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I want to thank you for the support I've gotten from you over the past few months. You ladies are the greatest. I don't have any sisters but I would adopt you ladies as my sister any day. Unfortunately I will no longer be apart of the sisterhood. My FH and I have decided to serparate. We had some issues from the past that we were dealing with that even with going to couples counsiling we are unable at this time fix. We have decided this is best so we don't end up hating each other. I don't want to one of those women who is bitter and just talking s--t about her "baby's daddy". I'm sorry if I've saddened any of you with this. I just couldn't walk away from my "family" without saying good-bye.

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To all my sistas
I want to thank you for the support I've gotten from you over the past few months. You ladies are the greatest. I don't have any sisters but I would adopt you ladies as my sister any day. Unfortunately I will no longer be apart of the sisterhood. My FH and I have decided to serparate. We had some issues from the past that we were dealing with that even with going to couples counsiling we are unable at this time fix. We have decided this is best so we don't end up hating each other. I don't want to one of those women who is bitter and just talking s--t about her "baby's daddy". I'm sorry if I've saddened any of you with this. I just couldn't walk away from my "family" without saying good-bye.

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I am so sorry! I feel so bad! You know what girl...hold your head up high. I know you hurt inside and I feel your pain. Look at it like this...God has something better for you. I believe it! Now, I want you to believe it. This separation could make both of you stronger. Just pray. God is a miracle worker. I'm praying for you girl!

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L_Evet, I'm sorry to hear about what has happened between you and your FH. I only wish happiness and peace for you both. You have been such an inspiration to myself and the other ladies here, we will miss you. I hope that you will "pop" in from time to time just to say hello. I have learned over the past few months to just "trust God and trust His process." Be blessed my sister.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Bump this!...I don't know about you ladies but I am not accepting this good-bye.....no way missy!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Stay strong sister L_EVET, all our prayers and good wishes are with you. I recognize how difficult it may be to stay a part of the sisterhood but I hope that as your heart starts to heal, you'll drop in from time to time and drop us a line. So hopefully this isn't as much of a goodbye as it is a "see y'all later".

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I am going to go to war for you in prayer....believe it in your heart amd God will conquer it for you. Do not allow the devil the chance to make you comfortable in your separation. Fight for what is yours...and until you sign on again....May God bless you in your mind body and spirit....heal the hurt and plant seeds of security and favour all around you like a hedge of loving protection.

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Islandbride that is so beautiful...you left me with my mouth open....see what I mean by this group being a support group.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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and may that same prayer abound in the lives of everyone who comes in contact with this board...whether you stumbled in on accident or you were referred...or to the regulars on here....I bind the hands and works of the wickedness of the devil..the enemy has no power or dominion over the lives that are covered in the blood of the lamb...flee from L-evet and may her sorrows and tears birth rainbows from the top of her head to the bottoms of her feet...restore her mind and fill her heart with fresh flowers of past memories and allow the same garden to grow in the heart of her FH...and it is in Jesus' name that I pray...Amen.

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Don't leave. We need you and love having you here! I am sorry to hear about you and your FH. I am proud of you for getting counseling and trying to make it work. That kind of committment will make you an awesome wife.

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You are more than a conqueror L-evet....just trust Him.

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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[quote="islandbride"]I am going to go to war for you in prayer...[/quote] Wow. Rockcity posse! That is so sweet. I am glad you are here.

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u know how we have to do it Rosetta... devil cant touch this...we must band together to support and nurture eachother.....can't people see whats goin on?....the closer people get to their special dates brudda man in the flame chamber gettin reallllllllll mad...he steppin up his game so the prayer warriors have to step up too.

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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IslandBride, I feel protected also!!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Hallelujah...in the mighty name of Jesus, I receive that prayer and speak life to the ladies on this board.....Watch it nah, I feel church up in here...man all you need is the old devil to mess with ya, then we go to battle. God is faithful and ever present.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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I am so happy I dropped in on this post. L_EVET please stay with us. I know it may seem hard to hang out while others are planning. But like you said, we are sisters and HAVE TO HOLD EACH OTHER UP!!!! Please don't try to climb this mountain without the support system. God will take you over this hurdle, and we're here to be whatever support you need.

Islandbride---Preach sister!!!! And let all Gods children say Amen!

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Charly Charl! ...lol...gurllllll dont make me pull out the B-i-b-l-e

Glad that we can sit here in different corners of the earth and pull God into this dimness. and L-evet you have the nerve to live right ya so in Baltimore. L-evet u betta call me. email me privately for that numerical.

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HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Niquey...Amen!. Island nah you know how black women does carry on when someone mess with there kin....that old stupid devil don't know (slang) wes a bunch a crazy Christ warriors up in here...somebody better tell him he mess with the wrong sista.....

