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Ladies I know we all have dreams of our wedding day and everything is so perfect right? WRONG! I had a wierd dream about my wedding last night I am so horrified of it. Now I can barely remember what happened but I know it wasnt good because it woke me up from a deep sleep.I old FH about the dream because I woke him up tellin him what he better not do. The part of my dream that I remember is...It was the night before the wedding and all my ladies were at my house.We were all acting silly and doing each others hair.Well Somebody burnt out my hair completely!I started acting crazy and we was tryna find a wig store or something t hat could cover my nakked head. We finally found a beauty supply that wa open and I bought some tracks for my head. I got them glued on and everything was cool...Until the minister said you can kiss the bride and FH held the back of my head and the weave just slid off. I was so mad! I ran out screaming and rushed to my grandmothers house to hide (which is 2 blocks away). When I got the courage to come back I went to the reception and it was HORRIBLE! I didnt recognize the room at all.It looked like something out of a domonatrics film/porno tape. That was supposed to be FH's way of decorating the place.

I remember there were no flowers for me to hold..eveybody had bouquets but me.I had to toss my own rose petals becasue the Flowergirls didnt wanna wake up.My FH was dressed like Flava Flave with that big azz clock around his neck and a big grill......I just woke up mad......Fh said I was yelling at him and all he could do was agree at the time. He could tell I was getting paranoid and having a bad dream.

Have any of you ladies had wierd dreams of your weddings? Be honest.

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Ladies I know we all have dreams of our wedding day and everything is so perfect right? WRONG! I had a wierd dream about my wedding last night I am so horrified of it. Now I can barely remember what happened but I know it wasnt good because it woke me up from a deep sleep.I old FH about the dream because I woke him up tellin him what he better not do. The part of my dream that I remember is...It was the night before the wedding and all my ladies were at my house.We were all acting silly and doing each others hair.Well Somebody burnt out my hair completely!I started acting crazy and we was tryna find a wig store or something t hat could cover my nakked head. We finally found a beauty supply that wa open and I bought some tracks for my head. I got them glued on and everything was cool...Until the minister said you can kiss the bride and FH held the back of my head and the weave just slid off. I was so mad! I ran out screaming and rushed to my grandmothers house to hide (which is 2 blocks away). When I got the courage to come back I went to the reception and it was HORRIBLE! I didnt recognize the room at all.It looked like something out of a domonatrics film/porno tape. That was supposed to be FH's way of decorating the place.

I remember there were no flowers for me to hold..eveybody had bouquets but me.I had to toss my own rose petals becasue the Flowergirls didnt wanna wake up.My FH was dressed like Flava Flave with that big azz clock around his neck and a big grill......I just woke up mad......Fh said I was yelling at him and all he could do was agree at the time. He could tell I was getting paranoid and having a bad dream.

Have any of you ladies had wierd dreams of your weddings? Be honest.

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That was hilarious, Allies! To answer your question, yes I've had not so pleasant dreams about my wedding too! I heard it's normal.

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Yeah, that was funny! I've had several weird dreams about the wedding that have just about made me sit up in bed. In one, my dress was basically a satin slip. My best friend and MOH took one look at me and said "You're pregnant". Then, I got makeup all over the front of the dress. In another dream it was the day of the wedding and I was about to walk down the aisle then I asked "Where are the bridesmaids?" And someone told me, you forgot to ask anyone to be in the wedding. Then I was trying to find the photographer, and they said oh you forgot to hire a photographer. LOL!! It's normal. I think it's our minds still going over those small details even while we're asleep.

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I wouldn't worry too much Allies! I must say that your imagination works overtime in your sleep - LOL!! -- Flava Flav, girl I almost fell out my seet laughing! I only had one weird dream pertaining to my wedding. I dreamed that my pastor showed up two hours late for the wedding and refused to marry us! Girl I was crying when I woke up. Then I remembered that my pastor is not marrying us (I am getting married at another church and my pastor has given his blessings to my fiance and I). I realized that it was just a dream.

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I'm glad that I'm not the only one....I know it's funny but I was scarred. Imagine the man you're going to marry looking like Flava,You would be screamin at him too! I think I should stop all wedding planning at least and hour before bed becasue when I dont my mind goes into overdrive.

