Hello All... I am 3 months away from my wedding day in May...and I am in a state of panic! At first the planning was great I had all the details to the wedding I wanted and needed! Now some of the things I had planned for have shifted to accomodate many people. First I moved to Dallas, TX to be with my fiance. Because he was awarded his grandmother's estate after she passed. And we very well couldn't be in KY, while he had business back home. So to stay close to my man I dropped everything and picked up and moved to TX! I was going to move here this year anyway after our May wedding. But this took me off course, because our wedding is still going to be in KY It's very hard to keep everything going from TX. I am stuck with my school work and graduation plans, my wedding plans, and trying to update a complete house from the 50's...ugggh! My attendants clearly know what is going on and what they need to achieve befoe my wedding day, but I get tons of emails and phone calls each week over the same things... which is very frustrating. Plus, my fiancee doesn't seem to think he needs to help, he just needs to worry about the rings and his tux! I haven't came up with a menu yet for the reception. My parents are telling me to just serve snacks, but I want people to sit down and conversate. My fiance's family most likely will not be able to attend because of the distance. So, they are talking about a Dallas reception as well..more money!!!! Help with any suggestions or solution!