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Matron and Maid of honor

Hello Ladies....
I have a maid and matron of honor. My problem was I could not decide on who should be my maid of honor. So to avoid hurt feelings, I chose to have both. My dilema now is who walks alone, should they both or should I have the one I've known the longest walk by herself??

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Matron and Maid of honor

Hello Ladies....
I have a maid and matron of honor. My problem was I could not decide on who should be my maid of honor. So to avoid hurt feelings, I chose to have both. My dilema now is who walks alone, should they both or should I have the one I've known the longest walk by herself??

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Re: matron and maid of honor

We go by the theme "your way, your day" around here. So however you decide to do it, its the right way....Now if you would like an idea, I had both, so My Maid of Honor walked with the best man (groom's brother), and the matron of honor simply walked with another groomsman (who happened to be her husband-and my husband's very dear friend) So it can also depend on if you want the matron of honor's husband in the wedding (per your fiance's choice). I wouldn't worry about someone's feelings being hurt, like I said, however you decide to do it is okay!
Is there a tradition for one of them to walk alone or with someone?

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Re: Matron and Maid of honor

thanks for your input. My Matron's husband is a friend of my husbands', however he is not in the bridal party. I don't think there is a tradition(or none that I could find) on who should walk alone or who should come down first before the bride.

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Re: Matron and Maid of honor

Why not have your maid of honor enter with the bestman and have your matron of honor enter by herself. On the way out the maid and matron of honor can both exit with the bestman. Or you can have the maid and matron walk down togethor.

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Re: Matron and Maid of honor

I have both and they will both walk alone. The best man will be in fromt with FH. My maid will come out 1st followed by my matron (kind of like a levels in life - JrBM, BM, MaidOH, MatronOH). HTH!

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Re: Matron and Maid of honor

I had my attendants walk in as follows.
Parents

Groom

Best Man
Maid of Honor
Groomsman
Bridesmaid
Junior groomsman
Junior bridesmaid
Flower girls w/ Escort
ME!!!

They choose how they wanted to recess.

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Re: Matron and Maid of honor

The llast wedding I was in .We(MOH'S) walked in by ourself and we left with e the best men.

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