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Yippee! I have such mixed feelings about being pregnant. I just turned 40 and discovered I was pregnant within a few days. That's a lot for any old broad! I mean I don't FEEL 40. But I can hardly stay awake this time around I am so beat. I had started http://www.vibabies.com/ for Islandbride when she became pregnant a few months after her honeymoon (wow). But I have been neglecting it. Now I am back focusing on it for my own selfish reasons! lol

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Yippee! I have such mixed feelings about being pregnant. I just turned 40 and discovered I was pregnant within a few days. That's a lot for any old broad! I mean I don't FEEL 40. But I can hardly stay awake this time around I am so beat. I had started http://www.vibabies.com/ for Islandbride when she became pregnant a few months after her honeymoon (wow). But I have been neglecting it. Now I am back focusing on it for my own selfish reasons! lol

Drop by and tell about your own baby raising experiences I'm lonely there.

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Congratulations Rosie!!! What wonderful news! I wish you Eloi and Ford all the best!

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Congratulations Rosie. Wishing you and baby all the best.

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Omigosh!! How exciting, congratulations, Rosie. We love you so much and you've taken such good care of us. I know you'll make a fabulous ViMommy. My mom had me at 35 and my sister at 41, so don't doubt you can be an amazing active mother.

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Congratulations! Don't feel like you're old! My dad was 42 when I was born and my mom was 36 when she had my brother (making my father 53 years old at the time!) Good luck on your pregnancy!

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Thanks guys. I am already swelling up. I am only 14 weeks pregnant but showing. Hmmm. Fat genes just kicked into high gear I guess! pamcrow Musikana and Akitten: You guys really made my day! I get so much flak about my age. :grin:

[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Congratulations Rosie!!! What wonderful news! I wish you Eloi and Ford all the best!
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Now how the heck did you remember my daughter's name Rhony? lol

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Congrats!!!!!!!!!

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congrats Rosie! I am not as aquainted with you as some of the other ladies, but from all of the lovely things the ladies have said about you in past posts, I know you are wonderful!!! :)

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We are vifamily Rosie. Her name was easy to remember, I just thought of that picture that you shared with us when you guys were on vacation -- and the bell went right off. LOL!!!!

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Rosie, you have been mother to us all, giving us advices at the drop of a hat. You were there for us always. So it's with extreme sincerity that I wish you, your husband and your daughter my very best. Congrats on your pregnancy!!! Such wonderful news Rosie!!!

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Rhony: You mean of us on the Carnival Valor. Man Did I love that trip! You do have a great memory.

I used too bee here every day, all day guys. The company is just growing so fast I can't chat as much as I like. But now the site really is run by Rhony, Platinumstyle, Musikana, and Ginoue and you too Soon2bmrsj. I remember when it was just a few of us on here. I get all sad when people go. I still miss Phenomonique and Charlottemodebe.

But you guys have become experts and I love the ready advice YOU give to all the newbies :)

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Yay! Congratulations....I just came back from a breastfeeding seminar since we do hours and hours of breastfeeding counseling. I will be glad to be of any nutrition or breastfeeding assistance to you or any vibride with questions.....I will definitely make a presence at the vibabies room.....congrats on your new blessing!

BTW, my aunt had one at 40 too, and you know what?!?!? its ALRIGHT!

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Bumble!

How did I not know that's what you did for a living? We really need some kinda career cross referencing or something on this site. Please leave what advice you can at Breastfeeding Forume. I don't think anyone post anything ther yet. You could be a pioneer. I remember when Rhony was new! lol

They just closed La Leche League here. :( I did breastfeed my daughter Ford. My mother was mortified. She breastfed me, but only 8 months but not my other siblings.

I really needed you. It was HELL weaning that child!

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How wonderful! Congratulations and all of God's blessings for you and your new arrival! I am so pleased for you Rosie and I wish you all the best! x

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I am actually a nutritionist, but since I work for WIC I have already seen hundreds of clients on breastfeeding counseling, education, and troubleshooting issues like latching, soreness, and the like....I am seriously considering going ahead and becoming certified. Its just expensive (like 500.00), so we'll see. But I have put up a few posts for moms-to-be, and moms (new and not so new) to add feedback...I invite the vibrides to check out vibabies and add you two cents!

Rosie, you and I are in the spirit, because I was planning on posting some reflections on attitudes towards breasfeeding after today's conference, and get some of the vibride mom's feedback.....i guess this is just the confirmation....Congrats again:) God is good:)

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BTW...............when are you due!?!?!

