(This is really a PMS rant!!) Hello all! I know I haven't been around for a while now. I have had some changes at work I was promoted into a new position (but will be leaving the company on Friday to go work for a University here in VA). So the people at work have been making me mad cause they tried to counter offer me but I want to be closer to home and be able to spend more time with the kids so they are not to happy and are trying to make it rough for me but I am too STRONG for that!! Anyway...... My MOH!!! I have decided to have my best friend as my MOH my sisters will be my Matriens of Honor. So, my best friend who I have known since 6th grade told me in august she was going to go with me to a bridal shop this weekend comming up. she emailed me to tell me who she couldn't make. I am not really upset she can not make it but i am upset cause she calls me to tell me everything, but didn't call me for this!!!! I emailed her bakc and told her that was cool. so then she emailed me and told me how she didn't think I should be going for a dress fitting now (because I am getting married in 2009)and how the dress may not fit me and how she does not feel comfortable buying a dress now cause he weight may be diffrent by then, etc. So I emailed her back and told her that I did not ask anyone to buy anything yet and the BM dresses I showed her are just an idea of what I would like to get and I understand that things may be "played out" by then. I told her that I know buying a dress now is not reasonable and that people may be smaller, bigger or may be pregnant at the time of the wedding. But she made me so mad!! I don't know why she didn't call me. I have no one here in state with me and she is the closest to me (2 hrs away)so that is why I aksed her. I don't have anyone here that I can ask, I have only been here in VA a little over a year and I choose my friends very wisely so am am not going to just ask anyone. But I am upset and needed to vent. I know I am probably blowing it up. But I was on the verge of break off our friendship before because everytime I talk to her she always talks about herself and never gives me a chance to talk about my life and when I do start talking she cuts me off and says she has to go. I had 2nd thoughts about asking her to be in the wedding but asked her because I have known her so long. But now I don't want her in it. When I try to talk about wedding stuff she really doesn't want to hear it cause the wedding is in 2 & 1/2 years. UGGHHH!!! (Thanks for "listening").
(This is really a PMS rant!!) Hello all! I know I haven't been around for a while now. I have had some changes at work I was promoted into a new position (but will be leaving the company on Friday to go work for a University here in VA). So the people at work have been making me mad cause they tried to counter offer me but I want to be closer to home and be able to spend more time with the kids so they are not to happy and are trying to make it rough for me but I am too STRONG for that!! Anyway...... My MOH!!! I have decided to have my best friend as my MOH my sisters will be my Matriens of Honor. So, my best friend who I have known since 6th grade told me in august she was going to go with me to a bridal shop this weekend comming up. she emailed me to tell me who she couldn't make. I am not really upset she can not make it but i am upset cause she calls me to tell me everything, but didn't call me for this!!!! I emailed her bakc and told her that was cool. so then she emailed me and told me how she didn't think I should be going for a dress fitting now (because I am getting married in 2009)and how the dress may not fit me and how she does not feel comfortable buying a dress now cause he weight may be diffrent by then, etc. So I emailed her back and told her that I did not ask anyone to buy anything yet and the BM dresses I showed her are just an idea of what I would like to get and I understand that things may be "played out" by then. I told her that I know buying a dress now is not reasonable and that people may be smaller, bigger or may be pregnant at the time of the wedding. But she made me so mad!! I don't know why she didn't call me. I have no one here in state with me and she is the closest to me (2 hrs away)so that is why I aksed her. I don't have anyone here that I can ask, I have only been here in VA a little over a year and I choose my friends very wisely so am am not going to just ask anyone. But I am upset and needed to vent. I know I am probably blowing it up. But I was on the verge of break off our friendship before because everytime I talk to her she always talks about herself and never gives me a chance to talk about my life and when I do start talking she cuts me off and says she has to go. I had 2nd thoughts about asking her to be in the wedding but asked her because I have known her so long. But now I don't want her in it. When I try to talk about wedding stuff she really doesn't want to hear it cause the wedding is in 2 & 1/2 years. UGGHHH!!! (Thanks for "listening").