For all you ladies who feel like you're only inching ever so slightly towards your wedding day, today my dear husband and I are celebrating our 8 month anniversary and I'm sitting here amazed at how fast time flew. Just last June I was lurking on this site reading posts but not yet brave enough to share, until August, and I was received with such warmth, and now I'z married!
I've turned into a sporadic poster but still remain eternally grateful to Ms Rosetta for her vision and the older members for their support when I needed it most. Time will fly as more and more of us attain our marriage goal so I hope you buckle up and enjoy the ride.
Ok, I think thats it, oh wait BTW, one of our wedding songs was Orange Colored Sky by Natalie Cole and thats what we're bumping today so if you catch yourself humming it today, send your good thoughts and wishes our way please.
Now i'm really done y'all!
Stay in love and be blessed.
For all you ladies who feel like you're only inching ever so slightly towards your wedding day, today my dear husband and I are celebrating our 8 month anniversary and I'm sitting here amazed at how fast time flew. Just last June I was lurking on this site reading posts but not yet brave enough to share, until August, and I was received with such warmth, and now I'z married!
I've turned into a sporadic poster but still remain eternally grateful to Ms Rosetta for her vision and the older members for their support when I needed it most. Time will fly as more and more of us attain our marriage goal so I hope you buckle up and enjoy the ride.
Ok, I think thats it, oh wait BTW, one of our wedding songs was Orange Colored Sky by Natalie Cole and thats what we're bumping today so if you catch yourself humming it today, send your good thoughts and wishes our way please.
Now i'm really done y'all!
Stay in love and be blessed.
** It doesn't take the whole day to recognize sunshine **
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Hi Taunyana, wow! Congratulations on your 8-month anniversary! You are soooo right time does fly by ever so quickly. God is good. I tell you that was so encouraging for you to share those beautiful words with us. I wish you guys all the best, be blessed my sistah!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Thank you Ms Rhonda, I see that time is flying by for you too, congratulations.
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[quote="taunyana"]Thank you Ms Rhonda, I see that time is flying by for you too, congratulations.
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Thank you!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I missed this one...time is surely passing by so quickly.....everyone has months to go - wow!!!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Yipee I am so excited. When I first joined this site, I had more than a year to go.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Me too Rhonda. I remember when I first came on I had 14 months to go and now I'm down to 9 months and a week. The time is passing so quickly, where did it all go? It doesnt seem like its been that long since I've been here. I am so blessed and glad to be here to share in all of your plans and have you share in mines.
[quote="alvinslove"]Me too Rhonda. I remember when I first came on I had 14 months to go and now I'm down to 9 months and a week. The time is passing so quickly, where did it all go? It doesnt seem like its been that long since I've been here. I am so blessed and glad to be here to share in all of your plans and have you share in mines.
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And I've meet some wonderful women, it truly is an awesome journey!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="udunnome"]RHONDA are you sure of what your man is doing bc I know him personally and you should be concerened
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Okay what is this?!!! No negativity or drama is allowed on here....
thanks soontobe. since i am the newbie i did not think it was my place to comment. i read this sometime ago before i went to the florist and i did not appreciate it for rhonda
That's exactly why I have not responded. I have already reported it to Rosie.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]That's exactly why I have not responded. I have already reported it to Rosie.
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Good....I was about to get the VASELINE...and pull off my earrings....don't MAKE me ack igg-nant up in the piece!!
That's why I love yall -- I know you have my back -- LOL!!!
I feel sorry for this person, she doesn't realize that this is a positive forum for women who genuinely care about one another. This is a DRAMA-FREE zone!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
And we love ya back!
SURE DO!
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]That's exactly why I have not responded. I have already reported it to Rosie.
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WTF!? I disappear for a week & come back to drama? Some1 must wanna get served! Rhonda, I'm w/soon2be on this one b/c I got my timbs & razor ready if need be. :-)
Wedding stresses got me itchin' for a fair one over here!
Glad you didn't respond! You're too dignified for that!
"I's married now" - "The Color Purple"
Thanks again -- I so appreciate the support. I know exactly who this is. It is a coworker of my husband that has a severe case of jungle fever. She has posted on our sister site and she sent me about 6 pages of private notes on this site. I printed them all out and my husband took them to work and gave them to his Principal. The Head of the IT Department is doing a search and if they can trace it back to her, she will have hell to pay. Judging from the time of the posts, they were done during school hours. My husband's school also has security camera's in every room so it wont be hard to prove who this is. This woman belongs in Bellvue. My husband (his idea) and I are going to the police after work and file a complaint and get a restraining order against her. We knew it was someone from his job because she had too many specific details about his teaching schedule. Yall pray for me because I am annoyed and I'm trying to be the classy lady that my mother raised me to be.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]Thanks again -- I so appreciate the support. I know exactly who this is. It is a coworker of my husband that has a severe case of jungle fever. She has posted on our sister site and she sent me about 6 pages of private notes on this site. I printed them all out and my husband took them to work and gave them to his Principal. The Head of the IT Department is doing a search and if they can trace it back to her, she will have hell to pay. Judging from the time of the posts, they were done during school hours. My husband's school also has security camera's in every room so it wont be hard to prove who this is. This woman belongs in Bellvue. My husband (his idea) and I are going to the police after work and file a complaint and get a restraining order against her. We knew it was someone from his job because she had too many specific details about his teaching schedule. Yall pray for me because I am annoyed and I'm trying to be the classy lady that my mother raised me to be.