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Congratulations Rosie! That is just wonderful news! And you know 30 is the new 20, so of course 40 is the new 30!! Be very proud:)

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I'm so excited for you and Eloi Rosie! Neither of you check in on us as much anymore :( I breastfed both of my children. The boy was very difficult to wean (didn't get him off until 14 months)! The girl was totally different and weaned herself at 7 months. Remember each child is different. I'll check in on ViBabies also!

Congrats again! I know you'll be a great mother (again)! I mean, look at how well your baby ViBride is doing! LOL!

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[quote="Rosetta"]But now the site really is run by Rhony, Platinumstyle, Musikana, and Ginoue and you too Soon2bmrsj...........I still miss Phenomonique and Charlottemodebe[/quote]

Awwww, i'm gettin teary-eyed. You taught/continue to teach us well!

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Wow... congrats. Babies are joys. good luck with everything.

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[quote="Rosetta"]Rhony: You mean of us on the Carnival Valor. Man Did I love that trip! You do have a great memory.

Yes Rosie, that is the trip I was referring to. LOL!!! I'm also happy that your business is growing and doing well -- all the best to you on that end as well.

I remember when I was new too, now I am an "old" married woman of almost 2 years -- where did the time go -- LOL!!!

I breastfed my daughter also -- wow that seems like ages ago, she's going to be 18 in June. I felt like I was wearing her too!! LOL!!

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Wow, congratulations Rosie, I'm very happy for you.

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Congrats Rosie! Babies are a blessing; Good luck and enjoy your pregnancy!!

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Congratulations Rosie!!! I am so happy for you.

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Congradulations!!!!

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WOW!!!! CONGRATS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY FOR THE UP AND COMING NEW ADDITION!! I can tell you are SO excited! It's making me excited! You are very blessed!!!

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[quote="Musikana"] Awwww, i'm gettin teary-eyed. You taught/continue to teach us well!
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I give credit where it's due. :) You all have helped make this site really special. There aren't any other wedding forums as well attended AFTER the brides have been married. Also you guys have been know to go to each others weddings. How cool is that?

I see you Ivy, Turiya, FutureMrskeepup who was (a newbie just months ago- almost a year?) you guys post often and have great ideas. I just love how it's like family here. Thanks for the well wishes and keep up the good work.

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[quote="FutureMrsKeepUp"]I'm so excited for you and Eloi Rosie! Neither of you check in on us as much anymore :( I breastfed both of my children. The boy was very difficult to wean (didn't get him off until 14 months)! The girl was totally different and weaned herself at 7 months. Remember each child is different. I'll check in on ViBabies also!

Congrats again! I know you'll be a great mother (again)! I mean, look at how well your baby ViBride is doing! LOL!
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I won't tell yopu how long Ford was on me! lol. I expressed it mostly. But LORD! It was like a dirty secret. lol

I'm trying to spend time her. But too many posts and too little time to answer them all. I get an e-mail EVERY time anyone posts. It's a little overwhelming, but it lets me know that you guys are going strong and taking care of each other.

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comgrats Rosie and best wishes to you and yours Happy Pregnancy

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OMG, that's great! I'm going to be a VIaunt! I wish I could come to the VI, give you a big hug, and rub your tummy so I can say "hi" to the VIbaby! :-)I am just smiling from ear to ear as I type this. Rosie, I'm so happy for you, Eloi, and Ford! You have to keep us updated. Congratulations!!!!!! May God Bless you and your beautiful family.

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Congratulations to you and your family!!!

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Hey Rosie a big giant congratulations!!!! Wow you know I have a confession when I first saw the title of the thread- I had my money on Bumble being pregnant (lol dont know why) this is fantastic!!

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OMG Rosie Congratulations!! I had absolutely no interest in viewing this topic, but something told me to look and boy am I surprised and glad for you and your family.

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BTW, happy belate birthday to you, Rosie! I'm so happy for you! COngrats again!

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I am soooo late, but CONGRATS Rosie!!!! I am so happy for you and your family. Please keep us all updated FREQUENTLY on your pregnancy. Do you plan on finding out the sex of the baby before you're due?

