Dear So & So - Part II

lmao. I hate that.

LOL @ People are talking about you.

lmao! i cant stand parents that let their kids run wild.

[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Dear Co-worker who has bought her children to work today,

Please control your children. Don't you know that it is not ok for them to run around the office like they are in the park. People are talking about you. Please teach your children some manners. Yes they are cute, but they also don't have any hometraining and it shows.
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That's embarrassing.

Dear people with many small kids:

Your kids are cute, but they are evil! Please try and control them better. I am not trying to be mean, but if your kids keep running marathons around the WIC clinic, and they fall and bust their little heads to the white meat, don't look crazy at me if I step over them or move out the way. I been told them not to run. They ignored me, they obviously ignore YOU, and don't try to discipline them in front of everyone cause they obviousle have never REALLY been disclplined before. I love kids. I really do. But we all know that kids who don't get out much cut up in front of folks. So please please try to get those kiddies out more often, crack the whip on their behinds, and they won't embarrass you when you take them to WIC or the doctor or the grocery store, or wherever else their is room for them to run around.

But I wish you would try to sue us, when you know you brought Bay's Bay's kids to my office! I'm sorry.

I know...it really is too bad. People never get it. And then when that little angel tells them where they can go, they get upset and wonder what went wrong!?!?!

One lady said to her son, you are going to go sit right here in this chair. And he was like: No...Just plain out NO! So of course she was embarrassed but she did snatch his little behind into that chair too.

Dear DH,

We've been married a little over a year and it's been rocky. You have the opportunity to make things right but you insist on putting your family BEFORE your wife. When I try talking to you about it, you just don't seem to understand why I'm so angry. Maybe I should blame myself because this was going on before we got married. You promised me that I would be first in your life but your actions show the opposite. I'm tired of trying to compete with everyone else for your attention. At this point, I feel that it's necessary for me to let you know that I'm considering a divorce. I often wonder if we would be better off as friends. That way, you can continue to be the man that your mother needs because it's apparent that you're not willing to be the man that I need.

It hurts to write this letter but I'm tired of my words falling on deaf ears. I love you and I want this marriage to work but I can't do it all by myself.

dear plat,
I am so sorry to hear that. I hope and pray things will get worked out for you two without having a divorce. Have you guys tried counseling for this situation?

Plat, I'm sorry to hear that things aren't working out for you and your hubby. I feel the same as Shy about the two of you seeking marital counseling. I pray that this is worked out. Other family should never get between a husband and wife. It's mentioned in the Bible 3 times!

Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Ephesians 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

Matthew 9:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

Oh Jen, I'm so sorry this is happening in your marriage. I will pray for the two of you. I hope the two of you can agree on counseling before considering parting ways.

Plat-I am praying for you and your situation...remove yourself and allow God to work this out for you! love ya!! :)

Plat, so sorry to hear of the TRIALS in you marriage. DON'T GIVE UP THOUGH !!!! Thats exactly what satan wants you to do. Like Shy mentioned, maybe seek counseling or talk to your Pastor or maybe even a STRONG married couple that will be biased in their opinions and advise to you guys. Sit him down again and have a serious heart to heart with him and let him know that you need this from him. BUT PLEASE dont give up on your Husband. And dont give his family the satisfaction on even thinking that they've gotten rid of you.
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER.
BE ENCOURAGED!!!

Oh Jen, as I read your post, tears kept falling down my face. I more than anyone understand the trials you're facing with a husband that places his family before you. I also agree with the other ladies. Don't give up on your marriage, though I know it's difficult and you're so hurt. Keep praying, be encouraged in the fact that there's nothing that God can't fix if you're willing to let him take control. Seek spiritual counseling, talk to him even more. Keep praying, it will get better.

Plat I'm keeping you and your husband in my prayers.

Dear Plat (Jen),

We love you. Thank you for sharing your situation with us. You know we are rooting for you and your husband's marriage to work. Anytime you need an ear you know you can call me anyways. Any time. Remember that God can do the impossible. Even get a husband to understand his wife. So I put forth the suggestion of some simple things to ask God: 1. That your husband understand your heart. In understanding your heart, he will begin to want to learn more about your feelings and respond accordingly, even if not perfectly. 2. Ask God to let you understand your husband's heart. His actions go deeper than you think. Ask god to reveal the root of his ways, and that your husband recieves a revelation. 3. Tell God that you are putting the task in his hands....I look at it like waiting for a check to come in the mail. You know its coming, so you CHILL out until it arrives....CAUSE you KNOW its coming anyways. Thats what waiting for God to move is like....Cause he moves on his own time. Finally, ask God to let his will come to pass...whatever that be.

Sincerely,
Your Loving Sisters

Well said Bumble.

Dear Mother's of Small Children,

I am not a miracle worker. If little Johnny does not want to sit and have his picture taken with a smile I can't control that. You knew before it was time to take his pictures that he did not have a nap and wasn't in the best of mood. Oh and just so you know spanking him cause he will not sit down is not going to help you get the smiling happy face you want for his x-mas pictures either. Please, try to be a little more prepared for next year.

Sincerely,

The photographer who can only capture the moment, not create a miracle!

Ieasha your're a trip.....

Okay okay...

Dear college undergrad(s):

I remember the looks on your faces when you saw me on the first day......But I told you at the beginning of the semester that there would be pop quizzes in my class, and that though attendance isn't mandatory (I don't have time to call 70 names), and you can sign the attendance roll as it comes around, its best for you to attend....But you thought I was playin'.

Now I love you, you all are so sweet, and I am sorry you developed shingles, broke your leg, got fell into depression cause you have to pay for your own classes, but you all KNEW you were trying to graduate this semester! You were the one who decided not to come to class cause you thought my little 2000 level Nutrition class was a breeze. I figured after you saw your first exam score (somewhere between 40-60) you would get on the ball.

So when final time came around, I hope you didn't take the look on my face to offense when I told you I wasn't giving any extra assignments so you could pull your grade up (impossible anyways to pull a deep F to a C!). And you knew in August that your grandparents would have a hard time sending you home and you needed a ride and need to take the final early, but why are you asking me at 12 Pm on Friday before the exam to take it on the same day? Poor planning on your part is not an emergency on my part.

I do feel for you because you got a job offer pending that you actually graduate, but I cannot boost your grade from a straight F to a C...Plus the Department Head put in the grades so any shenanigans on my part would have resulted in my job loss!....

Not only did I give more extra credit than I had anticipated, I gave each student 6 extra points on each exam! So I am so sorry that though you decided to walk the stage, you are stil getting a D in my class even with all that extra credit. Please take this as a lesson....Please don't cut class when you know you are graduating!

[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Too funny Ieasha & Bumble -- LOL!!!
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I added a picture to it so you can see what I am talking about! lol

Thank you all for your encouraging words. I'm just praying that God will give me direction and show me the way to go. I'm in a state of confusion right now.

Ieasha and Bumble, your letters are too funny!

Plat, i am sorry to hear about your situation. I hope it all will work out for you very soon.