Here is the situation. I really don't know what to do!?!
I have an Aunt that divorced her husband about a few years ago. Since the divorce, I haven't heard from her or seen her. Luckily, I am still in contact with the rest of the family.
Should I still invite her? Am I really obligated to invite her? However, I really truly feel that I might offend her if I didn't.
Here is the situation. I really don't know what to do!?!
I have an Aunt that divorced her husband about a few years ago. Since the divorce, I haven't heard from her or seen her. Luckily, I am still in contact with the rest of the family.
Should I still invite her? Am I really obligated to invite her? However, I really truly feel that I might offend her if I didn't.
My king...Behold our Kingdom!!! (Akasha to Lestat-Queen of the Damned)
How is it popssible to offend someone who you do not a current relationship with...stop stressing the small stuff. Invite people you are involve with and stressing yourself out.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
I really don't know what the proper etiquette is around such situations. But your wedding is your wedding and you should invite only those guests who you really want to share you special day with. You shouldn't invite anyone out of obligation or the fear of offending them. I would suggest invite her if you truly want her to be a part of your day. Anyway QueenAkasha, I'd like to wish you the very best....where ya been, haven't heard from ya in a while????
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Thanks for the responses
I have been running around like mad. I work and I go to schooland trying to organize a future wedding.
My king...Behold our Kingdom!!! (Akasha to Lestat-Queen of the Damned)
Oh my goodness QueenAkasha, you certainly have you hands full. I salute you for doing it all. We truly have some amazing women on this site!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Yes you are a phenomonal woman...big ups to you girl!
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
She is your aunt. Invite her. If she doesn't come, it will be through no fault of yours and it's simply the right thing to do.
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My question is...would you have to hire the privte investigator to find her to give her an invitation?
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
Thanks funny C.M., no it's not hard to find her. I can ask my cousin (her daughter)where her whereabouts are.
It is just I not sure if I should invite her. I might just break down and invite her. After all, when my cousin married, I was invited too.
My king...Behold our Kingdom!!! (Akasha to Lestat-Queen of the Damned)
But you has a consistant realtionship with the cousin right?...It's obviously this is bothering you. Do this, send an invitation...she may just not come but at least you conscience will be confortable.
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.
CM...yeah, I do have a consistent relationship with my cousin.
Like any other bride, I like to please. But, you can't please everybody.
Thank you so much for the advice. I do feel better.
My king...Behold our Kingdom!!! (Akasha to Lestat-Queen of the Damned)
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Lordy! lol
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Rosey...I know I stupid but I just trying to keep it real and take some stress of ma gurl mon :-)
Charlotte wishes you all a beautiful Christmas filled with loads of love, laughter and the true meaning of this blessed season.