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Question for my neice

I told her about the ViBride sistahood. She's engaged to be married as well. However her computer is out of wack and she's is not able to log on. Anyway she asked me to ask this question on her behalf. She is the same height as her fiance. She is a shoe diva and often wears 3" heels. However on her wedding day she doesn't want to be towering over her fiance, so she will be wearing flats. She asked me to ask, if there are any ladies who are the same height or taller than their fiances. Once the responses are posted, I will print them out for her. Thanks ladies.

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Question for my neice

I told her about the ViBride sistahood. She's engaged to be married as well. However her computer is out of wack and she's is not able to log on. Anyway she asked me to ask this question on her behalf. She is the same height as her fiance. She is a shoe diva and often wears 3" heels. However on her wedding day she doesn't want to be towering over her fiance, so she will be wearing flats. She asked me to ask, if there are any ladies who are the same height or taller than their fiances. Once the responses are posted, I will print them out for her. Thanks ladies.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I am about 5'6". My fiance is 5'10".

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No sorry, my FH is taller than me. However, if he were shorter I would see what would be most comfortable for him. If he says he wants me to wear my heels then I will and if not it would be flats. I've been in a similar situation before and felt like I needed to wear flats so I wouldn't make my ex feel bad. It turned out that I'm the one that had the issue he didn't. I guess that was TMI but hope it helped.

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Thanks for your response PB&J. I forgot to add that my neice's fiance doesn't have a problem with her being taller then him. It is her own insecurity.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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Hey Rhony. Congrats to your niece!!! I'm about 5'9 and FH is about 6'2. I'm going to wear a small heel because I don't want to be even with him - I still want him to be about 3 inches taller than me.

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She should wear a kitten heel if she feels uncomfortable being tall than him.

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I just don't get it!!!

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[quote="phenomonique"]She should wear a kitten heel if she feels uncomfortable being tall than him.
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Thanks for the congrats Askalot. Niquey, I will let her know. Also Niquey, she found a dress for her bridemaids in the brochure you gave her.

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My FH is about 5'6 and I'm 5'2, we are both little shorties and we look good together, however I dont think I will be waering tall heels. I dont wanna be the same height as him and I dont wanna risk breaking my ankle if I fall.Me and heels dont really get along so I will be going as flat as possible.
By te way Congradulations to your niece Rony.She really needs to join us as soon as possible,I am looking forward to hearing some of her plans...

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My fiance is barely taller than I am...When FH & I went to the mall one day, I tried on heels and stood next to him in each pair. I found out that I can wear heels up to 2.5" high when I stand next to him w/o looking taller than him. Also keep in mind his shoes might give him an extra inch on the big day.

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Excellent point Cinny, thanks.

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On a good day my husband and I look about the same height, but I'm taller and at first I was also insecure but in time I've gotten over myself. He's fine with it and as Niquey suggested I too wore a kitten heel on our wedding day and it was all good.

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[quote="DaughterRhonda"]<

Niquey, she found a dress for her bridemaids in the brochure you gave her.
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Cool, tell her to call me!

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