Hi Ladies, I don't get a chance to get on like I used to but I've noticed we need more new topics so here's one! As you all know, FH and I began abstaining in October before we got engaged in December. We had a few(3 to be exact) "slip-ups" but continue to strive toward remaining celibate until our wedding night. We have been in our new home since March 3rd and it is great being able to be with each other everyday and it hasn't really gotten that hard because we occupy the same bed every night. However, I must admit that after 3 months in the house, we had what I refer to as a slip-up. I told my cousin(MOH) about it and she told it was crazy for us to be abstaining and we are already together. I know that we made a vow to wait but we both wanted too. She said you're shacking so what's the point of abstaining, no sin is greater than the other. She really made me feel bad. However, we both love and want to honor God. My question is, is there anyone else in this predicament or that have any thoughts about my situation?