...only because in the words of our dear sister Bumble-she is thinking with her "p" instead of her head... :( Loverman did something to her---so I really think she is hooked!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had a feeling he wasn't leaving just by his actions prior to Sunday. But she WILL BE messing up again ..and I can't say the same for the next go round. It still aint over. Nope not yet by far.
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I really hope she learned her lesson. She need to stay on bended knees thanking God. I wonder does Loverman's Wife know. He is really trying to keep her out of Hubbys presence huh?
He probably think the whole church knows by now, thats probably why he was a no show
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[quote="Ginoue"]Wow, I hope she spends the rest of her life on her knees, for God has sent her an angel. With any other man, she most certainly would be assed out. And what did sister girl said? Was she willing to change her ways now?
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Well said Ginoue! She should be spending the rest of her life on her knees. God has been exceptionally good to her. She has a great man, unfortunately sisters like her don't appreciated them. I only pray that she works on her relationship with God first and then her husband.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I am anxious to see how it all plays out also..and how her and loverman will react to one another at work today...she told me that she does not want to lose her family-so maybe she has seen the error of her ways--but I still think that she feels she has some "unfinished biz" with loverman... :(
Rhony, you are so right. There are good single women who would love to have a good man like him. Some women just dont know what they have until its gone, or in this case, until its almost gone. I just hope she realizes it and do what she need to do to build his trust back again. Its gonna be hard but with GOD it can happen.
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WOWWWWWWWW....my head hurts.....talk about some D-R-A-M-A.....
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]She should be spending the rest of her life on her knees. [/quote]
Ginuoe and Rhony, I had a totally different thought as to why she should be on her knees! LOL! But prayer is good too! :)
Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight!!!! LOL
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Too funny, Future. Back to the corner warehouse you go. I'm gonna stop by too, since you guys are frying fish -- LOL!!! I'll be sure to bring some Kool Aid too!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
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Ginuoe and Rhony, I had a totally different thought as to why she should be on her knees! LOL! But prayer is good too! :)
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ROTFLMAO!!! Thinking you should buy her some knee pads for an early xmas present.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
Wow is she lucky he took her back, but like T said it aint over. Lol not by a long shot.
Dear Rosie,
Please disable the following screen names until they can get some ack right in 'em: Future, Turiya, Tewright1, Bumble & PamCrow.
Thank you,
p.s. Rhony is an alternate too! LMAO
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Ginuoe and Rhony, I had a totally different thought as to why she should be on her knees! LOL! But prayer is good too! :)
ROTFLMAO!!! Thinking you should buy her some knee pads for an early xmas present.
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OMG!!!!TOOOO FUNNY. Its gonna be noone aroung to talk to if you girls keep getting put in the corner. LOL
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too funny...
(Sneaking quietly on my tip toes BACK to the corner, licking my lips cause I been eating BBQ all weekend outside the corner)....(And giggling cause I know I been cuttin' up)....
But girl she better get it right cause you know what they say, if you don't get it right, God will send him someone who will and your homegirl gonna be looking around with what we down south call the "po' mouth".....
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Future, you're a hot mess!!! LMAO
Soon yyour friend should be so lucky that he is willing to stay in the marriage and because she messed up she should be kissing major azz
ans get her mind right and leave mr right now to his wife and beg for forgiveness from god and her mr right and if she cant get her mind off of mr right now she needs to let her dh go, Im afraid that if her sexcapades continue with mr right now dh may very well lose it and kill up them both,if the sex was her only problem she needs to talk to dh about why she did what she did and ways of how they can both rectify the situation.
I'm not convinced by old girl. I think she will pawn her Million Dollar husband to get a value meal at McDonalds. All Tricks are Trash; they just look like a treat!
Oh and soon2bmsj I do have some ack rite in me; I just don't know how to use it. You see I picked it up used on ebay, 'bout a month ago and it didn't come with instructions. Can anybody help a sister out? LOL
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
Good morning ladies!
Well I talked to my pitiful friend last night..she said her and loverman talked yesterday at work and he told her he told his wife everything (I don't believe that for nothing!) he said he don't want any further problems, so they need ot chill...
Now she is pissed because she really doesn't think he told his wife and SHE wants to be the one to tell her! her response is "If I have to go thru hell with my husband, then he should have to go thru hell too" I told her to let it go and focus all of that energy back into her marriage but I really don't know if she will.
And THEN me & DH got into the biggest argument because he "overheard" part of our conversation (I told yall he is nosey) and put 2 & 2 together-so he goes off saying I'm wrong for entertaining that bull with her, you need to check your friend because she is foul, she is married and you need to let her handle her mess alone etc, etc...of course I'm trying to tell him my side and he ain't trying to hear it, so needless to say a sister is sleeeeeeppppy today because when his alarm went off at 2 a.m. (he has to be to work at 4)I had to get my say in LOL
Oh so she big and bad enough to tell the next man wife that she f*cked her husband but to ashamed for her friends husband to know. PLEASE. Instead of counting her blessings and moving forward, she wants to stay stuck on stupid. I hope she does tell his wife so she can haul off and slap the shit out of her. Maybe she will wake up then.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
sorry to be vulgar but I'm pissed.
"I'm a work in progress, God is not through me yet"
As for your friend: whatever man!
For you though Soon, don't let these problems affect your marriage. Stay out of it as much as possible and keep peace in your household.
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