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i think i have hit the wall

ok i am getting married in 7 weeks and am starting to not want to plan anything anymore. We started planning a little over a year ago. Sometimes i am just tired of the planning. At this point it would be great for someone to finish up the rest of the plans and just bring me choices like choose between A & B and I choose and then its done...lol in a perfect world that would be nice right now. I have a wedding coordinator but I have still been doing everything b/c i just have to be involved :-D I dont know if its nerves or if I am just really sick of planning. I am very excited still, I just dont think I can spend another minute looking at another book or being on another website (like right now-lol). Its like two extremes b/c as much as I am tired of planning, I cant help but to keep looking and seaching for stuff! Am I crazy?Tomorrow I may feel fine, today I just probably needed to vent. Anyone else experiencing/experienced similar feelings.

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i think i have hit the wall

ok i am getting married in 7 weeks and am starting to not want to plan anything anymore. We started planning a little over a year ago. Sometimes i am just tired of the planning. At this point it would be great for someone to finish up the rest of the plans and just bring me choices like choose between A & B and I choose and then its done...lol in a perfect world that would be nice right now. I have a wedding coordinator but I have still been doing everything b/c i just have to be involved :-D I dont know if its nerves or if I am just really sick of planning. I am very excited still, I just dont think I can spend another minute looking at another book or being on another website (like right now-lol). Its like two extremes b/c as much as I am tired of planning, I cant help but to keep looking and seaching for stuff! Am I crazy?Tomorrow I may feel fine, today I just probably needed to vent. Anyone else experiencing/experienced similar feelings.

My Prayer: Dear God, get me to that altar in one piece with my brain in tact!!!! Only 7 weeks and counting....

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Re: i think i have hit the wall

Girl!!! You took the words right out of my mouth. One minute, I do not want to talk about anything to do with the wedding. The next minute I find myself here at VIBRIDE.COM posting on these message boards. Then I am here all night looking at all kinds of things! I think it is nerves. I am edgy and irritated at the littlest things. But the next minute I could be crying or butterflies in my stomache. Stay strong and know you are not alone!

Married 5/27/2005...Glad it is all over!

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Lawd you two take me back! :0) I must admit it can get really tiresome. But, think of that one perfect day... It will only be for a few hours but these memories of planning it will last a lifetime. Your wedding is the biggest event you will plan in your lifetime probably and it can be hell. But god isn't it fun to pick out gladiolas AND Lilies at a florist and know no one can really argue with you???? LOL

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05Bride05, I completely understand! I am so glad that our planning is almost over! It can be very overwhelming at times.