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That is AWESOME and such a blessing
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[quote="2bmrspotts"]That is AWESOME and such a blessing
Congrats !!!!!
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Welcome back MRSPOTTS!!!!!!!! don't try to come in on another post and not give us details of your wedding!! :) you know we are waiting patiently... LOL

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Congratulations Rosie!!! I am so happy for you. I'm all teary eyed. Congratulations again! :-D

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Hi Ladies. It's been quite some time since I communicated with you all. The wedding was in June 30 and it was a beautiful wedding. I did get sick the day before rehearsal and went to the doctor and he thought I was having gall bladder problems but gave me medication to get through the wedding and honeymoon. We were suppose to honeymoon in Charleston, South Carolina and then Florida. But since I was experienceing lots of pain, we decided to spend the entire week in Charleston. We had a wonderful time and the medication helped ease the pain. You know this was the second marriage for both my husband and I and between the two of us we have two girls age 12 and 9. My husband desperately would love to have a little boy. The thing that worried me the most though was my age. I am 41 and will turn 42 this year. My gynecologist told me last year if we had planned to have a baby we needed to do it right away. Listening to you ladies congratulate Rosie has really been uplifting to me. I pray about the situation and I know if it was meant to be, God will provide and it will happen.

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Welcome back Browncat. Have you and your doctor talked about the possibility of you taking pills to increase your fertility? My doctor also suggested a change in diet, consuming more of some foods less of others, can help fertility as well. Talk to your doctor and continue to pray. I'll say a prayer for you as well.

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This will be good conversation for Rosie's new Vibabies website!

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Congrates Rosie....I'm so happy for you. I can't wait until I can announce the same.

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Hi Brownkat:

I have gall bladder disease too. You can alleviate them naturally. Believe it or not the next attack drink epsom salts. It relaxes the gall bladder and some of the stones will pass out. Regular pain killers will help with the pain. Meds can sometimes aggravate Gall Bladder disease! SO be careful. I know the pain is beyond excruciating. It was worse than delivering my daughter!
You can talk more about babies and planning at http://www.vibabies.com/ . Cinnim1 is trying to conceive as well.

Thanks for all the well wishes you guys! I get the first ultrasound tomorrow at 9am. Now to drink 32oz. of water and not pee myself! lol

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I haven't been here in so long and today what's the first topic I see??? Just tested yesterday and poof- clearblue easy really is that easy. I'm like Rosetta, I'm mixed up about how to feel. I was on the pill and needless to say, I'm caught a little off guard. I'm 34, hubby 47 and our youngest is 12. I'm trying to be excited but at the same time I keep thinking what in the world??? I know what God has planned doesn't always line up with our plans. Hubby isn't an excitable type of person- so I'm trying not to use him to pump up my excitement. Just pray for me ladies.

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Awww sistah! What God brings you to he'll bring you through! Get excited! Congrats!

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Looks like we've got another ViMommy

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Congrats sistah! and just know that this was all in God's plan (or it wouldn't have happened) so be glad and rejoice in it!! BTW you are STILL a young woman (34) :)

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I was looking at the calendar and I can just about pinpoint the day we concieved- so I'm estimating around 5 wks. I feel like a ball of hormones today so I kept quiet to keep from ballin tears.

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[quote="sistah"]I was looking at the calendar and I can just about pinpoint the day we concieved- so I'm estimating around 5 wks. I feel like a ball of hormones today so I kept quiet to keep from ballin tears.
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How does DH feel about the new addition?

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Aww, congrats sistah and glad to see you back...You got married on my mom's birthday....Right now I think its good to just pray for guidance and that your DH opens up a little more....I would go ahead and start making plans and getting preparations....Look into alternate locations to have the baby that would include your DH and maybe your children...I know when we think about having a baby I think I want to have it at home if my Dr. releases me as low risk....There are also water births and having them at a birthing cottage....The best thing you can do is make plans, think of what you'll do (BF or Formula, where to have the baby, etc, etc). That sometimes can get your mind off stress....Unexpected pregnancy is also an unexpected blessing....your DH is like mine...not very much will excite him....especially when things occur beyond their control...He will definitely come around, and you may even start mentioning your good news in your married couples class at church if you attend...Sometimes encouragement from others makes things seem a little brighter...

Also, if you have to cry...cry to get it all out...Cry in private if you can because then you can talk to God through the tears...things just seem a little clearer after that......Shoot as broke as we are-okay not broke, but ya'll know "just starting out" I can't wait to start trying, but my DH is like wait wait wait.....cause he is soooo practical....But I will be 28 in September and I'm like...dude, I'm not getting any younger here!!!!! But he is my DH and I love him so I will wait on God to give him a word so we can go.....(I guess I needed to get that off my chest...whew!)...But in the meantime...I will live vicariously through my vibride mommies, and gain all the wisdom I need for the future:)

Congrats again sistah! We got your back too!

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