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Allies, I honestly think there is no way to avoid it! Even if I haven't done anything pertaining to the wedding all day some how I have a dream about some aspect of it or about something that I need to do for the wedding! Girl, one of my dreams was so bad that I tossed and turned woke up crying. I dreamt I got down the aisle to the alter and no one was there but my husband and the preacher. I asked where were my BM's & GM and they said that the coordinator forgot to let them come in. Then husband and I started fussing because when the soloist was singing he left me standing at the alter to go stand in front of her to fan her and he was saying"gone girl sing that song". I went and snatched him and told him he better not ever walk away from me again and we argued in front of everybody. Now that was a true nightmare. Worse, than Flava Flav! lol

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LOL! PB&J that was funny and yes it is worse than Flava Flav!

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ooooh yeah way worse than Flava Flav....

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LOL.. those dreams are really crazy...lol I have weird dreams all the time about the wedding but I can never seem to remeber the whole thing just bites and pieces...and talking about flava flave did you see it on sunday.. that was a mess

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Nope, I missed Flava this weekend.

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Girl it was crazy, why one of the girls moved her bowels on the floor. I couldnt believe it.

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I keep having the same reoccurring dream. It is not a bad dream> It is that when It time for me to walk in the hall is nothing like I have decorated the night before. It looks like a total different building. It look like something from Cinderella. I hope that don't mean the opposite (lol)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I AM WITH U LADIES. I HAD A DREAM THAT AFTER ALL THIS HARD WORK, NO ONE SHOWED UP!!! MY FH SAID TO ME BABY IT DOES NOT MATTER. AS LONG AS U AND I ARE THERE, THAT IS ALL HE CARES ABOUT. I WAS THINKING, IF THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS THAN WHY CLD WE NT GO TO THE ISLANDS LIKE I WANTED TO??? HE WAS THE 1 WHO WANTED THE BIG WEDDING SINCE HE DID NT HAVE ONE 1ST TIME AROUND. I DID NT SAY IT TO HIM BECAUSE WHAT HE SAID WAS SO SWEET. I HTOUGHT IT THOUGH. GOD KNOWS I DID. AND OHH YEAH, HOW DO YOU SH** ON SOMEONE'S FLOOR? AS MY 2 YR OLD SAYS EWWWWW.

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I gotta catch up on Flava Flav I didnt see homegirl poop on the floor..I must go watch that right after I get off here...By the way...I havent had any wierd dreams lately...sothats a good thing.

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I Tivo'd it last night and I'm watching it now! My Moh stayed over wih us Sunday night to help with invitations and she was lol because the girl pooped on the floor. How disgusting!

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I had another wedding dream last night. I dreamed that I had forgotten the bridal party's bouquets. None of the bridal party had on the dresses that I had chosen for them. During the processional, there were waiters carrying trays of food to the guests at the same time the bridal party was walking down the aisle. I had left the music for the ceremony at home and we had no music. I was screaming and yelling because it was mass confusion. OMG, it was a mess! What a nightmare!

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I'M CONVINCED IT JUST THE STRESS PLAYING WITH OUR MINDS. ALL OF OUR WEDDINGS WILL BE BEAUTIFUL!!!! AND ACTUALLY LET ME TELL YOU FROM PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE, WHAT IS NOT PERFECT THAT DAY WILL NOT MATTER. AND YOUR GUEST WILL NEVER KNOW IT WAS NOT HOW THINGS WERE SUPPOSED TO BE.

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Thanks TajMom!

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YOU ARE SO VERY WELCOME. TRUST ME IT WILL BE PERFECT

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Okay, I haven't responded to this topic yet because I have many, many, many dreams (bad ones) about the wedding. But, I have to tell y''all last nights. It was the day of the wedding and NO ONE had flowers (me included). It wasn't that the florists didn't deliver, it was I FORGOT TO ORDER THEM. It was horrible, then I woke up.

I know for a fact why my dreams are coming. I am such a procrastinator! I wait until the last minute to do EVERYTHING. That's why I started so early planning this wedding. I think my dreams are just telling me, don't slack off! I hope that my day is PREFECT.

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[quote="bklynfinest77"]Girl it was crazy, why one of the girls moved her bowels on the floor. I couldnt believe it.
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Eeeewwwww! Aauuugh! -- Just Nasty!

