I am finally back at work, I am going crazy with no computer at home! But not much has been going on. We had a wonderful holiday and new year. FH is moving in with me February 1st, so that will be a big change for both of us and we can finally save money for the wedding.
That's all for now. I haven't been doing too much wedding planning, I needed a break over the holiday.
We had a counseling session yeaterday that went very well. Things came up about sex and I realized that me being molested as a child is really affecting my sex life/drive. I am going to start some counseling sessions on my own so I can over come what has happened to me as a child. FH will come to sessions once a month. After I have begun to heal from my tramatic past, then we will go back to couples counseling weekly. Good thing we still have 2 years and one month until our wedding or else time would be ticking by fast!
Praise God that it was revealed now instead of after you started your marriage. I am so happy for you and I will be praying and praising God because you WILL be an overcomer!
I wish you all the best DW in your counseling sessions. I pray that God grants you the healing you need to move on in your relationship with your fh. Molestation is something that affects so many women, I commend you for having the courage to take steps to your healing. Be encouraged!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
It's a good thing that you have recognized that this is an issue. Unfortunatly at times women(men too actually) who have gone through something similar never face the issue and their marriage/relationship suffers. It takes courage an your behalf, and for that I commend you. (and FH) You certainly have time to get healed.
Thank you all for your words of encouragement and support. (I have tears in my eyes.) I can't wait to start the sessions alone so I cane begin to heal. Monday will be my first. I have felt so close to God since the new year has begun so I know I will be blessed in some many ways. I feel so good......... I am truly happy!!
Guess what else.... I offically booked the date and time with the resort for our wedding. So we will get married 02/27/09 at 4pm! Happy, happy, joy, joy!
[quote="coppertone"]Big things are happening for you in 2007 already. May God continue to bless you and strengthen you during your healing process.
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And the people said Amen!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
I had a nice weekend with FH and the kids. We went to a bridal show yesterday and met a travel agent that we want to work with. I am so excited, now I can send out the save-the-dates. I was waiting until we found a travel agent the guests could call. She knows a lot about the resort and has helped with travel for many destination weddings.
Today will be my first counseling session alone. I am a little afraid of what is going to come up.....
I will have to remember to do that next year!
I love online shopping, it is so convenient. I haven't had any problems thank God. I am very uncomfortable with crowds and long lines.
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Not to mention all of the nasty sales reps!
Hello to all who are following my blog,
I am finally back at work, I am going crazy with no computer at home! But not much has been going on. We had a wonderful holiday and new year. FH is moving in with me February 1st, so that will be a big change for both of us and we can finally save money for the wedding.
That's all for now. I haven't been doing too much wedding planning, I needed a break over the holiday.
We had a counseling session yeaterday that went very well. Things came up about sex and I realized that me being molested as a child is really affecting my sex life/drive. I am going to start some counseling sessions on my own so I can over come what has happened to me as a child. FH will come to sessions once a month. After I have begun to heal from my tramatic past, then we will go back to couples counseling weekly. Good thing we still have 2 years and one month until our wedding or else time would be ticking by fast!
Praise God that it was revealed now instead of after you started your marriage. I am so happy for you and I will be praying and praising God because you WILL be an overcomer!
Coppertone
On 5/27/06. Two families became ONE
I wish you all the best DW in your counseling sessions. I pray that God grants you the healing you need to move on in your relationship with your fh. Molestation is something that affects so many women, I commend you for having the courage to take steps to your healing. Be encouraged!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
It's a good thing that you have recognized that this is an issue. Unfortunatly at times women(men too actually) who have gone through something similar never face the issue and their marriage/relationship suffers. It takes courage an your behalf, and for that I commend you. (and FH) You certainly have time to get healed.
Thank you all for your words of encouragement and support. (I have tears in my eyes.) I can't wait to start the sessions alone so I cane begin to heal. Monday will be my first. I have felt so close to God since the new year has begun so I know I will be blessed in some many ways. I feel so good......... I am truly happy!!
Guess what else.... I offically booked the date and time with the resort for our wedding. So we will get married 02/27/09 at 4pm! Happy, happy, joy, joy!
Big things are happening for you in 2007 already. May God continue to bless you and strengthen you during your healing process.
Coppertone
On 5/27/06. Two families became ONE
Thank you Coppertone....
Oh DW I am sorry to hear about your encounter as a child. Hopefully, you and your husband can work things out.
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[quote="coppertone"]Big things are happening for you in 2007 already. May God continue to bless you and strengthen you during your healing process.
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And the people said Amen!!!!
Delight yourself in The Lord & He will give you the desires of your heart!Ps 37
Thank you ladies, it feels good to have your support.
I had a nice weekend with FH and the kids. We went to a bridal show yesterday and met a travel agent that we want to work with. I am so excited, now I can send out the save-the-dates. I was waiting until we found a travel agent the guests could call. She knows a lot about the resort and has helped with travel for many destination weddings.
Today will be my first counseling session alone. I am a little afraid of what is going to come up.....
Just remember to pray for strength, courage and wisdom. We all will pray for you also.
Coppertone
On 5/27/06. Two families became ONE
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