PureBliss

Great question Future, inquiring minds want to know?

No, we haven't told anyone else! We were talking over dinner the other night and we both don't feel that we're married because we can't tell anyone. I think once the wedding get's here it will be real to us then. Thanks for thinking about me! I love you guys!

Thanks Future!

We love you back PB&J!

PB&J, do you plan on telling anything that you had already got married after the wedding?

We probably will. We just haven't figured out how we're ging to do it. In our program for the reception we are on after the toasts "Expressions from the Mr.& Mrs" and we were considering then but I think we'll just wait and tell our family and close friends instead everyone at the reception.I don't know! Give me your ideas sistahs!

I haven't been on in a while so I missed out on the good news. Congrats to you and your hubby,PB&J.Keep us posted on your marriage and don't forget to post pics from your upcoming ceremony.

[quote="PureBliss"]We probably will. We just haven't figured out how we're ging to do it. In our program for the reception we are on after the toasts "Expressions from the Mr.& Mrs" and we were considering then but I think we'll just wait and tell our family and close friends instead everyone at the reception.I don't know! Give me your ideas sistahs!
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I think that you should just tell your close family and friends after the reception is over.

Ok, here's my 2 cents on it since u asked 4 suggestions. (Gee, I hope I have the 2 cents to spare right now) Change the wording of your vows. Instead of saying "I TAKE xxx to be my wife", change it to "I HAVE TAKEN xxx to be my wife". This was done by my cousins years ago as they 2 grappled w/the idea of how 2 tell the family. By them changing their vows, the people that were actually paying attention 2 the vows caught on & questioned afterwards. The response to the "Hey, why'd you change your vows to say xxx" was simple...just flash them a big 'ole cheesy a$$ grin. They'll figure it out. If your family's anything like mine, the word will get around like a wildfire. It was a brilliant idea & it is still talked about to this day.
Whatever you decide I think it's fair 2 say...we got ur back!!

Good idea.. I like that....

I think you should tell family and friends after the reception in a private setting.

Thanks for suggestions ladies! We are still trying to figure this out. We are considering surprising our parents with a picture in a nice frame of us at our getting married that day, or including the pictures when the videographer does his slide show presentation at the reception. As I stated earlier, we are still up in the are about it and trying to figure out the best way to do it. Because i haven't changed my name yet and we're not wearing our rings it will really be like we are getting married. Oh, I liked the ideas about changing the vows too! My honey is so sweet every Tuesday he's been saying Happy .. week Anniversary!(Of course, I forget) but this week on Friday (8/11) will be our month anniversary so I will definitely remember.

The ladies are right on point! Almost a month PB&J, wow, time sure flies!

PB&J is already married?

Okay, which post explains this story from the begining. i'll go read up so you don't have to repeat yourselves.

LOL, If I am not mistaken, Purebliss and her husband spoke with a pastor and they felt that they was ready to get married for personal reason, so they did. However they just didnt tell anyone!

[quote="PureBliss"]We probably will. We just haven't figured out how we're ging to do it. In our program for the reception we are on after the toasts "Expressions from the Mr.& Mrs" and we were considering then but I think we'll just wait and tell our family and close friends instead everyone at the reception.I don't know! Give me your ideas sistahs!
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Don't tell! It will KILL your momma. lol If you wanted it secret just keep it. It's ok.