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my dh and i are renewing our wedding vows we are doing it up dress bms gm recep and all do i wear a headpiece and veil or not

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my dh and i are renewing our wedding vows we are doing it up dress bms gm recep and all do i wear a headpiece and veil or not

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[quote="PEBBLES35"]my dh and i are renewing our wedding vows we are doing it up dress bms gm recep and all do i wear a headpiece and veil or not
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girl, your day, your way! I say wear whatever YOU want!!!!!! renewing of the vows are just that-you are starting anew, so don't think about you guys already being married...heck, I had a veil to wear and forgot to put it on because of rushing around getting ready :) so do what is going to make you happy!!

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Like Soon already mentioned, our mantra is Your Day Your Way. If you want tiara & veil, do tiara & veil. Choice is totally yours.

Not sure if you mentioned this somewhere before but how long have you been married? I can't wait to renew our vows. Then I can have fun planning something totally different than the first time. Maybe a destination wedding next time...HMMMM thinking.

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we've been married for 8years we wanted to do something different too we didnt have the wedding we wanted and we've been through so much in the 8 years but were still in love with one another we have nothing but memories of our first one so oct 11 were getting married again

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Do it your way! Do you have a picture of your gown? That may help with the decision. I've seen some gowns that look gorgeous with a birdcage veil if you didn't want to do traditional.

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i do the bridal salon zeroxed for me though but i dont know how to post it

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girl i think since u didnt have the wedding u always wanted on ure first wedding its time to make it happen this time :)... soo i wud adivce u to go with anything u like and make that wedding u always wanted happen ...im wishing u a great planning and everything . here ...If you want to post a picture that's saved on your PC, all you have to do is go to www.tinypic.com click browse and it will take you to your pc, all you have to do is go to where the picture is saved on your pc, select the picture by double-clicking on it and it will take you back to tinypic. Then click on upload now. Then select the one that says HTML for website, copy it and paste it to your message box on vibride. good luck!!

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Pebbles, this is your wedding, your dream wedding!!! I say BLOW IT UP DIVA!!! Have everything you want, Tiara and a veil or just a Tiara, have it exactly how you envisioned it to be. This is your chance to have all the things you've wished you've had for 8 years. BLOW IT UP!!!

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I opened a tiny pic account posted some pics went to the htmlcoppied it first then clicked paste cleared the box typed in pebbles35@vibride.com copied and pasted that come here and nothing WHAT AM I DOING WRONG I CANT DO IT WAH

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pebbles, you don't need to open a tinypic account to use it. All you have to do is go to www.tinypic.com, the page should say upload images and videos, hit "browse" to select the picture you want to post (if the picture is saved on your pc). Hit "upload now". Click to copy the first part that says "HTML for websites" then go to your vibride message and paste what you've just copied. Then hit "Post Reply" from Vibride and TADA!!! DONE!!!

Good luck to you Pebbles!!!

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im trying but once u copy it from tiny pic i go to the forum were i posted the message and how do i paste itonce on vibride what do i click on to paste it because right clicking is not allowing me to paste it you know what my head is starting to hurt but future ms up keep if you want to view the dress it is posted on tinypic i cant get it on here the email on tinypic is catina7850@msn.com password talia8 you'll need this to access pic the other few pics are me and my dh let me know what u think

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posting pic for pebbles

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Gorgeous dress Pebbles. You and DH make a nice looking couple.

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aww ty pamcrow ty so much for posting my pic and the compliment so sweet, that pic is life size the thing is huge and how on gods green earth did you do it and you reall could have posted the pics of me and hubby i wouldnt have mind at all thanks again smooches for pamcrow

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Pebbles, no problem, I got you. I don't know why pics turn out so large once posted but anyways, here's the pics of you and DH:

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LOVE the dress Pebbles! after seeing the dress, do the whole 9 yards...veil/tiara etc!! :) and BTW very nice pics of you and DH

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I agree with Soon, this dress deserves a veil and tiara.

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I love your dress. It is from davids bridal.
You and your husband make a great looking couple.

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no actually the dress was purchased at arlenes bridal salon im 6 foot and david bridal doesnt offer extra length so i paid more but it was worth it and the dress is a private label by g you can find it on house of brides.com under the name private label by g style 86434 thank you guys again for the nice compliments pamcrow i added th pic of my mock up centerpiece it needs something else but what?i thought and thought how to get it out of my email so i made a copy and scanned it into my hp image gallery and but it on tinypics aint that nothing i can do all ao that but cant gat the pics off of tinypics onto vibride go figure

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I agree with the other ladies - a veil is a must for that gown! Pretty! Also and updo or half up/half down for your hair would complete the look of elegance!

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Pebbles's mock centerpiece:

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Pebbles I think your centerpiece is fine the way it is. Just surround it with votives and some petals and you're good to go.

As far as your tinypic dilemma, once you upload your pics to tinypic, look for the code listed in the "img code for forums & message boards" box which is the second box. Copy the code exactly as written in box and paste it here. If right clicking using copy & paste aren't working for you, you will need to hand write code exactly as written. Remember to include the [img] part and everything in between. HTH.

