We used to have prayer circles on here. For healing, for friendships. I love you all like we grew up together and while we are here together in celebration. Know that we are together in crisis too!
So here is a prayer for Shy and all of us that have faced rocky roads in our marriages.
Father God, I pray for marriages everyehere. I pray that couples and friends everywhere will join in praying for healing and restoration in marriages all over the nation. I pray father for all couples that are experiencing trouble in their marriage. amen
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Prayer Circle For Shy
Thu, 12/31/2009 - 18:05
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Prayer Circle For Shy
We used to have prayer circles on here. For healing, for friendships. I love you all like we grew up together and while we are here together in celebration. Know that we are together in crisis too!
So here is a prayer for Shy and all of us that have faced rocky roads in our marriages.
Father God, I pray for marriages everyehere. I pray that couples and friends everywhere will join in praying for healing and restoration in marriages all over the nation. I pray father for all couples that are experiencing trouble in their marriage. amen
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This is beautiful thank you so much!
Shy - Be strong my sista. You are in my prayers!
[b]Psalm of Protection [/b]
The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall
I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?
When evil men advance against me to devour my flesh,
when my enemies and my foes attack me,
they will stumble and fall.
Though an army besiege me,
my heart will not fear;
though war break out against me, even then will I
be confident.
--- Psalms 27: 1-3
[quote="Shy41208"]
Thanks again ladies...I have prayed on in alot...especially for PEACE because i would have caught a case if i didnt have it... I am getting thru it, as much as i didnt want for us to end or "take a break" (which led to comfortability in our current settings). It was kind of like a weight off my shoulders as far goals, finances, etc... that all of sudden changed with me and him...i dont know... but i also just came out of the hospital for having a ruptured cyst that had me bleeding internally and he really did step up for me. I appreciated him (as well as everyone else of course) for being there because i knew how much anger he had towards me.[/quote]
Why is he angry? Money is the devil in most relationships. It is one of the hardest to over come. But with patience, you can get through that too.
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He is angry because when he decided to leave, he left all responsibilities behind-the children, and after a little bit of time he felt that he didnt have to help with them financially and emotionally, etc... so the constant back and forth of asking for help with them, led me to child support. as much as i refrained from doing it for so long, I told him that i felt we should have kept it "technical" (as he first requested) and suggested maybe i needed to go to that level for him to get some sense. after i mentioned it, i still gave alot of time before filing for him to possibly come to his senses but nope... he didnt know that i was holding out tho... he thought it was already in the process but still didnt react the way i had hoped...for a while it was like he portrayed me as a crazy baby mama. lol but i felt that i was being so VERY nice for a VERY long time, even before the seperation.... I had been fighting for US since 3 months into the marriage. couldnt keep fighting for it alone....
You did the right thing Shy. He is responsible for you and your children. You are still married and why would he even be upset that you asked for child support? How bizarre. Did he think they would be magically provided for? We will pray for common sense for him. Don't feel guilty. You really did the right thing. People go through lots of things in their marriage. So don't feel alone.
Do you have a support group in both your families? Do you have family of his you can go to for advice or help? If so, don't be ashamed to ask them to kick some sense into him.
Marraiges are a WHOLE family commitment. Let them know what's really going on and how you feel about it.
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First I am sorry to hear about your troubles. He must still care about you because you said he "stepped up" when you were in the hospital. My ex did not do that for me. Keep the faith. I will offer my prayer for you and bring it to my church group too. This site is really, really special.
Way to bring the POWER Nay Nay! Are you a Pastor?? :)
So Blessed to be in love and to be loved back.
Thank you... I dont really have a support GROUP in the families but I have my select few that I talk to on both sides... I can go to his Dad and Stepmom about any and everything...and i love to talk to them more because they have been together for 24 yrs, so i know they have went thru the ups and downs...they know the whole story from beginning to end. They basically are hoping that he will grow up and get it together but with his mom around and him living with her, its not simple because she still babies him... he has no responsibilities over there, he can come and go as he pleases. he is living the life over there now...and i feel like she wanted that from the time she said she was moving to Jersey...because she allowed him to leave and go there instead of denying him that and saying work it out AT HOME! i do have some anger towards her for this as well, even tho it was his decision...not only that she told her pastor (he married us) that we are doing ok. WHAT!!!
Thanks for letting me vent. lol I Love you ladies!!!
Thank you Mistee..
Aint no thang but a chicken wang. ;) I am beginging to see why people like this site so much. Things will look better, Shy.
So Blessed to be in love and to be loved back.
girl this site has been a true support system for me since day 1...
What a thoughtful post, Rosetta.
Shy, Im sorry to hear about your troubles and pray for this year to be bountiful for you and yours.
Shy...I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through so much right now.But let me encourage you to keep your head up girl. Though It may
seem like it's so much for you to deal with, GOD knows best and TRUST
me...It will only make you a stronger. Keep strong in your faith and
let ONLY GOD lead you in your decision making. Don't feel guilty about
what you've had to do thus far (child support). You can only do so much
alone. Just continue to be prayerful that God will renew your husbands
mind and restore the love you two felt when you first fell in love. As
for his Mom, pray for her too. That she will start to positively
encourage him to do the right thing for his family.I understand its so
easy to get angry at her or whom ever may be helping him in this quest
of irresponsible living. But don't let that anger take root in your
spirit. [b]JUST PRAY[/b] and remember, [b]BE ENCOURAGED!!![/b]
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That's so tacky to post that here, Carol.
Butterbean..
I've noticed Carol's post on many of the topics..talk about "overkill".
Thanks for lookin' out you guys. Stop it carol. It is spamming.
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