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EX'S COMING OUT THE WOODWORK LIKE TERMITE

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EX'S COMING OUT THE WOODWORK LIKE TERMITE

Ladies forgive me but I need to ask you something. Is it just me or is it that when you seem to find a good man with potiental, principles, morals and zeal for life...the ex come back like he has been hiding in the wood like a termite. It is so ironic...they treat you so bad and wish bad on you and when they realize that things are going very well they want to come back and try mess with ya mind...IS IT JUST ME THIS IS HAPPENING TO...

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EX'S COMING OUT THE WOODWORK LIKE TERMITE

Ladies forgive me but I need to ask you something. Is it just me or is it that when you seem to find a good man with potiental, principles, morals and zeal for life...the ex come back like he has been hiding in the wood like a termite. It is so ironic...they treat you so bad and wish bad on you and when they realize that things are going very well they want to come back and try mess with ya mind...IS IT JUST ME THIS IS HAPPENING TO...

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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I thought it was just me!

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They have radar, all of them. They can't stand the fact that you've moved on. With their egos they think you can't possibly be over them. They're all twits of titanic proportions.

Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!

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After putting up with my ex for three very long years I decided to call it quits. Well he didnt think that he was doing anything wrong and that I should have been like his ex-girlfriend and started stalking him like he was the best thing God put on this earth for women. While in the process on my breakup I met a wonderful man who I will be marrying next year. Now the ex feels that we could have made it work. I recently had a baby and you know while I was pregnant the nut was still asking me to come and see him. I dont understand just at what point do they realize that you were probably the best thing that happened to them. Is it when they realize that you are not a spinster and you are dateable, or is it when they realize that they are the ones who cant find anyone as good as you.

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Well, like they say, they don't know a good thing until it is gone. My ex tells me all the time that he messed up and wishes he was more mature back then to understand that he had a good thing. Now I find out that the mother of his son is taking him through the ringer and is treating him like trash. My ex never really did anything bad to me..we just grew apart. Hey, life happens!! I would never want to go back to that relationship, but it is a part of my life that has helped me grow. Like me sister always tells me, there will always be one ex that keeps trying to come back!!