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ukissbac
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JUST A LITTLE ANXIETY

HI, EVERYONE
THIS IS MY FIRST TIME POSTING ANYTHING, AS A MATTER OF FACT I JOINED TODAY! ANYWAYS MY WEDDING IS MARCH 26, 2005. I AM ALREADY FEELING A LITTLE ANXIETY, HOPING EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE. I HAVE A TOTAL OF 16 BRIDEMAIDS AS I SPEAK! THAT'S ENOUGH TO SEND ROCKETS TO THE MOON! THIS IS JUST TO VENT ....

ukissbac
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JUST A LITTLE ANXIETY

HI, EVERYONE
THIS IS MY FIRST TIME POSTING ANYTHING, AS A MATTER OF FACT I JOINED TODAY! ANYWAYS MY WEDDING IS MARCH 26, 2005. I AM ALREADY FEELING A LITTLE ANXIETY, HOPING EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE. I HAVE A TOTAL OF 16 BRIDEMAIDS AS I SPEAK! THAT'S ENOUGH TO SEND ROCKETS TO THE MOON! THIS IS JUST TO VENT ....

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Re: JUST A LITTLE ANXIETY

Anxiety is normal. Who wouldn't freak when planning one of the most important events of your life? JUST BREATHE! Have FUN planning your wedding. There are tons of tips and advice on here. Every woman and man on this site is feeling pretty much the same. Congrats on your wedding and feel free to vent all you want on this board. That is what we are here for!

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kl
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Pray, breathe, and relax. Everything will go just fine. Our wedding is only 40 days away, April 30th, right now me and my husband-to-be are EXCITED and anticipating greatly this event. But we both know the closer it gets, we'll get some butterflies. I also can't wait till that day because all of the wedding planning will be over! :-)))))and we can then just relax and chill with each other :-)

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Isn't that excitement great! It is the best feeling. I bet you both are just glowing! People get blasts of love coming from an engaged couple. Have fun and don't forget that we are all here for you. Give us your experiences planning your wedding so far! We would love to hear them!

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ukissbac
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THANKS EVERYONE FOR THE RESPONSES!!! MY EXPERIENCE PLANNING AND GETTING EVERYTHING TOGETHER HAS BEEN VERY TIRESOME! BUT I KNOW IF I DIDN'T PUT MY TIME AND TOUCH INTO IT THINGS WOULDN'T BE THE SAME. I'VE GOT 4 DAYS TO GO AND I DO PLAN TO JUST CHILL AND RELAX THIS WEEK. I LOST THREE OF MY BRIDEMAIDS ALONG THE WAY AND MY BEST FRIEND OF 21YRS HAS NOT BEEN OF ANY HELP AT ALL!!!!! SO THOSE OF YOU THAT ARE SURROUNDING YOUR PLANS AROUND OTHERS, REMEMBER YOU CAN ALWAYS COUNT ON YOURSELF... THANKS GUYS FOR TAKING THE TIME AND KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS THIS SATURDAY MARCH 26, 2005. OH AND BY THE WAY I AM STILL HAVING A LIL ANXIETY !!!!

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Good Luck and God bless your marriage. Send us pics! Vibride Featured wedding.

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kl
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Re: JUST A LITTLE ANXIETY

Ukissbac,

I understand about some people letting you down (my closest Aunt informed me that she won't be able to attend my reception but will be at the wedding), she really dissappointed and hurt me with that, but like you said we can't surround our plans around others, but life goes on and God is still good and still blessing!!!

Our wedding planning update:
-Everything is DONE! Praise the Lord (38 days to go!)
-Only thing left to do is buy my earrings, order our live flowers (April 1st), and other small tidbit items for our reception

My experience thus far:
-Alot of work!
-Had to change Wedding Coordinators
-Blessed to find my dress on the first visit!
-Got a discount from the caterer
-Ordered some bomb wedding favors from the WeddingChannel.com
-Fortunately my sisters and friends (Maids of Honors/Bridesmaids) have hardly caused me any grief...I said hardly :-)
-My mother toned her input down, realizing that this was my wedding and not hers :))) Gotta love her!
-Went to a beautiful Bridal show with my girls and my sister
-....I could go on and on, but I'll let somebody else share.....:-)