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We're praying for you...most defintely! Just continue being who you are.....your husband seems to be taking care of this so that wonderful..shows what kind of man he is! I'm sure she will get what she deserves...I can't stand chicken-heads...
I know..I know... that's not Christian-like...please scratch the last part of my sentence from the record....lol
Too funny Soontobe! This way (Christian) is soooooooo hard sometimes, that's why I'm glad I have you guys.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Rhonda,
Remember your vows "Let no man put asunder"!
I'm glad that you two are handling it in the fashion that you are. Remain dignified & a few prayers won't hurt! :-)
Good luck..
Can't resist this..but she's a stool-pigeon! (Sorry ya'll for being "un-Godly" for a moment! But, I had to let that one out.
"I's married now" - "The Color Purple"
I'm glad that you're handling the situation well, Rhony. I usually try not to respond to this type of ignorance because that's what she wants. You're doing right by not entertaining her.
But, I am on my way to Massachusetts and I'm not happy about this trip. The good thing is that I will pass through your area. If she continues with the drama, Platinumstyle will pay this chick a visit. Remember, I'm working out.lol!
Born Blessed!
MrsRobinson2b thanks for the reminder. I love my husband and trust him completely. The devil is a liar! Anywho, you ladies are too funny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Rhony, hang in there. Ignorance is sometimes hard to ignore, especially when it's so blatantly immature and not to mention disrespectful. I love your response to the situation, and the way you TWO are about to handle it. She's the one who is gonna need prayers when the soon to be jailbird out there searching for a new job!
The devil IS a liar!
So true my friend.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Rhony, I'm glad that you and your hubby are handling this. And handling it the right way.
After you've proven that is indeed this crackhead, print out this post too becuase she also posted at night (which probably wasn't during school hours but who knows).
I hate when grown ass crackheads resorts to this type of behavior. And add STALKING to the charges as well. How in the heck did she track you down on this site and the sister site?
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And add STALKING to the charges as well. How in the heck did she track you down on this site and the sister site?
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That's my question!....She's got some serious issues..
I didn't even think of that. Thanks, you are right ladies. This woman probably did the "leg-work" at night to find me (CRAZY, stalking, twilight-zone, soap opera nonsense). Then went to work armed with her information. All of the private notes that she sent me were during the day. This is truly bugging me out! Anyway, they are investigating and she admitted to going on the websites, but insists that she did not do the actual posts. She is out of her ever-loving mind.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]I didn't even think of that. Thanks, you are right ladies. This woman probably did the "leg-work" at night to find me (CRAZY, stalking, twilight-zone, soap opera nonsense). Then went to work armed with her information. All of the private notes that she sent me were during the day. This is truly bugging me out! Anyway, they are investigating and she admitted to going on the websites, but insists that she did not do the actual posts. She is out of her ever-loving mind.
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Well, if she "claims" that she didn't do the posts, then simply proven, your husband can get her IP address of her computer used @ work. If it's a match, then she's busted!! Or, have them track the IP address of the computer she did the posts on. She's lyin' in my opinion no matter how you look at it!
Anyone wanna get some commissary/bail money together for this poor sad thing? B/c she's gonna need it! Oh yea..some1 hold her place on the unemployment line too...can you say bread, crackers, and water to cell block A?
"I's married now" - "The Color Purple"
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]I didn't even think of that. Thanks, you are right ladies. This woman probably did the "leg-work" at night to find me (CRAZY, stalking, twilight-zone, soap opera nonsense). Then went to work armed with her information. All of the private notes that she sent me were during the day. This is truly bugging me out! Anyway, they are investigating and she admitted to going on the websites, but insists that she did not do the actual posts. She is out of her ever-loving mind.
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Well you were smart enough to print out the messages and posts so that should be more then enough to prove she is lying. This is on some Lifetime Movie Network stuff for real! I just can't believe the lengths some people will go to....lordy
Sad but true! My husband told me that they took her and another teacher's computer and will be doing what they need to find out if it was her or not. Girlfriend is just plain 'ol busted!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
This is a classic example of some people having too much time on their hands. I saw her post on the sister site as well. Rhony, you know the sistahood still has your back!Lol.