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Amen!!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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L_evet,I'm sorry to hear about your separation.I wish there was more that I could say but the other sistas have already said what I was thinking.I will pray for you.God Bless You and PLEASE don't leave the vibride sista hood.

Born Blessed!

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I think she will be here....there is too much love and crazy ladies on this site for her to go :-)

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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I know that's right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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The Holy Spirit never lies...and I do believe we will be graced by her presence..give her time...give them time...we will be right here on the sidelines cheering when you return...Baltimore Ravens style..*doin Ray Lewis' side line dance*

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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You're right IslandBride, a little time will work wonders!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I know that's right!...and I love B-more (learned that from friends) so much, I have friends there. Father Damien Nalepa and the members of Saint Gregory the Great Church.....Vetty will be here again!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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hey girly....sittin here printing my program...on the last page and the printer startin to act up...why am I not surprised....

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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The devil is a lier....girl how you doing, 11 days!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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It is so amazing how some of us have never met each other and yet I feel a special bond between all of us!

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Isn't that something TonyL...some of us not even in the same time zone and we gat such a bound...cool!

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charlotte's web and tonyal...well the printer is in need of a word....lol...it it actin crazy...sittin here eatin lunch...arguments with FH...he so dramatic....got the marr. license and he wants to pick fights....i am laughin cuz he gettin antsy and nervous

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Oh my goodnees, IslandBride, I soooooo appreciate these details because now I know what I have to look forward too. You guys are almost there............

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Hey Rhondi Ru......unhooked printer ...attached it to the mother computer..transferred files and voila!...we got print success...shoot this old computer wants to just show off today...went to the dollar store to blow off some steam...found some cute satin table runners in white..with tassels on both ends...both them to drape on each side of the altar...and now im back...anyone else counting down their days?

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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hey i found this cute saying on the net...was it on here?....maybe...i put in the program...at the bottom of the page that has our picture...
"I fell in the love the day I met you...and you smiled because you knew"....doesnt that just melt your heart?...

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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I absolutely love it....but I want you to double check it...is it suppose to say....."I fell in love the day....or was it a typo, please excuse me for being fresh fast and facetious :-)

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charly you crazy girl!! IslandBride I absolutely love the saying it is beautiful and yes it does melt my heart!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I just don't want my girl making mistakes on her programmes :-)...Hey I jealous of those dollar stores ya'll got over there, oh we gat them here also but they sell junk and the prices are not worthy to be called "dollar store"

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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"when I first met you....I fell in love and you smiled because you knew...."....lol nerves are bad lol

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Shame on them for misrepresenting the "dollar store". I love them. I haven't ventured into one yet, but I'm sure they will roll out the red carpet for me because I'm going to make a killin' in there (lol)!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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IslandB.., gurl you are excused. Your day is right around the corner and if you "got bad nerves" then that's ok darlin' we got your back!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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*lookin for a glass of red wine*
need to calm down lol...

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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IslandB...., you will be ok. I'm just too tickled over here.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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a lil off topic...im gonna post a pic of my baby chloe...she's himalayan kitty...she has been so naughty..but u gotta love her..she ate a balloon the other day...go figure

HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Please do IslandB. I want to meet your kitty.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Rhondi u are crazy...Chloe lol meet Rhondi and Charlotte...meow

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HIS eye is on the sparrow, and I know HE watches.........me

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Hi Chloe, it is nice to meet you. Please take care of IslandB, she needs a little somethin' to calm her down. Chloe, you are just toooooo cute!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Islandbride, your kitty is looking how Bossy was looking at her coworker yesterday! lol My friend has cat like that as well. Too bad I don't care for cats (don't take it personally) - bad story from when I was pregnant.

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Island...I love her (terrifed of them) but still love her, she is so precious....you need to involve her in the wedding. Askalot...pregnant women and cat just do not go together (toxo plasmosis), not a god thing to be around them.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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Charly I will remember that. Although I have no intentions on getting pregnant again! (lol)

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Rony ya know what....whatever!!!!, gurl when you sign those papers (license) you have no more say and if you husband to be is anything like my ex...dog eat ya lunch.

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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One good thing Charly, Mr. Man doesn't want any more children either. We both only have the child that we share together. My daughter weighed 9lbs and I had natural childbirth with no anesthesia. Girl if you heard someone screaming all the way in the Carribean at 10:31pm on 6/12/90, then it was me 'cause I was in the process of losin' my mind!!!! (lol) I had enough!!!!!

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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WWWWWWWHHHHHAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!! Girl your doctor put you thru that...goodness gracious....my baby was 10 91/2 and I had a c-section and the last one was 8 3/4 and I got cut again so I guess you could say I aint woman cause I aint born no baby lol, boy but I could tell you of the day after...Lord have mercy. At least ya'll have that out of the way, you can just have fun now! he he (feel like school girl blushing)

Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.

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