Every Bride has mixed feelings. I am sure they began the minute you said "Yes!" Take a deep breath and tackle it one step at a time. Also it doesn't hurt to remember you will soon be called MRS. in a few short months. LOL
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! Girl I know what you mean. I had to hold off on my wedding cermony 'til next year now 'cause my fiance got into a car accident. He's OK but the car ain't so we had to take of that up front. You see it wasn't he's fault he got hit, he didn't hit someone. Just when you think one thing God Shows you something else!! Just pray and let God have HIS way.
You should be happy. It will come. Don't stress yourself about every little detail at this time, but I know that is so hard to do.
There are so many tools and wedding outlines that can keep you focused as to what you should be thinking about month to month.
If you have a bunch of ideas in your head at this point, just get a notebook and title some pages as reception, guest list, favors...you see where I am going...
Jot down ideas, comments, etc and when the time comes to focus on those sections, you will have already gotten a start on things.
For some reason, the notebook, binder or whatever works for you will help you not get so overwhelmed and stressed.
Like we all have come to realize, you cannot do everything by yourself, so make sure you get your fiance, family and friends involved so that you have some support.
Also, just make sure to check around on this website for some planning tips because they can be very helpful!
it's crazy. I started losing my hair because of the stress. I thought since his family members wanted to help that would be a good thing. come to find out that was the wrong thing for me to do. They are driving me insane. So, I have come to the realization that i will do it my way and just as long as my fiance and I are in one accord then they can kiss my you know what. Not to sound ungrateful but damn they are getting on my nerves. I have learned in the year of planning this event "the wedding" that my family does things differently than his family. I have to learn to accept that because I am not only marrying him I am marrying his family. :) A good scream relieves some stress here and there. ;)
I agree that you will have to pick and choose your help, otherwise other people will try to make their ideas your ideas.
We ALL have those people that can be a pain!!
They think they are helping, but they are actually driving you insane.
Just grin and bear it!! Then come to this site and vent...lol
I just felt like screaming............
Nikky29
rotflmba! Girl, do what ya gotta!
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I just got engaged and I am so overwhelmed I can't evn breathe shouldn't i be happy
Every Bride has mixed feelings. I am sure they began the minute you said "Yes!" Take a deep breath and tackle it one step at a time. Also it doesn't hurt to remember you will soon be called MRS. in a few short months. LOL
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! Girl I know what you mean. I had to hold off on my wedding cermony 'til next year now 'cause my fiance got into a car accident. He's OK but the car ain't so we had to take of that up front. You see it wasn't he's fault he got hit, he didn't hit someone. Just when you think one thing God Shows you something else!! Just pray and let God have HIS way.
Tyffany
You should be happy. It will come. Don't stress yourself about every little detail at this time, but I know that is so hard to do.
There are so many tools and wedding outlines that can keep you focused as to what you should be thinking about month to month.
If you have a bunch of ideas in your head at this point, just get a notebook and title some pages as reception, guest list, favors...you see where I am going...
Jot down ideas, comments, etc and when the time comes to focus on those sections, you will have already gotten a start on things.
For some reason, the notebook, binder or whatever works for you will help you not get so overwhelmed and stressed.
Like we all have come to realize, you cannot do everything by yourself, so make sure you get your fiance, family and friends involved so that you have some support.
Also, just make sure to check around on this website for some planning tips because they can be very helpful!
Good luck!!
Woo-sah!! LOL!!!!!
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it's crazy. I started losing my hair because of the stress. I thought since his family members wanted to help that would be a good thing. come to find out that was the wrong thing for me to do. They are driving me insane. So, I have come to the realization that i will do it my way and just as long as my fiance and I are in one accord then they can kiss my you know what. Not to sound ungrateful but damn they are getting on my nerves. I have learned in the year of planning this event "the wedding" that my family does things differently than his family. I have to learn to accept that because I am not only marrying him I am marrying his family. :) A good scream relieves some stress here and there. ;)
Nikky29
I agree that you will have to pick and choose your help, otherwise other people will try to make their ideas your ideas.
We ALL have those people that can be a pain!!
They think they are helping, but they are actually driving you insane.
Just grin and bear it!! Then come to this site and vent...lol
klb, that's exactly what I do.
Nikky29