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[quote="SeptBride"]Okay, I haven't responded to this topic yet because I have many, many, many dreams (bad ones) about the wedding. But, I have to tell y''all last nights. It was the day of the wedding and NO ONE had flowers (me included). It wasn't that the florists didn't deliver, it was I FORGOT TO ORDER THEM. It was horrible, then I woke up.

I know for a fact why my dreams are coming. I am such a procrastinator! I wait until the last minute to do EVERYTHING. That's why I started so early planning this wedding. I think my dreams are just telling me, don't slack off! I hope that my day is PREFECT.
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Askalot, my dream was similar to yours. I don't know why I'm having these dreams as I am almost done with my planning, but it just feels so awful after waking up having a dream like that. I agree with TajMom, it is probably from the stress of planning a wedding.

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But, that's the thing, I'm not stressed. Yes, a majority of my day is spent thinking about the wedding or planning but I'm not stressed at all. Even in college, when I had term papers due, I would do it two days before they were due. I think it's just a sign for me to stay on track and don't stray! lol

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I'm not stressed either and I still be having crazy dreams about the wedding.I saw Flava Flave last night and IT WAS CRAZY! The girl really dd cop a squat on his floor..and stairs too...but she "manned" up to hers and admitted she did it.I dont know if I coulda done that on national t.v.

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[quote="bklynfinest77"]Girl it was crazy, why one of the girls moved her bowels on the floor. I couldnt believe it.
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What!!Are you serious?Was she nervous,sick,or drunk?Damn.EEWWWWWW!That's just nasty!Did she get kicked off of the show for that?

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[quote="platinumstyle"]Girl it was crazy, why one of the girls moved her bowels on the floor. I couldnt believe it.

What!!Are you serious?Was she nervous,sick,or drunk?Damn.EEWWWWWW!That's just nasty!Did she get kicked off of the show for that?
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None of the above.She said she just couldnt hold it anymore and she had to go.....and that she did!Right there on the floor and up the stairs too. She just NASTY!!!!!!!!!

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She wanted to be the centre of attention thats all,but what sort of attention-disgust.

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The stuff they put on TV these days, did you see the second one where she was acting all proud the she pooped on the floor that's a sick girl....lol

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So true Bklyn, just not so long ago, a husband and wife slept in separate beds on tv. Now you can see everything and going to the bathroom on the floor is just taking things too far!

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[quote="alvinslove"]Ladies I know we all have dreams of our wedding day and everything is so perfect right? WRONG! I had a wierd dream about my wedding last night I am so horrified of it. Now I can barely remember what happened but I know it wasnt good because it woke me up from a deep sleep.I old FH about the dream because I woke him up tellin him what he better not do. The part of my dream that I remember is...It was the night before the wedding and all my ladies were at my house.We were all acting silly and doing each others hair.Well Somebody burnt out my hair completely!I started acting crazy and we was tryna find a wig store or something t hat could cover my nakked head. We finally found a beauty supply that wa open and I bought some tracks for my head. I got them glued on and everything was cool...Until the minister said you can kiss the bride and FH held the back of my head and the weave just slid off. I was so mad! I ran out screaming and rushed to my grandmothers house to hide (which is 2 blocks away). When I got the courage to come back I went to the reception and it was HORRIBLE! I didnt recognize the room at all.It looked like something out of a domonatrics film/porno tape. That was supposed to be FH's way of decorating the place.

I remember there were no flowers for me to hold..eveybody had bouquets but me.I had to toss my own rose petals becasue the Flowergirls didnt wanna wake up.My FH was dressed like Flava Flave with that big azz clock around his neck and a big grill......I just woke up mad......Fh said I was yelling at him and all he could do was agree at the time. He could tell I was getting paranoid and having a bad dream.

Have any of you ladies had wierd dreams of your weddings? Be honest.
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One night I woke up in a panic about my dress...it was taking a long time to be shipped. I called and woke my FH up at 3 am and told him that we would go to the store first thing in the morning to nut up on the bridal store. He decided to pray with me because I was tripping out so bad. The bad dreams happen at least once before the wedding.

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Ladies, I had a dream last night that I was looking at another site location. Is this a sign to plan a indoor wedding as opposed to outdoors (wedding and reception will be held together)? I am so adamant about having my outdoor dream wedding. Does anyone know of someone that was rained out? HELP!!!