Born Blessed!
You ladies are soo mature and grown up. I however was born and raised here in Newark, all I need is an address, phone # and photo. I got you!!!
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GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME; ALL THE TIME GOD IS GOOD. WHEN IN DOUBT, PRAY
Taj, it is not always easy to be the 'mature' one in certain situations ;-) This is one is different, because the loonygirl got caught. You notice she hasn't returned.
I'm a married woman as of December 2, 2006.
Delight yourself also in the Lord & He shall give you all the desires of your heart.-Psalm 37:4
[quote="TAJMOM"]You ladies are soo mature and grown up. I however was born and raised here in Newark, all I need is an address, phone # and photo. I got you!!!
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Taj girl you are hilarious!!!! AAAGGGHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAA!!! Too funny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="Cinamin1"]Taj, it is not always easy to be the 'mature' one in certain situations ;-) This is one is different, because the loonygirl got caught. You notice she hasn't returned.
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You are so right Cinny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Rhony, I'm in Massachusetts today but I'm headed back to Florida with my next load. Call me if you need me to stop by!Lol. (Singing Jill Scott's old song)
Queens shouldn't swing
If you know what I mean
But I think I'm about to take my earrings off
And get the vaseline....
Born Blessed!
LOL!!! Too funny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
platinum, that is my fav verse of all times.
Raysbride, I guess I'm taking this to heart but I dealt with more drama than I could stand last year. But, I'm glad my girl Rhony has the situation under control.
Born Blessed!
[quote="DaughterRhonda"]That's exactly why I have not responded. I have already reported it to Rosie.
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I alerted Rosie the minute I saw it. ViBrides do not tolerate behavior that is tacky and certainly will not allow a Queen to be disrespected.
Thank you Musik, great advice!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="udunnome"]*bleep* all of u
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very mature.....
Taj, I am certainly with you girl. You can swing by and get me or vice versa. lol
Yes, she is certainly mature. She's upset that she TRIED to make a problem and her tail is the one looking STUPID!!!!! Some women really, really need a life and, most definately, GOD in their lives!
[quote="udunnome"]*bleep* all of u
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Loser.
Sad really.
[quote="udunnome"]*bleep* all of u
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LMAO!!! udunnome, with ignorant statements like that, guess what. We don't want to know you! It's a shame that you have to go to such lengths to get attention. Pitiful!
Born Blessed!
[quote="udunnome"]*bleep* all of u
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Lord.....help her....and I mean that....
She's just mad because she doesn't have a good man and the one she wants is married to me! Poor thing!!!! I am just tooo tickled behind this. What a loser -- no class!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="udunnome"]You way off base because I'm getting married real soon (how I found this sight) nobody I don't your man nobody does. So you must mistake me for someone who cares about all you triffling bitches in this forum. You MAN is also very triffling but I am NOT the one he is with so CHECK YOURSELF!
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I have a question. If you don't want her man, why are you posting idiotic messages like that? Posting rude and disrespectful messages about someone's husband is not necessary. If you're getting married soon, congratulations. Please understand that we are all friends here; there's no room on the forum for negativity & ignorance. So what's up with all of the hostility? I would think that you would want to post positive messages instead of disrespecting yourself with "ghetto drama". Maybe you need to follow your own advice and "CHECK YOURSELF!".
Born Blessed!
Well said Plat.
[quote="udunnome"]You way off base because I'm getting married real soon (how I found this sight) nobody I don't your man nobody does. So you must mistake me for someone who cares about all you triffling bitches in this forum. You MAN is also very triffling but I am NOT the one he is with so CHECK YOURSELF!
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so in searching for info, help and assistance in planning ur own wedding u felt that raining on someone elses new marriage was more appropriate than what the forum was initially set for. like myself i know u monitored the site prior to posting so u would have known there was no such posting as that drama u threw down. so since i am still a work in progress for My Lord and not "there yet" like them meaning I still have a foot in the world I feel u have no penidng nuptials, u are spiteful purposefully, and u wish to cause havoc always meaning something is toppsy turvy in ur own world that u cannot control so let me throw salt somewhere else.
If by some probabilityy u are engaged i am graceful enuff to say congrats but i also hope the groom finds solice with a site for gentleman so someone can "school" him on the ins and outs of his intended. and if this is not a forum in which u just want to spew venom and mix already frazzled brides to be up y visit? throwing free speech out the window, y bother.u dont want any support 'cause the way u jumped out, go back to ANSWERS on Yahoo and indulge in the Family Relation sections and hit weddings. there are a lot of bitter people like ur self u can commiserate with.
and if u find some on min keep it to urself:)
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