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I agree! That dress is gorgeous and I think that you need to do it all this time around. I don't see anything wrong with having a veil and a tiara for a vow renewal and I don't think anyone else will blame you either. This is about you guys and what you want. BTW, you DO make a good looking couple. You should go all out

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thanks my vi sisters for the advice and compliments tiara and veil it is now what do i do for jewlery no pearls though. pamcrow how do i paste them to this site and where on this siteand futuremrskeepup i was thinking hair down and added with loose curls but i dont need a style with added height iam a little taller than dh so a full up do is out but i will have to find a nice half up and down style necklace suttle bling or mega bling

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Hi Pebbles. I'm suggesting mega bling.

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Pebbles I didn't mean a literal updo on the top of your head! LOL! I meant pulled back into a soft chignon (sp?). Check out the Essence hair gallery. It may give you some ideas.

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thanks for the link future but nothing really grabbed me i think i'll start playing around with different style hopefully i'll come up with something

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I say a little bling-as to not take away from the dress and especially if you are having a tiara-let that be the main "bling"

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Definitely Tiara and a veil. The length should come to your hips exactly where the skirting of the gown begins and the front part of the veil should be about elbow length.

Wow, sensational wedding gown and you and your FH are so awesome together!!!

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Beautiful dress. I think you should try it on and see...Thats the best way to really know. I had a very similar dress and chose to wear a veil and tiara, but only after trying on different ones....Take a pic in each veil and tiara, plus with the tiara and without the veil...I went with a simple veil because the dress itself is so extravagant, I didn't want to take away from the dress....It also would look good without the veil and just the tiara, but try it on and see!

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i did try it with and without and it was beautiful just the same family has been asking if i was wearing a veil like i m not supposed to thats why i asked my vi sisters and ty ginoue so much

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Pebbles I actually wouldn't do a necklace. Just a blingy bracelet and chandeliar earrings. I say this because of the bling on the sweetheart neckline of the gown. BTW, try ebay for a nice bling bracelet at a nice price! Fo earrings take a look at [url]www.whiteaisle.com[/url], also Nordstroms, Claires, and Macys.

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How about a variation of this:
[img]http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/black/pictures/060827tyrabanks1.jpg[/img]

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cute keepup i like the hair and the earings and ginoue is that a two tier or three your talking about

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Love the dress.... love the hair style

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Love the hairstyle. It would look gorgeous with your dress Pebbles. I'm just not sure it works with a tiara but you could still do a veil with it and some hair jewlery.

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i agree pamcrow how about a flower and my headpiece doesnt have to be a tiara when i tried on my dress they put one on me

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has anyone been on ebay they have beautiful and cheap tiaras and veils the bridal salon wants to charge me 240 for a tiara i think not ebays will do just fine for 25.00

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Actually, it's a two tier. And to that family (hater) I mean member (oops!!!) Don't worry about it. Just tell them that this is a vow renewal. You're already married to each other. You're not re-marrying someone else, and even if you were, you're entitled to have everything you want to. You're the Diva here and don't you forget it. It's your day, HEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!

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thanks ginoue you always know just what to say

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You're more than welcome Diva!!!

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is it ok to wear a flower in your for your wedding and should i get measured for a veil and what is the best under garmets for this dress i need the twins to say hello to hubby lol

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Hey Diva Pebbles, you wanted to wear a flower in your hair? I'm not sure what you meant since part of your post missed a word. Please clarify.

As for the twins saying "Hello" to your DH, just buy a David's Bridal Bra. It's strapless and covers your mid section like a corset, but comfortable too. Your FH could've been as blind as Stevie Wonder and still see your twins saying "Hello" (hahaha)

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thanks ginoue yes my sis matron of honor and some of the other bms wants to wear a flower in their hair i was thinking the same for myself how would that work

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Pebbles, take a look at these and see which ones you liked. I was able to find hairstyle example with flowers.

Choice 1 - Choice 2 - Choice 3 - Choice 4 - Choice 5 - Choice 6 - Choice 7 - Choice 8 -

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Pebbles, Choice #6 that Gin posted is vary similar to original pic Future posted of Tyra. The pic Gin posted as choice #3 is exactly what I was picturing on how to wear your veil with that side swoop style. You can do a flower right wherever your band meets the back pinned up part.

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awww how pretty i like 1,4,and six when my dress comes in i will do trial runs with several of these styles take pics and maybe post if i could ever get that right lol the first one will be the tyra with a deep swoop my face is a pie shaped thank you ginoue and pam your so good to me

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I think you'll be more than gorgeous in any of those hairstyles as they would compliment your gown very well.

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Ok ladies the dress it is getting closer to Oct 11 and the closer i get the crazier i get sister is preganant now she told me her aunt flow has been coming but she knows her body she scheduled doc appt she said doc cancelled she was going to have a top now this broad is telling me im gonna be an auntie again now we had to go to the salon and find her a maternity dress bm dress order should have gone in two weeks ago but my d cousin pussyfooted around i told the owner whether she comes today or not order goes in on monday.bridal salon owner ask sister how far will she be in oct she says EIGHT MAYBE NINE MONTHS SHE HAD AN ULTRASOUND AND DOC SAID SHE IS BETWEEN 13-19 WEEKS ARE YOU KIDDING ME.dress is in tried on i love it they put a veil for 180.00 on me with a tiara for 150.00 and owner tells me she hasnt taken any of my money in awhile so i need to order right now IS SHE NUTS not 180.00 for some tulle and 150.for some metal that will change colors after its worn my dh would have a baby hiself im thinking ebay

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Congrats on finalizing your dress and the new bundle of joy.

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