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Weddiing Jitters

Ladies, I would like to know if having cold feet,or having dreams,and the nervous pockets this soon, I'm not gettin married until July 2010, I think it's way to early to be feeling like this. Share with me your thoughts, or why there comming.

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Weddiing Jitters

Ladies, I would like to know if having cold feet,or having dreams,and the nervous pockets this soon, I'm not gettin married until July 2010, I think it's way to early to be feeling like this. Share with me your thoughts, or why there comming.

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Well wedding2010...I know there is a post that was started on this issue awhile back...

I think what you are feeling is absolutely NORMAL. Before I got married, I dreamed about different issues (all bad of course) occuring, so just keep a positive outlook on the situation.

I'm going to try to find the post..

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I think when you are in planning mode and you have

all sorts of wedding ideas,plans,suggestions and wedding funds

on your mind its totally normal to have all the jitters.

Even though your wedding is in 2010 you are still planning and its on your brain..lol!!! I always have jitters...Sometimes I

just have to take a day to myself and not think about

the wedding planning but its very very hard.

Remember To Always Be Fabulous!!!

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I had dreams of running away during the ceremony. Saying "I don't" Instead of "I Do". All of this is normal. You will always need to pray and evaluate things as this wedding date gets closer and closer. Stay close to God, and listening to your heart. Keep lines of communication open with your FH is important.

All of these jitters will pass.

After all of mine, I didn't shed a tear on my wedding day because I was ready to do it. I walked down the aisle slowly, gracefully, said my vows, and smiled hard after he announced us husband and wife. I was ready 20 minutes before the ceremony started, and spent the last few minutes aggravating and joking with my sister and other female family members.....Have fun, and stay focused, positive, and remember that you are not only planning your wedding, but your future-this is what made me simply look at it as starting a new chapter in my life...Starting anew and fresh was very exciting for me!

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We are starting to feel our wallets getting thinner. LOL We should have done a destination wedding. Some people are going to get cut from our list.....my list. LOL

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Wedding2010, I had dreams of the Minister being late, not showing up and refusing to marry us! I dreamed that everything went wrong, that I fell coming up the aisle. I don't know why these things happen, but it seems to be a normal thing as the ladies here have shared their experiences. Not to worry.

My day was everything I'd hoped for -- none of the things I dreamed happened. So as Bumble suggested stay positive & stay focused. Enjoy this time my sister.

Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37

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I'm always smiling, and I remember having a dream al my teeth fell out before the wedding. Not good. LOL!!

Living my life like it's GOLDEN!!

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wedding2010, I think my worst dream was about not having my hair done and having to sport a ponytail and no makeup down the aisle. When I woke up, I felt like crying but I had to remind myself that I know I would never walk down the aisle like that. I've learned to laugh at the dreams, so stay positive girl. Phenomonique, I thought I had dreamed it all but dreaming all your teeth fell out had me in tears over hear. You got me on that one. lol

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Thanks to everyone that wrote in I feel better now I just wanted to know was what i was felling normal this early, but reading the stories I know I'm not alone, especially the falling of the teeth. I wold have really been crazy I dreamed something like that, I probally would have been ready to call this off, but that would be the worst mistake ever, because he is a great man and i thank god each day for sending him to me. Once again Thank You.

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