Ladies,I usually keep things like this to myself but I really need to vent...Last Sunday,my FH and I were visiting his family.His sister-in-law came over but nobody paid her any mind.She left soon after.Later,I was outside with some of his cousins and he was inside talking with the fellas.She calls my cell but I didn't answer.(We don't get along).A minute later, a strange car pulls up,makes a u-turn and pulls in front of the house.Someone rolls down the window and yells my FH's name.He comes out of the house,walks to the car,and says "What do you want?".He then turns around and calls me over to him.I walk over there and guess who?His ex-girlfriend!!I think I felt my blood boil.He introduces us and tells her there's no need to come around.I remained calm until she pulled off because I didn't want to let her think that she upset me by showing up.Long story short...his sister-in -law set this up!!I knew she didn't like me but that was the worst thing she could have done to me.I went looking for her but my FMIL and the rest of the family told me to leave her alone.She'll get hers.Even though this was a week ago,I still want to whip her a**.Thank you for listening,Ladies.
Ladies,I usually keep things like this to myself but I really need to vent...Last Sunday,my FH and I were visiting his family.His sister-in-law came over but nobody paid her any mind.She left soon after.Later,I was outside with some of his cousins and he was inside talking with the fellas.She calls my cell but I didn't answer.(We don't get along).A minute later, a strange car pulls up,makes a u-turn and pulls in front of the house.Someone rolls down the window and yells my FH's name.He comes out of the house,walks to the car,and says "What do you want?".He then turns around and calls me over to him.I walk over there and guess who?His ex-girlfriend!!I think I felt my blood boil.He introduces us and tells her there's no need to come around.I remained calm until she pulled off because I didn't want to let her think that she upset me by showing up.Long story short...his sister-in -law set this up!!I knew she didn't like me but that was the worst thing she could have done to me.I went looking for her but my FMIL and the rest of the family told me to leave her alone.She'll get hers.Even though this was a week ago,I still want to whip her a**.Thank you for listening,Ladies.
Born Blessed!
OMG Platinum, I am so sorry you had to endure that!!! Will the trifling people go somewhere and get a life!!! Even if she doesn't like you, she has to truly be miserable to sit and dwell on ways to upset your relationship. Shame on her!!! That is just terrible. Trust me the fact that you and your FH have a great relationship is punishment enough for her. When you see people go out of their way to make other people miserable, you know that they are missing the joy that you have. I would have nothing to do with this woman. I would however, enjoy the blessing that God has given me. Later for her sorry behind!!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Thank you,Rony.I'm trying concentrate on what's important--my wedding.But,believe me.This has motivated me to step my game up and work a little harder to let tricks know that they can't steal my joy.
Born Blessed!
Amen my sista, that's what I'm talking about!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="platinumstyle"]His sister-in -law set this up!!I knew she didn't like me but that was the worst thing she could have done to me.[/quote]
I know you're heated but now that I'm older I realize that it's the ultimate boost someone spends that much energy concern with you life! I think 'Damn I go it going on!' She's so envious of you, she's trying to make you as unhappy as she is! Go Platinum!!!!!! Damn straight, you got it like that! Tell her to put that in her pipe, throw her the peace sign, and blind her with azz!!
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
Wow Platinum! I am so proud of you. It would've taken EVERYTHING, and I do mean EVERYTHING within me not to curse her out and the SIL!!! Also, kudos to your FH! Now, that's what I'm talking about. He put her little trifling tail in her place as well. I wish you the best of luck!
It is truly a shame that a person is so miserable that they have spend more time wondering what's going on in your life, as opposed to creating a life full of joy for themselves. That is just mind boggling.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="SeptBride"]Wow Platinum! I am so proud of you. It would've taken EVERYTHING, and I do mean EVERYTHING within me not to curse her out and the SIL!!! Also, kudos to your FH! Now, that's what I'm talking about. He put her little trifling tail in her place as well. I wish you the best of luck!
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Believe me,that would have been my reaction!But,that's what this heffa wanted.She (ex) wanted me to curse and act a fool so that she and SIL can sit back and laugh about it.I didn't give her the satisfaction even though I wanted to put my fist down her throat for coming over there.
Born Blessed!
I forgot to mention that his SIL is close to 50.Isn't she a little old to play these games?
Born Blessed!
Yes it is Platinum! 50 and still playing these types of games is even more evidence, that this sista is even more miserable than I had originally imagined!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
'Today's topic on the Vibrant Brides Show, "Old Skanks and Their Drama:When will they get on with their lives?" Caller, you're on the air'
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Lol!Niquey you are too much!
Born Blessed!
Yes she is -- too funny!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="phenomonique"]'Today's topic on the Vibrant Brides Show, "Old Skanks and Their Drama:When will they get on with their lives?" Caller, you're on the air'
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"Uh, hello...am I on the air" "Oh, okay, well my name Lisa, but my peeps call me Big Lisa. Shout out to my girls from da class of '69". I founded out that 2 years ago my daughter's, baby daddy's, sista's boyfriend left her to go back to his wife. All 4 of us went and flattened all of his tires and sprayed painted his wife car. I told my daughter to take notes. Boy am I proud of my crew!!!"
This is a lesson to stay in school!!! lol
Askalot you are too much!!! HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="SeptBride"]
"Uh, hello...am I on the air" "Oh, okay, well my name Lisa, but my peeps call me Big Lisa. Shout out to my girls from da class of '69". I founded out that 2 years ago my daughter's, baby daddy's, sista's boyfriend left her to go back to his wife. All 4 of us went and flattened all of his tires and sprayed painted his wife car. I told my daughter to take notes. Boy am I proud of my crew!!!"
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Oh you da 1 flatten my baby cousin LaShaun step-sister Ambernaisse best friend Egyptina tires. Oh yeah me and ma tribe 'The Slap-a-Ho-Twice' crew been layin in da cut foe u!
Next caller......
ROTFLMBAO!!!!!
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
HAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
lol Niquey! That is too funny!!! And the sad part is I know there was a situation like these before.
Lol@You guys crack me up!
Born Blessed!
I am always laughing too. Whenever I need a laugh I know I can turn to the Vibride sistahood.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I play the hookey one day and ya'll gone crazy up in here...but I love it.
Platinum I ain't troubled by this at all,...your honey did the right thing and brought you to the car and introduced you...he stood up for you....me likey him :-)
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Thank you,Charley!I noticed that the boards were pretty quiet yesterday.At first,everyone thought I was angry at him but I wasn't.I was angry about the one that instigated the incident.
Born Blessed!
....that trifling heifer!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
People like her always end up lonely and they wonder why.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
So true.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="CharlotteModebe"]People like her always end up lonely and they wonder why.
[/quote]Exactly Charly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Platinum, you handled yourself like a true lady! The bottom line is your SIL can call whoever to whatever car and expect whatever result. However,if you turn to the end of the story... the page before The End. It says and the prince MARRIED his Princess and they lived happlily ever after!!! At the end while the credits are rolling and they give the 10 year update, the ex is STILL alone and miserable. Everyone knows misery loves company.
Coppertone
On 5/27/06. Two families became ONE
[quote="CharlotteModebe"]I play the hookey one day and ya'll gone crazy up in here...but I love it.
Platinum I ain't troubled by this at all,...your honey did the right thing and brought you to the car and introduced you...he stood up for you....me likey him :-)
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That is my feeling exactly! I cannot STAND the air my SIL breathes. She is the nastiest person I know. I really hate her because she is over 45 and looks like a model, but her attitude is so UGLY! I wish I could say that she will stop being a Bitch, bu experience has taught me better.
You are one classy lady Platinum!
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Ditto!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
That is my feeling exactly! I cannot STAND the air my SIL breathes. She is the nastiest person I know. I really hate her because she is over 45 and looks like a model, but her attitude is so UGLY! I wish I could say that she will stop being a Bitch, bu experience has taught me better.
That's right,Rosey.I know what you mean.I tried to be nice to my FH's SIL.(She's married to his brother).But she has a nasty attitude and when she's intoxicated,she doesn't care what she says or does.I tried ignoring her but after this stunt,I realize that she can't hurt me. SHE CAN ONLY MOTIVATE ME!I'll give her more of a reason to envy me.
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Born Blessed!
[quote="platinumstyle"] SHE CAN ONLY MOTIVATE ME!I'll give her more of a reason to envy me.[/quote]
That's speaks volumes right there!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
SET IT OFF platinum i'm proud of ya gurl!
[quote="virtuousV"]SET IT OFF platinum i'm proud of ya gurl!
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Thank you,V.Believe me,it wasn't easy to try to keep my cool.Also, thank you all for your comments.I feel much better about the situation since I posted this story.
Born Blessed!
A support system - that's what we are!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
OMG!!! I'm glad you didn't act a fool, but if you catch her in a bathroom or dark alley, whip that %$#@^!
The sistahood is off da hook!!! HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
We all seem to have a little "She Devil" in us!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
A little!? My cup is full honey!
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
HAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="phenomonique"]A little!? My cup is full honey!
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That's the sign of knowing you have a problem - first admitting to it --LOL!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
LOL!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
[quote="TonyaLanette"]OMG!!! I'm glad you didn't act a fool, but if you catch her in a bathroom or dark alley, whip that %$#@^!
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Lol!I haven't seen that trick since!
Born Blessed!
I'm sure you're not missing her either!
Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!
Bump for the newbies
Born Blessed!
You should off wooped her---! and asked questions later, and cut her sister off.
"WHAT GOD HAS FOR ME,It is for me!
June 20,2009 Ill marry my soulmate!
Lol! I just don't deal with her at all now. She tries to be "friendly" but I don't even answer my phone when she calls. I told her off a few months ago when she called me with some negative bull-jive. Oh well, misery loves company and I prefer to walk alone. :-)
Born Blessed!
Y'all are too funny!!!! I'm trying to keep from busting out laughing in my cube! WOW you are a beast for not getting "the look" on your face. You know that "Do you believe because, I'm going to make you see Jesus face. That "I'll have timberland upside town and backwards in your forehead face." That "It will take divine intervention to get my foot all the way out of your tail" face.
Because all of that...would have been broadcasted across my grill!
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All I can say Plat is that you are truly a class act. I would have stomped a knot in her. Rested and stomped another one. She would be forever praying that I wouldn't have a flashback, get in my car, catch a plane, to hunt her down and stomp another one in her.
Love lights even the darkest of paths.
What Fire doesn't destroy, only makes stronger.
Even when you don't know; God knows. I will be still and let Him do His thing.
Alone in the world; but always in the company of the Lord.
[quote="Tewright1"]All I can say Plat is that you are truly a class act. I would have stomped a knot in her. Rested and stomped another one. She would be forever praying that I wouldn't have a flashback, get in my car, catch a plane, to hunt her down and stomp another one in her.
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Lol!
Born Blessed!
Plat I believe you and your fh handled the situation perfectly. I would have changed anyghing. Anyone can act a fool, but only a mature person can handle situations like adults. Had that chick looking stupid.
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